preface
Guo Kaimin and Zhang Zhihua are well-known film and television actors in the 1980s, and they are still active on the TV drama stage.
Guo Kaimin became popular in his early years with "Lushan Love" and became the first generation of idol Xiaosheng.
His marriage to Zhang Zhihua ended in just 6 years.
Zhang Zhihua and his son were homeless on the streets, but Guo Kaimin turned around and married You Yong's ex-wife Liu Xiaochun and lived a happy life.
Regarding the reason for their divorce, some people say that Guo Kaimin did not look up to Zhang Zhihua after he became red.
Some people also say that he cheated in marriage, and many years later Zhang Zhihua walked into the interview program and exposed the truth of the divorce between the two.
01
Guo Kaimin, born in 1958 in Changchun, Jilin Province, because his parents are geological exploration team members, running in the wild all year round, he grew up with his grandmother, and went to Shanghai at the age of 6.
He liked literature and art since he was a child, and because of his well-behaved appearance, he entered the school's literary and art propaganda team when he was in junior high school, and often went out to perform.
After growing up, Guo Kaimin's handsome and elegant temperament was highlighted, and he was very popular everywhere he went.
At the age of 17, the Shanghai Film Studio recruited talents in a hurry, so it recruited him and embarked on the road of acting.
Because of his young age, Guo Kaimin lived very hard in Shanghai, and when he was sick, no one took care of him.
At this time, Zhang Zhihua, who was the same age as him, noticed him and often took the initiative to help him, and Guo Kaimin was flattered.
Because Zhang Zhihua's conditions are too good, she is a native of Shanghai, and her parents are high-level intellectuals.
Zhang Zhihua was cultivated by his parents since he was a child, and he can sing and dance, and he can also sing Peking Opera.
Although she entered the group a year later than Guo Kaimin, she was highly valued as soon as she entered the group.
He has starred in four dramas such as "Exposure", "Thousands of Waters and Mountains", "Sweet Cause", and "Delivery Road".
And because Zhang Zhihua is simple and studious, the leader of the regiment, Zhang Ruifang, is also her favorite.
Always call her to the house to eat, open a small stove for her, teach her to perform hand in hand,
At that time, even Zhang Yu was not as good as her.
Because she is close to home, she often brings some delicious food from home to improve Guo Kaimin's food.
The two young people slowly became good friends, but they didn't quite understand the matter of love.
In 1979, Guo Kaimin received the first protagonist play in his life.
That year, the film studio was preparing to shoot "Lushan Love", and the male and female protagonists chose Guo Kaimin and Zhang Yu, who were still newcomers, respectively.
At that time, no one expected that this seemingly controversial film would go viral all over the country.
The film contributed a lot of "firsts" in the history of Chinese cinema.
The first "kiss scene": In the movie, Zhou Yun lies on a rock, and for the first time in history, in the camera, shoots the beautiful curves of the female body,
And "Confucius" Geng Hua looked at her, but there was no reaction, Zhou Yun smiled and complained: "Can't you take the initiative?" ”
Immediately after, she lightly kissed the unsuspecting Geng Hua on the cheek.
At that time, Guo Kaimin's face "poof" turned red, which was an absolutely real reaction.
And this real and simple reaction was all filmed, and this scene became the youthful memory of countless young boys and girls.
The film also filmed the scene of Zhou Yun and Geng Hua wearing tight swimsuits, which was also the first time in the world, very bold.
After the film was broadcast, it became a hit and won the Best Feature Film Award at the Hundred Flowers Awards in 1981.
And Zhang Yu also won the Golden Rooster Award and the Hundred Flowers Award for double film with this film,
Guo Kaimin did not win awards for his slightly immature acting skills, but his handsome appearance and elegant temperament have captured the hearts of countless young girls.
Chen Peisi once said: "Not only young girls, but even old men and women like him", which shows his popularity.
02
After the steady rise of his career, Guo Kaimin also reached the age when he should get married and start a family, in fact, he originally had a person in his heart.
That is Zhang Yu, when filming the drama, the crew hoped that they could really have feelings, which was more conducive to shooting and laying the foundation for the kiss scene in the last scene.
So often create opportunities for them, often pat and pat only the two of them, everyone else is gone.
In such an environment, Guo Kaimin was really moved, often taking extra care of Zhang Yu in the crew, taking the initiative to give her food, and chatting with her when there was nothing to do.
Zhang Yu understood her thoughts, and she kept a distance from him very sensibly.
Because Zhang Yu's requirements for the other half are older than herself, mature and stable, and Guo Kaimin is 1 year younger than her, which does not meet her requirements.
Lang has no intention of intention, and Guo Kaimin has no choice but to give up and continue to return to the group to shoot.
In 1980, Guo Kaimin and Zhang Zhihua co-starred in the movie "Good Things and Many Mills" and became angry because of the drama, and their friends for many years finally broke the middle layer of window paper and came together.
But Zhang Zhihua did not expect at all that he would be infamous because of a relationship.
Because Guo Kaimin and Zhang Yu are already the "golden children and jade girls" in the hearts of the audience,
They couldn't accept that Guo Kaimin had fallen in love with someone else in reality, and she was still such an ordinary girl, and they wrote letters to scold her.
Zhang Zhihua received these extremely ugly letters, and would only hide herself and secretly cry, but she loved Guo Kaimin too much, even if she was against the whole world, she would be with him.
After 5 years of falling in love like this, the two people finally got married, and it was also in this year that the Beijing Film Academy resumed external enrollment.
Zhang Zhihua and Guo Kaimin, who were eager to enter a higher school, were admitted at the same time, but an unfortunate news came from the regiment.
Considering that the shooting task in the group is also very heavy, the husband and wife can only have one person to go to school with a salary, otherwise they can only resign.
At that time, there was an iron rice bowl that was extremely important, and it could not be lost, and after thinking about it, Zhang Zhihua decided to give this opportunity to Guo Kaimin.
She felt that Guo Kaimin had hope for their family to be good, but she did not expect to push him into the arms of others with her own hands.
After Guo Kaimin arrived at the North Shadow, his horizons also broadened, he saw the larger world, and his heart became more and more wild.
He no longer simply wants to be an actor, but is influenced by Zhang Yu, who went abroad for further study, dreaming that he can also become a director and become a higher person.
In 1986, Zhang Zhihua gave birth to a son Guo Cheng, when Guo Cheng was born, Zhang Zhihua had difficulty giving birth and almost died of heavy bleeding, guo Kaimin did not return,
At this time, Zhang Zhihua already felt that the feelings between them were getting farther and farther away.
After giving birth to her son, Zhang Zhihua's figure went out of shape, because while filming while taking care of her son, Guo Kaimin could not help at all, her whole person has gone through a lot of vicissitudes,
And because of her stature, she can only shoot some roles like her mother, when she was only 28 years old, she had already lost her luster from life.
In 1987, Guo Kaimin directed his debut film "Pidgin Brothers", which received a very good response after being broadcast on Shanghai Television.
Guo Kaimin wanted to resign and transform his heart, he went back to discuss with Zhang Zhihua, resigned to be a director to shoot a play,
But Zhang Zhihua resolutely disagreed, and the two people broke out into a fierce quarrel.
Zhang Zhihua cried and said, "Do you know how much sin I have suffered with my son when you go to study all these years?" You only care about your own happiness, you can do whatever you want, if you resign and have no income, how can my son and I live? ”
Guo Kaimin is also very angry, he feels that Zhang Zhihua's vision is too narrow, he said with some disgust: "Your vision is so short-sighted, only look at the small profits in front of you, resignation may not have income in the short term, but after becoming famous, you can earn a lot more".
"You look at you now, with your children at home, your figure is out of shape, your vision is no longer good, what is the difference between you and a city woman?"
Zhang Zhihua listened to his words, felt that her personality was insulted, she never expected that her hard work, in the end, in exchange for a "humiliation", she sadly took her son back to her mother's house, Guo Kaimin did not even have a word of coaxing.
Later, he said in an interview: "I think my choice at that time was right, if the understanding of the two people cannot be unified, then sooner or later there will be an accident."
In the face of his grandiose words, the host pointed out sharply: "But you already had a family and children at that time, you are only responsible for your own career, are you not responsible for your family and children?" ”
Guo Kaimin immediately changed his mouth and said: "Yes, I have guilt for the child", and did not mention the apology to Zhang Zhihua throughout the whole process.
Later, Zhang Zhihua gradually found that Guo Kaimin returned home less and less, and even if he went back, he did not pay attention to the child.
In 1991, the two ended their 6-year marriage and went through divorce procedures, and Guo Cheng lived with Zhang Zhihua.
03
Speculation about the divorce of two people, which lasted for many years, neither of them responded,
Until many years later, when Zhang Zhihua appeared on the talk show and asked the host who mentioned the divorce at that time,
She was silent for a while, and then said: "I, I don't think I love why should I be together, it doesn't matter if I suffer as a person, but I can't hurt my dignity, hurt my dignity, I don't care who you are, turn around and leave." ”
"I belong to this kind of person, look very honest, but launch a stubborn temper, I am gun."
From Zhang Zhihua's silence, she could hear a lot of words she didn't say, and until now she was still protecting Guo Kaimin.
After the divorce, Zhang Zhihua was extremely painful, especially looking at his son who was less than 3 years old, he had no father at a young age, and felt very sorry for him.
But Guo Kaimin turned his head and had a new joy, completely not seeing the old people crying, nor caring about how his son was doing.
In 1990, when filming the TV series "Taiwan Boy", Guo Kaimin met the newcomer actor Liu Xiaochun,
She has also experienced a marriage, that is, with the actor You Yong,
The two fell in love in college and married after graduation, but the marriage ended in less than two years.
Because of the same experience, the two often chat and communicate in addition to filming.
Guo Kaimin feels that this girl not only has a pure appearance and a lively personality, but also has a very ambitious goal, and does not want other women to only know about her husband and godson, and her vision is short-sighted.
Even for herself, an actor who is much more famous than her, Liu Xiaochun also behaved not humble, peaceful and decent,
Guo Kaimin regarded her as a confidant and often told her his inner words.
When he talked about his unsupported dream of being a director, Liu Xiaochun also said his thoughts,
She said: "You are always in this circle, the field of vision cannot be broadened, the career can not be limited to here, you should go outside more to break in.".
This sentence of hers entered Guo Kaimin's heart, and he excitedly grabbed Liu Xiaochun's hand and said, "You coincide with my ideas, are you willing to accompany me to break in?" ”
Liu Xiaochun was not shy, she had long been in love with the mature and talented Guo Kaimin, but instead fell directly into his arms and said: "I do."
Liu Xiaochun did dare to dare to be bold, as early as the nineties, there was a magazine report:
She and Guo Kaimin went to Zhongguancun to buy a computer, because the salesman who received them, and in the middle went to receive another group of guests, Liu Xiaochun was very angry, angry on the spot and slapped the little girl.
Guo Kaimin not only did not persuade the fight, but also helped Liu Xiaochun quarrel, until later the store reported to the police.
Maybe Guo Kaimin originally liked this kind of spicy girl, and Zhang Zhihua was too meek and too unsinkable, which would make him more and more disgusted.
In any case, Liu Xiaochun did marry him, and accompanied him to resign and go to Hainan, set up a media company, and began a difficult business.
03
In fact, at the beginning, Guo Kaimin was invited by Hainan Television station to be a director to shoot a drama, but after going there, he found that he was deceived.
The TV station did not shoot him at all, nor did it have money to invest, but only arranged a job for him to host the program.
Guo Kaimin was angry and his liver hurt, but he had no choice, like a stab in the back as a host for a while.
In 1992, he couldn't stand such a life, so he resigned for the second time, started a media company with friends, and invested in making movies himself.
There is no salary, but also to the company to paste money, the last few million dollars of investment lost a fine,
The family's life is stretched, Liu Xiaochun had to go out to find a job in order to make a living.
But she can't do anything except acting, and finally only one property company hired her, Liu Xiaochun didn't want to go, came back and wrestled and said: "I am also a very famous actress, and now I actually let me work as a property manager, and I look down on people."
However, Guo Kaimin enlightened her: "We are no longer what we used to be, now here, who knows us, the previous light must be put down, and a down-to-earth life is the right thing."
At this time, Guo Kaimin really understood the painstaking heart of his ex-wife Zhang Zhihua, and only then did he know how ridiculous his good lofty ambitions were, not only ruining his marriage, but also ruining his great future.
But what can we do now, we can only work hard to move forward.
In 1994, Liu Xiaochun gave birth to a son, Guo Yihuan, and the children followed them and suffered a lot of sins.
Seeing that the director could not maintain his life, under the persuasion of Liu Xiaochun, Guo Kaimin returned to the show business circle to shoot when his son was 7 years old.
In 2001, he played a lovelorn in the stage comedy "Childcare" directed by Chen Peisi, and in February 2003, he officially returned to star in the anti-corruption and honesty drama "National Prosecution".
However, he has been away from the show business for too long, has completely lost the heat, and there is no response after the TV series is broadcast, and later he can only make cameos in some TV series.
After Zhang Zhihua divorced, in order for her son to live a better life, she did everything, hosting, dubbing, acting, singing, and once for a year, Chinese New Year's Eve she was still making money in the cave.
Although the scenes looking for her are some supporting roles, she cherishes every role and does not waste every opportunity.
Even in the role of mother-in-law, she also performed her own unique taste, her performance is relaxed and naturally grounded, very popular with the audience, and has become the "Mrs. Ichijing Professional Household" in everyone's heart.
In 1997, through the introduction of friends, Zhang Zhihua met the painter Zha Guojun, who was 15 years older than himself, and Zha Guojun was also divorced and had two sons.
Zhang Zhihua, who has been injured once, is particularly sensitive, and the real recognition of this person comes from a chat.
Zhang Zhihua saw that his paintings could not sell for a lot of money, so he asked him: "Why don't you paint that type of painting, isn't that more profitable?" ”
Zha Guojun said lightly: "I don't like the role, why don't you take it?" Wouldn't that also make money? If you don't like it, you can don't do it, and you don't have to force yourself. ”
If you don't like it, you can't do it, don't force yourself, this sentence touched Zhang Zhihua.
When people reach middle age and have experienced ups and downs, Zhang Zhihua's understanding of marriage is more transparent, and he also understands what kind of people are suitable for him.
After marriage, Zha Guojun treated Guo Cheng as his own son, and his son also liked painting because of him.
There are still occasional quarrels between the two people, but this kind of trivial fireworks makes them get closer and closer, becoming each other's spiritual pillars.
Now that Guo Kaimin and Liu Xiaochun's son is older and has entered the entertainment circle, the family of three also looks very happy.
And Zhang Zhihua finally found the person who made himself most comfortable,
In fact, there is no complete right or wrong in marriage, only whether it is appropriate, waving away from the past, they finally harvested their own happiness.