On August 17, 2012, Xu Qing, Ma Yili, Liang Guanhua and many other stars gathered in Babaoshan, Beijing.
On this day, they only came for one person, that is, the actor Li Ting, who is known as one of the "Three Golden Flowers of Nortel".
That year was the ninth year of her fight against cancer alone, but she did not overcome the disease in the end and died of grief.
On the night of her critical illness, her parents and young daughter were informed, but they could not see her for the last time.
Many actors in the circle sighed: "It's too sudden, but Li Ting is very strong." ”
It was also her strength that brought her marriage to an imperfect end.
And her last dynamic also stayed in the song "The Price of Love" sung by Li Zongsheng.
"Let's go, let's go, let ourselves grow up, life needs to be painful and struggling....".
Her life is forever frozen in that moment, and Zhang Zijian, the ex-husband who made her sigh so much, appeared at the farewell party with her daughter as scheduled.
At Li Ting's farewell party, her ex-husband Zhang Zijian cried silently, and at that time, he had already remarried.
Therefore, he chose to appear at this time, and he was quickly involved in public opinion, and the titles of "abandoning his wife and abandoning his son" and "rich wife" were pressed on Zhang Zijian's head.
In this regard, he did not argue much, and refused to respond to the past with Li Ting.
Now, Li Ting has been dead for 10 years, and what happened to Zhang Zijian, who was plagued by public opinion?
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Born in 1968 in Changsha, Hunan Province, Li Ting was able to sing and dance since she was a child and won the love of her neighbors.
Coupled with her beautiful appearance, when she was still in middle school, Li Ting was selected to join Changsha Television Station and began to learn the host's course.
But after that, she did not engage in the host, but plunged into the road of literature and art and became an actor.
At the age of 20, Li Ting applied for nortel and successfully entered the university door with excellent results.
Not only that, Li Ting, who has a cool appearance and outstanding figure, is also called "the three golden flowers of Nortel" with Xu Qing and Jiang Wenli.
Being able to stand out among hundreds of people and take off this title is enough to see Li Ting's future development.
Facts have proved that Li Ting, who has outstanding ability, has indeed achieved "a blockbuster".
In her sophomore year, Li Ting was rehearsing dramas according to school management, and the role she played was not female number one, but an old lady with slope feet.
Even if the role is not large and the character is not important, Li Ting still can play three points.
It is precisely because of this performance that she has been recognized by director Xie Jin, and successfully starred in "The Bells of Qingliang Temple" and won the role of "Xiu Xiu".
It was her first work and the beginning of her career in show business.
After that, Li Ting, who was still a student, starred in "My Heart Is Still The Same" and "Foreign Sister" again.
Especially after starring in "Foreign Sister", Li Ting's fame rose sharply, and she was equal to Chen Xiaoyi.
At that time, she was still in her junior year.
At the same time, a tall and handsome man entered Li Ting's world, and this person was Zhang Zijian.
The relationship between the two is that of a brother and a sister, and it is this relationship that continues to write the story of the two later.
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If Li Ting is born with superior conditions, then Zhang Zijian is a family strength.
His father was Zhang Zhikuan, an Allegro performance artist, and he was very well-known in the industry.
Zhang Zijian, who was born in a family of literature and art, wants to embark on the road of art, which is simply too simple.
So, under the influence of his father, he was exposed to Allegro from an early age and had already performed on stage at the age of 4.
After that, Zhang Zhikuan sent the young Zhang Zijian to the children's drama of Tianjin Television Station.
With the role of this play, Zhang Zijian successfully entered the show business circle.
In middle school, Zhang Zijian became the backbone elite of the youth team of the Quyi Troupe, and during that period, it was already common to go out to perform and walk the streets.
It is also this experience that has accumulated a lot of experience for his future performances.
It can be said that Zhang Zijian in his youth, with outstanding talent, was also placed high hopes by his parents.
It seems that becoming an actor is already a foregone conclusion.
Therefore, a year before Li Ting prepared to apply for the university, Zhang Zijian successfully entered the door of Nortel and became classmates with Zhang Jiayi, Kong Lin and others.
But since then, Zhang Zijian, who is angular and tall, has no longer been popular.
When the other students in the class got good roles and starred in movies and TV series, Zhang Zijian did not wait for his male number one, and even did not get a few bites of "broth".
When Li Ting was busy filming and busy with the rising period of her career, Zhang Zijian could not find a position for a long time.
It was at the beginning of the disparity in strength between the two that they met.
At that time, Li Ting just finished filming "Foreign Sister", and the whole country knew her.
But only Li Ting knew the unknown Zhang Zijian, and after going around, the two finally met.
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In the blink of an eye, Zhang Zijian and Li Ting both graduated and were all assigned to the Shanghai Film Studio.
And the power position of the two gradually pulled up the gulf.
At that time, Zhang Zijian, who had no audience popularity, could not receive any roles for a year.
However, Li Ting has successively wandered in the big crew and has starred in many big productions.
In order to help her boyfriend, Li Ting finally found an opportunity in "The Man with White Eyebrows" and sent Zhang Zijian into the crew to play the male number four.
Because there is no fame, even if he watches his girlfriend play against other male actors, Zhang Zijian has no choice.
Who made him grow a face that didn't please the audience?
After that, "The Great Man with White Eyebrows" blew up a wave across the country, and Li Ting, Xing Minshan and others became popular, but only Zhang Zijian fell.
At that time, Zhang Zijian was 27 years old and still reached the watershed of the actor.
Because in the early years of the show business, there was a saying: the male actor was not red at the age of 27, then there was basically no possibility of red.
At that time, even if Li Ting pulled Zhang Zijian onto the train of urban emotional dramas again, she still failed to make him popular.
Instead, it fell into the strange circle of supporting characters.
On the contrary, Li Ting herself, because of starring in the film and television drama of the "Police Series", not only became famous, but also won the 16th Feitian Award for Best Actress.
But even though the fame and status are so disparity, the two still went from love to marriage.
Soon after the marriage, Li Ting temporarily lived behind the scenes and began to raise a baby with peace of mind.
Zhang Zijian, who was not popular, also began to find another way, resigned from the Shanghai Film Studio, and turned around and walked into Qian Yanqiu's company.
But even the double attack of urban drama and historical drama has not enabled Zhang Zijian to realize the dream of great popularity.
How ironic is it that the proud version of the son of heaven is a teenager, but it reflects the obscure youth all the time?
Time flashed by, and after Li Ting gave birth to her daughter, she once again devoted herself to the filming of film and television dramas.
With the previous excellent reputation, since her comeback, many hot dramas have been thrown into her arms,
Looking at her husband, whose career was not outstanding, Li Ting decided to continue to help him to the position.
However, just when this wish could not be fulfilled, Li Ting's body took the lead in problems.
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At first, Li Ting, who suddenly felt unwell, did not take it seriously, but the increasingly frequent and increasingly strong empathy made her have to go to the hospital for examination.
It was also this test that found the cause of breast cancer.
It turned out that her career was just red, and she opened the bleak script of the second half of her life.
In 2003, this always optimistic woman became a terminally ill host, but she did not make a big splash.
On the contrary, few people know the truth about Li Ting's illness, and even the family does not know it.
And only Wang Qian, an insider, knows that Li Ting has breast cancer, and she has never mentioned it on her social platform.
But Zhang Zijian, as a husband, seems to have no reason not to know.
But at that time, he was busy with the filming of "Detective Di Renjie", and the lives of the two suddenly changed after this film and television drama.
In 2004, the broadcast of "Detective Di Renjie" made Zhang Zijian, who played "Li Yuanfang", become popular overnight.
And that expressionless face also became the hottest of the year, and Zhang Zijian finally waited for his highlight moment.
Since then, "Detective Di Renjie" has become his inseparable work and a catalyst for his fame.
Decades of struggle, soaring, but this joy has not made this family better and better,
Instead, it accelerated its destruction.
Just when the outside world thought that the relationship between the two was getting better and better, Li Ting and Zhang Zijian divorced in 2005.
After the divorce, Zhang Zijian got custody of his daughter, while Li Ting was alone.
On this side, the audience is still immersed in the news of the divorce of the two people, and on the other hand, Zhang Zijian made a new girlfriend three months later.
Only Li Ting remained, silently endured, bitterly insisted, and did not reveal half of the disease.
After that, Zhang Zijian took his daughter abroad, while Li Ting was still active on the screen.
With the passage of time, the marriage dispute between the two gradually subsided,
Zhang Zijian also remarried two years later, but Li Ting never considered personal issues.
At the time, everyone thought it was just an emotional story in the ordinary.
But it wasn't until after 2012 that people reacted, and there was a reason for Li Ting's strength and determination.
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In 2012, when Li Ting died, the past story about the two was restarted again.
And Zhang Zijian was even crowned with the hat of "scumbag" and "rich woman",
Suddenly, li Ting's illness and divorce were carefully analyzed by netizens.
Among them, there are two kinds of rumors about the divorce of the two people,
One is that Li Ting does not want to drag Zhang Zijian down and is determined to divorce;
The second is that after Zhang Zijian became famous, there were many warblers and swallows around him, and some people deliberately destroyed their families, thus forcing Li Ting to divorce.
Although the two did not respond, with Li Ting's reaction, it can be roughly concluded that either outcome can become evidence of Li Ting's divorce.
During Li Ting's illness, she often asked some director friends to help her contact work.
In her words: "I need money, I need treatment, I need to save money for my daughter." ”
Later, more posters who claimed to be relevant people came forward to respond: after 2004, some people used special methods to make Li Ting mistakenly think that her husband had signs of cheating, which was unbearable, and then took the initiative to divorce.
And why give up the custody of her daughter, director Lu Feng also responded for Li Ting: "Li Ting is worried that her daughter will not be taken care of after her death, and she is also worried that if the child gets along with herself for a long time, will she be unfamiliar with her father, and how should the child treat herself?" ”
With all kinds of concerns, Li Ting gave up the marriage and gave up the custody of the children.
And this is just one of the concerns of Li Ting's divorce.
Because after Li Ting's illness, she did not publicize the illness to the world, but firmly held this secret.
Even her family rarely knows that she has been fighting cancer alone for 9 years.
This is also enough to see that Li Ting is not only a strong woman, she also thinks about her family and relatives,
As a result, all kinds of arguments that "Li Ting can't bear to drag Zhang Zijian down" have risen from the ground.
Until the time of her death, Wang Qian, the only one in the circle who learned of her illness, responded: "Li Ting is very strong, so many years have not troubled friends and classmates, the only thing entangled is her feelings." ”
At this time, Li Ting, who has only been married and in love, is struggling with who she is struggling with, and may already be able to see at a glance.
And Zhang Zijian also hosted the funeral for Li Ting, and he looked even more depressed.
Although the two are no longer husband and wife, they are the parents of the child and the lovers who used to be together.
In order to protect their children, they have never revealed the secret of marriage and divorce.
In fact, after the two divorced, Zhang Zijian often supported Li Ting, but he was very low-key.
Moreover, in the third month after Zhang Zijian and Li Ting divorced, he met his current wife Fang Yun under the recommendation of a friend.
And only after two years did he get married and have children.
But Fang Yun graduated from Tsinghua University and is still an executive of a company, which still makes Zhang Zijian fall into the public opinion of "rich woman".
But it turns out that the two became shareholders of Beijing Yunxiang Construction together in the third year of marriage.
All these arguments are nothing more than speculations within all reasonable limits.
And the truth of divorce is what only Zhang Zijian knows best.
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After Li Ting's death, Zhang Zijian lived the most ordinary life with Fang Yun and his two children.
The two children have grown up in his company, and now he and Li Ting's daughter are developing in the United States.
After that, he has successively filmed a number of film and television drama works, but as he grows older, Zhang Zijian's physical condition is not as good as before.
In 2021, Zhang Zijian was injured in his foot due to filming, and he was once again concerned in a wheelchair and with a emaciated face.
Today, at the age of 53, he is no longer what he used to be.
Fortunately, although Zhang Zijian was deeply caught in the storm, his life was still simple and happy.
And about his past with Li Ting, it has long faded like the wind.
19 years have passed, the Sri Lankan has passed away, and he has once again lived a happy life.
And the daughter under his care, the sun grows.
What in front of her eyes is not what Li Ting hopes?