My little stone has been in kindergarten for almost a year, but in this year, the teacher has reflected more than once that my little stone's concentration in class is a little poor, not only does not listen carefully to the lecture in class, but also small actions are continuous, often disturbing classmates, but also running around during class.
At the beginning, I did not attract much attention, because in my heart, Xiaoshi was still very focused, and every time I watched the knowledge class on TV, I could seriously watch half a day, and playing games was also very certified.
However, after communicating with the kindergarten teacher several times, I let me know that the child's attention is superficial, which does not mean that the child's concentration is strong.
On the contrary, children often see TV and play mobile phones, but will affect the child's concentration, although the knowledge class on the TV is also to teach the child knowledge, but the child watches more TV, but the child will make the child more unfocused when learning in school, thinking that the school learning is too boring, which further affects the child's concentration.
The kindergarten teacher analyzed and concluded that if the child does not focus on the child and the concentration is poor, it generally has the following 4 aspects of performance.
For things other than TV and mobile phones, the focus time is too short
In many cases, when children watch TV and play mobile phones, they will behave very focused, and are often mistaken by parents for children with strong concentration, but this is not the case. On the contrary, the stronger the child's concentration on the TV phone, the worse the concentration in other aspects.
If you want to know the strength of your child's concentration, you still have to judge from the child's playing with toys, reading books, writing homework and other aspects. If the child is always procrastinating when doing these things, picking his nose for a while, looking for something for a while, looking around for a while, looking around in a daze for a while, and even running around looking for food, these all show that the child's concentration is poor.
The amount of time children of different ages also varies. To share a table of children's concentration time of different ages, you can judge whether the child's concentration is up to standard according to the form.
It is easy to be distracted unconsciously
Poor concentration, children are often easy to unconsciously distracted, just like the kittens in the picture book story "Kitten Fishing", when fishing, they are always attracted to other things, so they cannot concentrate on fishing as seriously as their mothers.
Therefore, when the child is writing homework, he may be attracted to the sounds of the outside world. It will even make people feel that the child has the ability to see the six ways and listen to the eight directions, and there is a little wind and grass in the outside world, which can arouse the child's attention, so that the child will be distracted and distracted.
It is easy to lose everything
Children with poor concentration are often prone to losing everything. I was playing with a toy a moment ago, and it may not be long before I don't know where to get it.
The child has such a performance, not that the child's memory is poor, but that the child's heart is not here at all. After playing with the toy for a while, and being attracted to other things, I threw the toy casually, and then I didn't know where to throw it.
Easy to wander in a daze
Focusing on his child is often prone to wandering. Children are prone to not being able to distinguish between priorities and priorities, and always focus on things that are not important.
This can easily lead to a very poor learning efficiency of children, because when children listen to lectures in class, they are distracted, and their minds and attention are not at all on the knowledge taught by the teacher.
Over time, the child's knowledge is more and more, and in the later stage, it is very difficult to make up for it.
So how can we improve our child's concentration?
In order to improve the concentration of Xiaoshi, I have been doing research on children's education, and I pay special attention to children's concentration. Experiences shared with teachers and extensive qualifications. Combined with their own practice, they summarized the following points to help improve children's concentration.
Now that my little stone is also in the first grade, every time the children listen to the class and listen to the lectures, they belong to the category of very serious. Therefore, my little stone has also changed from a child with ADHD to a well-behaved baby who can concentrate on listening to lectures, and is often praised by teachers.
Do not disturb children
Your child's concentration needs to be maintained. When I was a child, I was too caring for the small stone, and many times I asked for the child's illusory greetings, which may inadvertently disturb the child, which is very detrimental to the improvement and cultivation of the child's concentration.
Then I changed my strategy. Try not to disturb your child, especially when you are playing with toys or reading and learning. If it wasn't for the child coming to ask me and asking for it, I generally wouldn't interrupt the child.
Give your child the opportunity to think independently and solve problems
Parents are very concerned about the growth of their children, so many times, when they see their children making mistakes or cannot do anything about something; They will rush to point out the child's problem or provide the child with a solution to it. Although this approach helps the child, it deprives the child of the opportunity to think independently and solve problems.
You know, when the child encounters difficulties, the baby may be thinking independently on his own, but because the parents are anxious to help the child, the child is free of thinking. Over time, you can develop the habit of asking your parents for help when you encounter difficulties, which is also not conducive to the improvement and cultivation of children's concentration.
When the child encounters a problem, parents should not rush to point out and help, but should let the child think independently, even if the child asks us for help, it should also slowly guide the child to slowly find a way to solve the problem.
Guide your child to play more focused games
Children's concentration can be cultivated and improved, for example, let children play more games such as finding stubble, puzzles, blocks, mazes and so on, which can effectively improve children's concentration.
Use books to improve your child's concentration
Improve your child's concentration, in addition to not disturbing your child, give your child the opportunity to think independently, and let your child play more games and toys that help improve concentration. In addition, we can also help children improve their concentration with the help of books that help improve their concentration.
If there are children aged 2 to 6 years old, then we can play sticker games with our children.
The "Children's Concentration Training Stickers" that I used to play with Little Stone used to play, this set of stickers is a total of 16 volumes, divided into 16 themes, including sticker games such as finding different, maze games, item classification, digital Cubes, etc.
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Not only can exercise the child's concentration, but also improve the child's manual brain coordination ability, as well as improve the child's logical thinking ability, in addition, can also be the child's language and mathematics and other aspects of the enlightenment.
If you have a 6-12 year old child in elementary school, then we can also let the child improve their concentration by practicing words. I recommend to you a set of posters "Guoxue on the Tip of the Pen" that my little stone is using.
The contents of the Guoxue font on the tip of the pen are classic literary masterpieces, including some classic contents such as the Three Character Classic, ancient poetry, Analects, and Disciple Rules. On the one hand, we can let the baby practice words, and on the other hand, we can also enlighten the child in Traditional Chinese studies.
"Guoxue on the Tip of the Pen" not only has a hard pen calligraphy part, but also a brush calligraphy practice, and this set of fonts is made of quick-drying water writing cloth, which can be used repeatedly, and it can be used for a long time when you buy a set.
With the set of "Guoxue on the Tip of the Pen", children can repeatedly practice words and repeatedly review classic ancient poems. While practicing words well, you can also enlighten your children in traditional Chinese studies, laying a solid foundation for your baby to learn ancient poetry in the future.
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If you also want to improve your baby's concentration, then you may wish to take advantage of this summer vacation to prepare a set of picture books for your child, or prepare a set of word posts, and play stickers with your child or practice words together every day, I believe that your child will be full of harvest this summer vacation. #I'm doing creation in headlines##Meet a more beautiful childhood##张女子育儿 #