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After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

author:The great nannan who loves entertainment

"I have had 20 relationship experiences, and when I was in love, I was dumped by my husband Guo Xiaodong 20 times."

In a variety show, Cheng Lisha seriously exposed her relationship with her husband

The guests next to them were stunned

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Only mutual tolerance in a relationship can last

It is clear that the love between Cheng Lisha and Guo Xiaodong lacks this factor

In the face of her boyfriend's repeated "abandonment", why did Cheng Lisha not get angry, but instead married him without hesitation

In the end, what kind of way of getting along makes this "white rich beauty" and the "poor boy" Guo Xiaodong die?

Is Cheng Lisha's marriage in exchange for humility really happy?

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Guo Xiaodong, Cheng Lisha

01

Cheng Lisha was born in Wuhan in 1977 to a family of civil servants, and her family lived a wealthy and worry-free life

As the only daughter in the family, she was loved by her parents and was an arrogant "little princess" since she was a child.

In order to let her daughter develop in an all-round way, her parents sent her to learn dance, performance and other arts

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

In 1997, the 20-year-old Cheng Lisha was successfully admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy and became classmates with Yang Rong, Yu Zheng and others

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Due to her outstanding looks and excellent grades, As soon as she graduated from college, Cheng Lisha entered Beijing Renyi to work

Soon, he starred in "One Person Is Not As Good as Two People", "Love Code",

Film and television works such as "If You Don't Marry" and "The Secret History of Taizu", they have become rising stars in the show business world

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Unlike Cheng Lisha's smooth life

Guo Xiaodong was born in a village in Linyi, Shandong Province, to down-to-earth farmers with meager incomes

Coupled with the mother's long-term poor health, the family's life is very poor

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

In the second year of junior high school, because he could not get 34 yuan of tuition, he chose to drop out of school and go out to work with his brother

Before the brothers left, their mother gave all the family savings of 15 yuan

They gave it to the two brothers, and then they followed the migrant workers from the same village to Weifang

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

After arriving in Weifang, he first found a job digging water

Because the environment was simple at that time, he did not even have a mask when working, so he had to endure the stench of work

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Although the process is hard, the rewards earned are not bad

After a long time, Guo Xiaodong also saved a lot of money, but the first job was not finished

The contractor in charge of the distribution of work took Guo Xiaodong and his party to Qingdao

But after doing it in Qingdao for a while, Guo Xiaodong not only did not make money

He was also deceived by the contractor, causing him to have to return home in disgrace

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

After eating a long and wise meal, Guo Xiaodong, who was deceived, found a job as a printing factory worker in his hometown

In 1992, 18-year-old Guo Xiaodong was flipping through a magazine

I accidentally saw the news that North Shadow held a summer camp to recruit students

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Looking at the news in the magazine in his hand, Guo Xiaodong's young heart began to stir

He wanted to go out into the world to see and break through

After that, Guo Xiaodong took the 1,000 yuan borrowed from the east and west and stepped on the train to Beijing alone

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

During the half month of summer camp

Guo Xiaodong had the privilege of systematically studying acting at film school

Follow the team to visit the North Film Studio, everything is so novel

After the summer camp, Guo Xiaodong, who was still unfinished, made a bold decision

He wanted to stay in Beijing and apply for film school to become an actor

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

A year later, Guo Xiaodong took the admissions exam for Beiying

Without any acting experience, he regretted not even passing the initial test

But Guo Xiaodong did not give up, in order to realize his dream of being an actor

He resolutely stayed in Beijing and began a years-long career of wandering, acting as a group performer and running a dragon suit

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

In 1996, Guo Xiaodong, who ran the dragon suit for many years

Relying on the performance experience gained by running the dragon suit, he applied for the Beijing Film Academy again

This time he finally got his wish

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Guo Xiaodong cherishes this hard-won learning opportunity

As a result, he became the hardest student in the class, and the opportunities were left to those who were prepared

After graduating from university, he was successfully admitted to the Bayi Film Studio and experienced for the first time a stable job

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

In 2000, Guo Xiaodong met director Huo Jianqi

Made a cameo appearance in the movie "Blue Love"

It was also this year that he participated in the movie "North Country Wind" and met "Bai Fumei" Cheng Lisha

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

02

When the two first met, they didn't look at each other well, and Cheng Lisha was very serious about her work

The requirements for the crew's costume are very high, and once it does not meet her wishes, she will complain

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Guo Xiaodong, on the other hand, thinks it is a good drama

The script is the most important, the rough Shandong big man meets the exquisite "big miss"

There was no unexpected friction between the two sides

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

In addition, the two did not have a lot of scenes in the film, and the two only worked together for 3 days

They went their separate ways, and Cheng Lisha quickly forgot Guo Xiaodong

And Cheng Lisha left Only one impression on Guo Xiaodong as a "mother"

The two did not leave any contact details

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

After that collaboration, the two did not contact each other for a long time

After that, Guo Xiaodong became famous by relying on the movie "Warm", and only then did the two reunite later

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

After becoming famous, Guo Xiaodong was invited to a party

It was at that party that Guo Xiaodong was attracted by Cheng Lisha's hearty laughter

He smelled and looked like Cheng Lisha was very familiar, but he couldn't remember where he had seen it for a while

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

With doubts, Guo Xiaodong walked over to Cheng Lisha and asked:

"Have we seen it somewhere?"

Cheng Lisha smiled and replied, "Have you forgotten that we have cooperated in "Northern Wind"? ”

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Guo Xiaodong suddenly thought about it, and then the two chatted along the way

During the conversation, Guo Xiaodong was surprised to find that Cheng Lisha was a very interesting girl

It's a little different from the original impression

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

He and Cheng Lisha talked for a long time that night, even more than they said during filming

As a result, he also developed a good feeling for the girl in front of him

After the party, the two left each other's contact information

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

After that, Guo Xiaodong often found various reasons to contact Cheng Lisha

He also took time to run to the theater to watch Cheng Lisha perform a play

Because the drama Guo Xiaodong likes Cheng Lisha more

The connection between the two became frequent with a common topic and soon became friends

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Guo Xiaodong saw that Cheng Lisha had a good feeling for him

So while it was hot, Cheng Lisha was invited out to eat

As the two became more and more acquainted, Guo Xiaodong couldn't help but prepare to confess

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Before confessing, this Shandong han with little experience in love

I did a lot of preparation and even consulted my friends who were in love around me

After some tossing, Guo Xiaodong concluded that girls like roses

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

After that, Guo Xiaodong bought a large bouquet of roses

Placed in the passenger seat of the car, he went to pick up Lisa in a nervous mood

Along the way, he imagined countless scenes of each other getting excited after seeing the flowers

I also prepared a long confession, and if I didn't succeed, I became a ren

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

After receiving Cheng Lisha, he waited expectantly for the other party to open the car door

When Cheng Lisha opened the car door and saw the bouquet of roses

First stunned, he said: "The co-pilot has released the flowers, and I will go to the back and sit down." ”

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Who knew that Cheng Lisha's inadvertent act had stung Guo Xiaodong's sensitive and fragile heart

In fact, Cheng Lisha was very happy when she saw the flowers

It was only because he was worried about Guo Xiaodong's money that he did not show too much surprise

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Cheng Lisha's move made Guo Xiaodong very disappointed

Coming from a rural background, he felt as if the other party looked down on him

I felt that the city girl was a little arrogant, so the first confession ended with the two of them being unhappy

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

After the confession failed, Guo Xiaodong did not pursue Cheng Lisha again for a long time

And Cheng Lisha, who does not know the reason, is still waiting for Guo Xiaodong's second confession

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

But when you wait and go, you don't see him showing favor to himself

The stubborn Cheng Lisha simply did not contact Guo Xiaodong until Guo Xiaodong figured it out later

Find Cheng Lisha to confess that there is a next story

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

The two were also sweet when they first got together

When he was in love, Guo Xiaodong fantasized about marrying Cheng Lisha every day

Secretly vowed to work hard to marry her home in the future, but the good times did not last long

The two people, whose living environments were very different from childhood, soon had differences over some trivial matters

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Some small friction between lovers seemed normal to Cheng Lisha

In the view of Guo Xiaodong, who has some introverted and inferior personality, it is an inappropriate performance of the two

Therefore, every time the two argue, Guo Xiaodong will not solve the problem at the first time, but often play missing

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Even if the boyfriend often makes such hurtful moves

Cheng Lisha did not blame him for this, nor did she think of separating from him

Every time, I find the reason from myself and try to accommodate my boyfriend by making changes

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

But no matter how humblely she gave, she changed herself

Her relationship with her boyfriend Guo Xiaodong is as poor as ever

Even often because of a small matter was broken up, in the years of dating, Cheng Lisha was dumped more than 20 times

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Hurt again and again, humbly retained again and again

Cheng Lisha was exhausted and finally after a fierce quarrel

Cheng Lisha was completely disappointed in Guo Xiaodong and immediately broke up with him

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

She then turns the pain of lost love into a driving force for moving forward

Has starred in "Happiness Comes You Shout",

Film and television works such as "Changing Son into Dragon" hope to forget the emotional pain through busy work

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

But Cheng Lisha, who loved deeply, could not forget Guo Xiaodong

Even two years after the breakup, she was still sad to think of Guo Xiaodong

Perhaps it was Cheng Lisha's obsession that touched the heavens, and fate arranged for them to meet again

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

In 2006, Chen Lisha, who was in a period of lost love, went to see Rene Liu's concert with her friends

Unexpectedly, the two crossed the crowd and magically parked the car together

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

When Cheng Lisha recognized Guo Xiaodong's car, she informed her friend at the first time

The friend jokingly said:

"Let's hide in the car and see who he brings to the concert."

But he couldn't put down Guo Xiaodong's Cheng Lisha for a long time

I don't want to act sad in front of my friends and rush my friends to leave

But instead of taking her away, her friend said:

"It's been so long that you can't let go of him, if you can't face him calmly,

It means that you still love him, blindly avoiding solving any problems, so what face do you want? ”

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

A friend's words completely woke up Cheng Lisha

After that, she no longer evaded but chose to meet with Guo Xiaodong generously

Later, Guo Xiaodong took the initiative to find Cheng Lisha, invited the woman to dinner, and cut off the love thread for two years and picked it up again

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Later Guo Xiaodong recalled:

At that time, I decided to save Cheng Lisha because of the filming of "The New Marriage Era"

Inspired by this, I felt ashamed of Cheng Lisha

Never ask for a girl again by its own standards

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Cheng Lisha also said that after reading Guo Xiaodong's blog with feelings

I realized that the man in front of me really "grew up" and became more mature and stable,

That's why she decided to give Guo Xiaodong a chance

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

03

"The New Marriage Era" not only made Guo Xiaodong

It also allowed him to completely retain Cheng Lisha's heart, and after the two were reunited for 1 year, the two registered for marriage

In November of the same year, Guo Xiaodong held a lively and traditional wedding for Cheng Lisha in his hometown in Shandong

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

For Cheng Lisha, a city girl, this wedding is full of novelty

The crowd of onlookers was several thousand

Let this girl deeply feel the sincerity and blessings of the villagers

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

At that time, there were media reports that Guo Xiaodong was married in a low-key manner in his hometown in Shandong

But in Cheng Lisha's eyes, this wedding was commented on by the outside world as "rustic"

It was a perfect wedding, a well-planned wedding and a lively scene that she will never forget

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

After marriage, the two were busy with their careers, and Cheng Lisha has starred in many film and television works

But there are few that can be taken out, and they belong to actors who are not popular in the drama

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

However, the career of her husband Guo Xiaodong began to advance by leaps and bounds, and he successively married Dawn and Li Ming.

Zhen Zidan and other "big names" cooperated and became a very popular powerful actor

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

After 3 years of marriage, Cheng Lisha gave birth to a son to Guo Xiaodong

Due to her husband's busyness, Cheng Lisha could only face problems on her own when she became pregnant

Even if he gave birth to a son, her husband Guo Xiaodong only stayed at home for a week

After that, he threw himself into intense work

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

In order to facilitate the care of her son, Cheng Lisha gradually faded out of the entertainment circle

Became a full-time wife who circled her husband and son every day

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

In an interview, Cheng Lisha said happily:

"After getting married, my husband didn't have to do anything, the actors were very independent,

If I let him work, he wouldn't need me. ”

From these words, it can be seen that Cheng Lisha has paid a lot for this family

It is inevitable that people feel that love is a little humble.

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

There is no quarrel between husband and wife

But once he quarrels, Guo Xiaodong will vent the pressure on his wife

After every quarrel, Cheng Lisha always served softly first

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

You should know that Cheng Lisha is a hot-tempered girl who has been loved by her parents since she was a child

Therefore, she has developed a confident and proud personality, and she is definitely not used to anyone on the outside

No one else is allowed to casually lose his temper with her, no matter who he is

But in front of Guo Xiaodong, it is the opposite, perhaps this is "one thing drops one thing"

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Due to the long-term husband and children at home, Cheng Lisha was gradually forgotten

Plus the entertainment industry is a place that changes rapidly

The housewife life directly led to a decline in her fame due to too low exposure

She hadn't received much drama for more than ten years

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

I don't know if I'm tired of living in obscurity, from 2018 onwards

Cheng Lisha began to participate in frequent variety shows, and last year participated in the variety show "Mother-in-law and Mother"

At the beginning of the show, Guo Xiaodong said that he had never brought a key when he was married for more than ten years

Every time I come back from filming, I can definitely see Cheng Lisha just after getting off the plane

Because Cheng Lisha will definitely wait for him at home and at the airport

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

When Guo Xiaodong said this, he probably just wanted to express his wife's meticulousness about himself

I don't want netizens to complain after watching it:

"Guo Xiaodong is almost like Cheng Lisha's son."

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Immediately after that, Cheng Lisha participated in "Sister Riding the Wind and Waves 2"

She's still good just by looking at her strength

It's just that her performance in the show has triggered a lot of discussion among netizens

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

When the other sisters came to the stage, they introduced their names

Only she said that she was Guo Xiaodong's wife

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

When the sisters rehearsed and chatted off the field, Cheng Lisha did not leave her husband Guo Xiaodong for three sentences

He asked others all the time if they had ever cooperated with Guo Xiaodong

It can be seen that her husband Guo Xiaodong will always be the first in her heart

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Compared with his wife's affection, Guo Xiaodong is a little cold

Especially when Cheng Lisha was eliminated in the later stage, Guo Xiaodong not only did not comfort his wife

Also posted on social platforms:

"Mrs. Guo Xiaodong, it doesn't matter if you are eliminated, hurry home and cook."

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

As soon as this article came out, the audience felt that Cheng Lisha was not easy

They all feel worthless for her, but Cheng Lisha has always vigorously defended her husband, and people are not good to say anything more

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

But these are not the ones that make people feel most humble

When "Sister Lang 2" was broadcast, Cheng Lisha was tragically "archaeology" by netizens

One of the articles made her marital status controversial

The article describes Cheng Lisha following her husband back to her hometown

You can't sit at the same table with your husband during dinner, and finally the village elders approve it, and then sit down to eat with your husband

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

In the eyes of many people, it is incredible, but Cheng Lisha is very proud

This also makes many people feel that Cheng Lisha loves too much without self

Single-mindedly living only for the husband's family

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

04

Although these things are how to see this is cheng Lisha paid more

The way the two get along is often complained about

But since Guo Xiaodong and Cheng Lisha have been married, there has never been a scandal

The two have gone through more than ten years of ups and downs, and their marriage has been calm and stable, and they are a rare model couple in the entertainment industry

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

In some programs, Guo Xiaodong's love for his wife can also be seen

Although Guo Xiaodong had called Cheng Lisha home to cook, in Cheng Lisha's self-description

He said that he had not cooked for more than ten years, and who made the meals in the family

Obviously, it is said that her husband Guo Xiaodong wants to teach her to cook

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Not to mention that Guo Xiaodong once blew himself up in the show

The financial power of the family has always been in the hands of the wife

I only have a change card, and when I have no money, I am looking for my wife to spend.

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Now it seems that Cheng Lisha seems to have humble feelings

But it is an incredibly shrewd method of marriage preservation

In the eyes of outsiders, she may be a wife who has lost herself

But in Cheng Lisha's own eyes, all her efforts are worth it

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

Cheng Lisha and Guo Xiaodong's marriage is not happy in the end

As bystanders, we have no right to evaluate, and can only say that the shoes do not fit or not, only we can understand

Only by understanding each other and embracing each other with heart can marriage be long-lasting and grow old

After 15 years, looking at Cheng Lisha's humble marriage, I understood why she insisted on marrying Guo Xiaodong

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