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01 ◆ The story of the beginning of the volume
On the weekend, there was a guest at home. He is an old classmate of mine, and over the years, he has traveled north and south, experienced many of the world's ditches and bumps, and suffered a lot of hardships in life. Now, he has finally settled his home in a small county not far from his hometown and lived a stable life. Talking about the fall of the year, the old classmate sighed and said: When you are down, you don't want to go to these four places, the reason is very realistic. So, what do these four places that my old classmate is talking about?
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02 ◆ The first place: a place where people are mixed.
People who came over said that our ancestors had warned us: People are poor and cannot be persuaded. Yes, when a person is down, it is often the time when his own people are poor, and it is also the time when his own people are light-hearted. In such a situation, if we go to some people's places where people are mixed, we are bound to encounter things that will embarrass us. It is said that "there are not many people who are miscellaneous", and where people are mixed, there are all kinds of people such as three religions and nine streams, etc., and there is a disturbing speech environment. If we get to such a place, we may not only encounter some people wearing "colored glasses", be ridiculed and ridiculed by them, but also be more likely to be treated unfairly. Therefore, when you are down, learn to bow your head, silently do your current things, and first find a way to meet your own food and clothing problems, which is the most important, and the place where people are mixed is really not suitable for us to go.
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03 ◆ The second place: the place where interests are disputed.
People who came over said that regarding the exchange of interests, the old ancestor once sighed: The hustle and bustle of the world is for profit, and the hustle and bustle of the world is all for profit. What does this sentence mean? The meaning of this sentence is that people all over the world flock to the world for the sake of profit, and run for the sake of profit. Yes, in the place of conflict of interests, it is often also a place of conspiracy, and it is also a place of crisis. When we are down, with our identity, with our connections and resources, we cannot intervene in these circles of interest. If we get to such a place, we will not only suffer the exclusion of these dissidents of interests, but also very likely to encounter the blow of their "rising up and attacking them", which will be a great obstacle to our comeback. Therefore, when a person is down, he must know how to avoid the place of conflict of interests and take a detour, which is the practice of a smart person.
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04 ◆ The third place: the place where the bees fly butterflies dance.
The people who came over said that the old ancestors warned us: A knife on the head of the color character, the pomegranate skirt will not escape. Yes, when a person is in the scenery, if he does not keep the bottom line of his emotions, likes to spend days and drinks, likes to be drunk and drunk, it is inevitable to go to some erotic places, or like to go to some places where bees and butterflies dance. Then, such a person, in the end, it is easy to fall into the peach trap and find it difficult to extricate himself. And a person is downcast, if he is lured by others, to such a place, naturally can only become the other party to be consumed, which will cause great obstacles to our reputation and the development of our second half of life. Therefore, when a person is down, he must know how to keep the bottom line of his emotions and not go astray, thus missing the second half of his life.
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05 ◆ The fourth place: the place where classmates gather.
The people who came over sighed: When a person is down, try not to go to the class reunion. Although class reunions can bring us some opportunities, in many cases, class reunions have changed their taste. At the class reunion, many people like to show off themselves, and for us who are downcast, everyone naturally does not look at us, not to mention how they will help us. If we attend such a party, it will not only bring us a deep sense of loss, but also may have an impact on our classmates. Therefore, really smart people know that when they are down, they try not to participate in the classmate association, but choose to fight in a low-key and calm manner, to survive the most difficult period of life.
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06◆ Conclusion
After listening to the teacher's words, I nodded my head repeatedly. Yes, friends, when we are down, these four places, we still have to try to avoid going. You are also welcome to leave a message in the comment area, and everyone will communicate together: when it is down, what other places are there that we try not to go?
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