5 years ago, the fire of "In the Name of the People" made people remember many of the high-energy famous scenes.
Especially Hou Yong ate his meal, tearfully saying, "I didn't spend a penny."
He obviously played a corrupt official, but at this moment, people felt a kind of sadness.
As a powerful old drama bone, his acting skills can be independent, and the "Rush Out of the Amazon" that he starred in was repeatedly watched by many people.
But compared with his film and television works, Hou Yong's emotional experience is even more amazing!
The first wife is his classmate after 60, the second wife is a post-70s, until the third wife, is already a post-90s, according to time calculations, when he and the first wife married, the third wife was born!
How did this old drama bone with outstanding acting skills do it to let many beautiful women succeed in the past?
Heartless willow lining
In 1967, in a couple of ordinary workers' families in Qingkou Town, Lianyungang, Jiangsu Province, a newborn child was ushered in, and the family hoped that he would be a brave and upright person in the future, named Hou Yong.
Hou Yong was young
The so-called person is Hou Yong as the name says, Hou Yong when he went to school was too naughty, and was often called a parent by the teacher.
After such a long time, he even began to skip class, did not go to school well, and his parents could not take care of him, so they went with him
Fortunately, in 1982, Hou Yong finally reached the age of 15, and he began to look for jobs everywhere without the heart to study.
Due to his young age and no work experience, he started with some low wages, sometimes working hard to earn 1 yuan a day, and even then he felt very satisfied.
Later, the parents could not see that their son was so hard, and found someone to support him to let him work in the meat factory.
No matter how much meat he sells every day, You Yong's salary is fixed, just like the town where he lives.
The life that can be seen at a glance makes his impetuous soul more and more uneasy,
He and his friends spat bitterly and expressed their depression.
Sometimes opportunities are really important, as if they are destined in the dark, and you can't go away if you should be.
It was an afternoon in 1987, and his friend Zhou Huilin pulled Hou Yong, who was only 20 years old, to "accompany the exam", and this time the exam rewrote his fate.
Zhou Huilin and Hou Yong (right)
Hou Yong came out to work early, and dealt with people many times.
He was not afraid of the stage when facing the exam, and after seeing the teacher, he sang a song generously.
Coupled with his handsome appearance, he actually passed the exam, and his classmates carefully prepared not to be admitted, but instead achieved him.
Hou Yong, who was admitted to the school, was entangled in his heart, he had no money to pay for tuition, and if he gave up his current job, his parents might be furious.
After much deliberation, he decided to go, after all, selling pork is not a long-term solution.
As he thought, his father vigorously opposed it, on the one hand, he felt that it was unreliable, on the other hand, his family was ordinary and incapable of supporting him to study.
Hou Yong was determined, "You don't have to worry, I will take care of myself."
His parents couldn't see him coming back, so they could only let him go.
Hou Yong came to the Jiangsu Drama Academy with the big cake that his mother had baked for him overnight.
Wang Jinsong was his classmate, and when he saw him bring a large cake, he wanted to taste it.
Hou Yong was reluctant to give it to him, also because this was his ration for a long time to come.
Even Wang Jinsong had seen Hou Yong holding this piece of cake, bouncing off the moldy place and then eating it, even if this was not willing to break the broken place and throw it away.
Even if life is hard, Hou Yong is also happy in it, and what makes him even more fluttering is that here, he met his first love, who was also his first wife, Shen Rong.
The swallows fly apart and the feelings are firm
Compared with Hou Yong's poor life, Shen Rong can be said to be a rich lady, her family is superior, and she won the Feitian Award at a young age.
The girl who had just opened her heart admired the self-motivated poor boy, especially after Hou Yong worked hard to save money and bought the fruit she was reluctant to eat and gave it to Shen Rong, she was deeply moved.
The kind Shen Rong knew that this time the fruit might be his meal money for several days, she was distressed by this stupid boy plus she was also from Jiangsu, and the two fellow villagers had more topics.
Slowly I came together holding hands with him.
Shen Rong
In 1989, after graduating from the Jiangsu Theater Academy, Hou Yong was recommended to work in the Nanjing Military Region Repertory Theatre, while his girlfriend Shen Rong went to the Nanjing Repertory Theatre.
Two people in different positions, progressing together.
In order to get together with his girlfriend as soon as possible, and for his own career, no matter what role is arranged in the drama troupe, Hou Yonglai does not refuse.
At this time, Shen Rong was more well-known than him,
With her outstanding appearance and skills, Shen Rong starred in works such as "The Story of Double Bridge" and "Hotline", and later even won the Feitian Award for Best Actress.
In 1992, Hou Yong plucked up enough courage to propose to Shen Rong, who had been waiting for this day and gladly agreed to marry him.
After marrying Hou Yong, she slowly gave up her career and supported hou Yong behind his back, in her opinion Hou Yong is not bad, but lacks an opportunity to get ahead.
At that time, Hou Yong was very lost and felt that he had no place to play.
When the crew came to Nanjing to shoot a drama, he rode a bicycle to the crew to introduce himself.
After marriage, Hou Yong rode a bicycle to run the crew every day in order to support his family, as long as there was a role he would play, although most of them were dragon sets, he did not complain, and some directors saw his lonely and nameless small roles, waved his hand and let him go.
Hou Yong
The humiliation he received outside during the day was hidden by him before entering the door every day, so what Shen Rong saw was always a warm and responsible Hou Yong.
In 1997, Hou Yong, who was already 30 years old, did not have much improvement in his career, and when he returned home, he was depressed.
Shen Rong saw that he had something on his mind, so she wanted to take the initiative to enlighten him and propose to have a child to make the family more complete.
Hou Yong was grateful that his wife understood him so well, plus his wife was only two years younger than him, and as an actor, he was willing to give up his career to have children for him, and he did not know how to repay her.
But he also has concerns, the career has not yet stabilized, he is afraid of economic problems, Shen Rong comforted him, "In fact, you now earn enough money for both of us to spend, save a province, the cost of both of us is enough."
Children of Hou Yong, Shen Rong and friends
The two men had just begun to prepare for the arrival of a new life, and soon, something unfortunate came,
Shen Rong suddenly fell seriously ill, her health deteriorated, and when she was serious, the hospital issued several critical illness notices.
Hou Yong pushed off his work during that time, accompanied the bed in the ward every day, turned her over, scrubbed for her, and almost all the work of the nurse was done by him.
He sat in front of the bed with his beard pulled, and the whole person looked tired and old,
I didn't dare to imagine how much of a blow shen rong would have hit Hou Yong if she hadn't woken up.
Originally, the two people could still make up some, this serious illness, they borrowed a lot of money from relatives and friends,
Fortunately, God has eyes, and Shen Rong was discharged from the hospital safely.
In order to repay the money, Hou Yong worked harder to shoot the scene, but the salary he could get for those roles he played was only a cup of water, and he simply cut down on food and clothing.
Sometimes I am only willing to eat once a day, and in the winter, when the car breaks down, I push it all the way home, repair it myself, and then ride it.
Watching her husband crawl and play for many years, but also to be dragged by himself,
Shen Rong was distressed by his dedication to himself, the honor and disgrace between husband and wife, and what was more important than living well?
Once unable to pull down her face to ask for help, now, she can no longer sit still.
Stills from Shen Rong's early years
Picking up the phone, Shen Rong contacted the director she had known, said good things one by one, and matched Hou Yong, hoping to win a role for him.
In 2001, "Rushing Out of the Amazon" became popular all over the country and became the top box office in cinemas.
Hou Yong lay dormant for many years, and finally accumulated thick hair.
With this work, he won the Huabiao Award for Best Actor.
At that time, in his acceptance speech, Hou Yong publicly said: "I will take more time to take care of my wife and family, because without her, I would not be where I am today." ”
Hou Yong and Mu Lixin stills of "Rushing Out of the Amazon"
After getting a generous reward, Hou Yong was willing to take a taxi home for the first time, he sat on the car, his hands covered his face and tears spilled from his fingers.
He could pay off his debts and give his wife some good life, and after so many years, he finally waited for this opportunity.
In 2003, he took over the historical business war drama "The Great Dyeing Workshop", in which he played the indian and dyeing industry wizard "Chen Shouting".
Hou Yong's performance in the play is meticulous, and this play also made him win the "Golden Eagle Award" audience's favorite actor award, and the "Feitian Award" Outstanding Actor Award, and for a time Hou Yong became a hot male star.
Poster of Hou Yong's "The Great Dye Shop"
In 2004, 37-year-old Hou Yong was constantly promoted by his parents, especially his father, who was anxious to hold his grandson and could not get around the topic of children every time he called.
Hou Yong was embarrassed at both ends, his wife's health was not suitable for pregnancy, and his parents were pressed tightly, he could only perfunctorily agree every time, and he could drag on for a while.
Sometimes Shen Rong and Hou Yong returned to their hometown, and in the face of their in-laws and mother-in-law, they reminded them openly and secretly that Shen Rong's heart was not a taste.
She also wants to have a child for her husband, which can not be physically allowed,
Hou Yong would always stand up and speak for her at this time, "We are preparing, rong rong has been working hard lately." ”
Hearing them say this, the second elder had to give up, but when there was no one, Shen Rong couldn't help but lie on her husband's shoulder and cry, "It's my body is useless, and I haven't had children for so long.."
Hou Yong in turn comforted her, "Let's go with the flow, and I am also satisfied with my life now."
The two men hugged each other silently, and they had been working hard for the sake of the child.
Because of his work, Hou Yong often needs to socialize, he began to go in and out of various hotels to participate in dinner, it is inevitable that there will be people with hearts who will have something to say to him.
Coming and going, Hou Yong was unable to defend his bottom line.
In 2005, Hou Yong was photographed by the media walking close to the actress Pan Yuchen, who was 11 years younger than him.
Although it was a scandal, it had a great impact on his image, and then the two came forward to deny it, and the matter finally ended.
Later, when the two collaborated on the work of "Battlefield Soldiers" again, it was exposed by the media that the two did not shy away from flirting with the crew, although the two denied it again, but everyone felt that this time it was definitely not empty.
When the news reached Shen Rong's ears, it was not a taste.
She began to question Hou Yong, this kind of scandal cannot come out of thin air,
So she began to panic in her heart, and couldn't help but quarrel with Hou Yong, and in the end, this former couple still went to divorce.
Once hand in hand through the ups and downs, now life is good but a different heart, marriage is their own choice of the road,
Even if there are grievances and regrets along the way, she hides her tears in her heart,
And Hou Yong, he has guilt in his heart, he has reluctance, but he can't make up for it, he only hopes that in his future life, they will be safe and beautiful with each other, these are his sincere wishes for Shen Rong.
In 2010, Hou Yong and Shen Rong finally ended their 18-year marriage, turned around, and he seamlessly connected with the gossip heroine Pan Yuchen.
I had a wish to have children but I couldn't keep my marriage
Hou Yong married Back Pan Yuchen, who was 11 years younger than him, and knew that Hou Yong was anxious to have children, and Pan Yuchen gave birth to a daughter for Hou Yong not long after marriage.
Hou Yong closed his mouth happily, and swung a feast to celebrate the birth of his daughter,
At the moment of the birth of the child, he and his parents were in tears of excitement in the hospital.
After so many years, he finally gave an account to his parents.
Hou Yong and Pan Yuchen wedding photos
Pan Yuchen recovered quickly after childbirth, she was young and beautiful, and gave birth to a child for Hou Yong, she thought she had captured Hou Yong's heart,
Can have no fear, which cheng thinks, Hou Yong has a child, as if he has completed a task, he put his energy into the work,
Most of the year was soaked in the crew, and the child was almost thrown to Pan Yuchen alone in care.
At this time, Hou Yong's parents began to give birth to the second eldest, had a granddaughter, and wanted to have a grandchild, making a good word.
Pan Yuchen, who was often urged, was annoyed, and she began to complain to Hou Yong that the two of them quarreled all day for trivial matters.
Even if there is no shortage of food, drink, food and clothing, Pan Yuchen can not stand this kind of "widowed marriage" after a long time, she took the initiative to divorce Hou Yong, and the children lived with her, and Hou Yong agreed.
Mei Kai could not let go of the regret in his heart three times
Hou Yong, who was single again, met his third wife Wang Rui at a friend party in 2016, who is an outsider and a post-90s generation.
Wang Rui was more than twenty years younger than Hou Yong.
The first time he saw Wang Rui, Hou Yong fell.
He began to initiate violent pursuits, dating, watching movies, buying luxury goods,
Hou Yong seemed to have returned to his youth, like a hairy boy.
At this time, the fire drama "The Name of the People" made him well known to everyone again, and in this year he married his wife Wang Rui, who was in his 20s.
At the wedding, the parents were happy that their son had married a beautiful daughter-in-law, and told Wang Rui to "have a child early, so that he can recover!" ”
Wang Rui smiled and said nothing, Hou Yong stood next to her and said, "We will prepare these."
With Wang Rui, You Yong is like a spring breeze, and after marriage, the two people often appear together for activities and travel and climb mountains together.
Hou Yong in order to have children, active fitness,
From the photos he sent, it is not difficult to see that he is in good shape and full of spirits, and compared with his peers, he is almost 10 years younger.
But no matter how hard you try, there has been no news of pregnancy since marriage.
Hou Yong has always regretted in his heart that he could not have a son when he was young.
Now that I am older, marrying a young wife has not fulfilled this wish.
He is now 50 years old and three times into the city, just to fulfill the wish of having a son,
When he first divorced Shen Rong, he had reluctance in his heart, and compared with his full heart, Shen Rong lived freely.
After divorcing Hou Yong, she has been living alone, because of her poor health, she has reduced her workload and occasionally starred in dramas.
Most of the time I spend my time drinking tea at home, or going to a sparsely populated village.
The whole body and mind are nourished by nature,
For Hou Yong, she kept her mouth shut, and in the past, if she was already in the clouds, she could no longer shake her emotional ups and downs.
At this time, Hou Yong's second wife, Pan Yuchen, after divorcing him, lived alone with her children.
Although he has successively starred in some TV roles, there is no big splash, almost unforgettable,
Her mind is on the child, and occasionally Hou Yong contacts her daughter, and she will not interfere.
Hou Yong, who is 54 years old this year, married Shen Rong after 60 in one marriage, Pan Yuchen after 70 in the second marriage, turned around and married Wang Rui, a third wife after the 90s, and did not care about being said to be "old cows eat tender grass" and "dashing old drama bones".
He just lives his life behind closed doors, this year is the 12th year of his divorce from Shen Rong, one is nursing his body, and the other is a third-time wish to enter the city.
Maybe this is life, love each other and not be able to keep each other, support each other after a journey, the next journey, accompanied by blessings, only wish for a good life.