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In middle age, I found out that because of my selfishness, I pushed my child step by step into the abyss

author:The Eight Precepts talk about life

The birth of a child represents the continuation of a family's bloodline, and the child is the hope for the future of the family.

In middle age, I found out that because of my selfishness, I pushed my child step by step into the abyss

Born in the 1970s, I firmly believe that only reading can change my destiny, in order to let my children go out of the mountains, no longer repeat my path, from an early age I have been very strict with my children.

In middle age, I found out that because of my selfishness, I pushed my child step by step into the abyss

In order to let him study well, I never let him do any housework, and rarely let him go out to play with his friends. And the children are also very competitive, and the grades are always in the front, which makes me feel very relieved and feel that everything I do is worth it.

In middle age, I found out that because of my selfishness, I pushed my child step by step into the abyss

On his tenth birthday, he wanted a game console, and in order not to delay his study, I did not buy it for him, he did not cry, but suffered in silence.

In middle age, I found out that because of my selfishness, I pushed my child step by step into the abyss

When he was in high school, he was afraid that he would fall in love at school, and in order to prevent him from falling in love early, I gave him an inner bed. He studied hard in school, winning awards in every subject and taking the college entrance examination to a well-known university.

In middle age, I found out that because of my selfishness, I pushed my child step by step into the abyss

In the blink of an eye, he graduated from college, which made me breathe a sigh of relief and thought I could finally start enjoying my happiness. However, after graduation, his work did not go so smoothly.

In middle age, I found out that because of my selfishness, I pushed my child step by step into the abyss

In order to develop better, he went to work in a big city, rented a house of more than ten square meters, and ate a box lunch for ten yuan. Visiting him several times made me feel very heartbroken.

In middle age, I found out that because of my selfishness, I pushed my child step by step into the abyss
In middle age, I found out that because of my selfishness, I pushed my child step by step into the abyss

When he reaches the age of marriage, he still has to worry about his bride price money, marriage room, etc. Look at those who are the same age as him, some of them have not gone to college, but now they have a house and a car, and there are several children. Think again, I shouldn't have forced him to read in the first place, I should have given him a choice of what he liked.

In middle age, I found out that because of my selfishness, I pushed my child step by step into the abyss

Even though reading can have more choices, we still hope that we respect our children's own choices, three hundred and sixty lines of action, we can't let children complete our unfulfilled dreams

In middle age, I found out that because of my selfishness, I pushed my child step by step into the abyss
In middle age, I found out that because of my selfishness, I pushed my child step by step into the abyss