It is said that there are roughly three kinds of relationships between men and women in love, and men are the first kind of women, such as Mei Lanfang. His three wives, Wang Minghua, Fu Zhifang and Meng Xiaodong, were all from Peking Opera

It is said that there are roughly three kinds of relationships between men and women in love, and men are the first kind of women, such as Mei Lanfang.

His three wives, Wang Minghua, Fu Zhifang and Meng Xiaodong, all came from a Family of Peking Opera, and the first two gave up their professions to take care of the housework for his career, so that he was not burdened by trivial matters and concentrated on achieving artistic careers, and they could all "serve people" with a low profile. But Meng Xiaodong is different, she was a rare new woman at that time, iron bone ornamentation, a pride and aura, her happiness not only comes from marriage, but also from the recognition of the world, she longs to love ken and not beg for love, she needs "human service".

The second is that men complete women, and perfection is not only material support, but also spiritual improvement. But there are obviously not many fortunate women like Georges San, and how many women can sit with the four most outstanding men of our time — the poets Musé and Heine, the novelist Mérime, and the composer Chopin? The first three were driven away by her for various reasons, and Chopin lasted only ten years, and these colorful experiences made her "Conso Aero".

The third is that men and women complete each other, like Sartre and Beauvoir, the closest partners and confidants in each other's lives and careers, they are shockingly independent of each other, they try to find intersections all their lives but they cannot rely on each other for a long time, and they sacrifice each other with "Existence and Nothingness" and "The Second Sex".