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In 1972, Li Ne divorced, and Chairman Mao wept when he learned the reason: Neva's family affair was too hasty

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What Chairman Mao most wanted to see was that Li Ne had a happy life and a happy marriage, but he absolutely did not expect that his daughter's marriage would be so short.

After receiving the news of his daughter's divorce, Chairman Mao shed tears of pain and said bluntly: Neva's family affair is too hasty!

Why did Li Ne's divorce bring such a big reaction to Chairman Mao?

Youngest daughter

In August 1940, Chairman Mao welcomed his youngest daughter, Li Ne, the only child he and Jiang Qing had.

In 1972, Li Ne divorced, and Chairman Mao wept when he learned the reason: Neva's family affair was too hasty

Compared with her brother and sister, Li Ne's life is undoubtedly lucky, she has enjoyed all the love and care of her father and mother.

During his career of struggle, Chairman Mao often had to abandon his wife and children for the sake of revolution.

The pain of his wife's separation was the last thing Chairman Mao wanted to experience, but he had no choice.

Perhaps he wanted to make up for the guilt of his previous children on Li Ne, or maybe he was a middle-aged woman who cherished it extraordinarily, in short, Chairman Mao gave Li Ne all his care and attention.

When Li Ne reached the age of school, Chairman Mao did not send her to a nursery or a kindergarten, but let her follow him all the time.

"Little Daddy" and "Big Doll"

As we all know, Chairman Mao is a workaholic who cannot stop once he enters the state of work.

No matter who persuaded him, it did not work, and how to get Chairman Mao to stop and rest became the biggest problem for the staff.

But everything has been different since there was Li Ne.

Chairman Mao's love for Li Ne is in everyone's eyes, and every time the staff see Chairman Mao lying at his desk for a long time, they will coax Li Ne to go to Chairman Mao's office.

When Chairman Mao saw the innocent and lovely Li Ne, even if the official business at hand was more troublesome, he would show a smile and either take his daughter to play or take her out for a walk.

When Chairman Mao wrapped Li Ne's pink little hand tightly with his big palm, she would laugh.

As the two walked, they told stories, and Chairman Mao always went out of his way to teach Li Ne to read and write, and to teach her civility and courtesy.

From this time on, the father and daughter had a little secret, Li Ne always called Chairman Mao "Little Daddy", and Chairman Mao always called her "Big Doll".

It can be seen how much joy, laughter and happiness Li Ne's arrival has brought to Chairman Mao.

In March 1947, the situation in Yan'an became tense, and Chiang Kai-shek mobilized 200,000 troops to launch an attack on the Shaanxi-Gansu-Ningxia Border Region.

Chairman Mao decided to take the opportunity to evacuate Yan'an and stage a "plan for an empty city" for Chiang Kai-shek.

In 1972, Li Ne divorced, and Chairman Mao wept when he learned the reason: Neva's family affair was too hasty

Even though the enemy's planes were constantly bombing the ground, and explosions were heard from time to time on the ground, Chairman Mao did not hesitate to take Li Ne withdrew from Yan'an.

He even pointed to the plane in the sky and said to Li Ne: "You watch the plane bombing, listen to the sound of artillery, this is also a kind of exercise for you." ”

Li Ne, who was more than six years old, marched day and night with Chairman Mao, riding in a car during the day, bumping all the way, and in order to make her feel better, Chairman Mao took her in his arms.

Marching at night, because she often encountered rough mountain roads and steep mountains, she could not take a car, so Chairman Mao rode on her back.

Considering Li Ne's safety, Chairman Mao finally found a pair of iron frames, tied Li Ne to the iron frame, and relied on the soldiers to relay her out of Yan'an smoothly.

Separation of father and daughter

Although Chairman Mao loved Li Ne very much, during the war years, there was always a lot of helplessness and compulsion.

In order to encircle and suppress the Communists, the enemy sent a large number of troops, and faced with the encirclement and suppression of 15 times the enemy's troops, Chairman Mao decided to turn to northern Shaanxi.

For the safety of the children, Chairman Mao could only send Li Ne away.

Despite the busy war, Chairman Mao was still worried about the news of his daughter and often took time to write letters to Li Ne.

He also instructed other children to have the opportunity to visit Li Ne more and enhance the emotional connection between brothers and sisters.

Whenever he saw his daughter's graffiti, Chairman Mao could not help but smile, and these graffiti also became the link between Chairman Mao and his daughter.

After being separated for more than half a year, Chairman Mao and Li Ne met in Nanhedi Village, and when they saw their daughter, Chairman Mao stretched out his arms and loudly poured out his thoughts about his daughter.

Li Ne was also separated from Chairman Mao for so long for the first time, and he trotted all the way into Chairman Mao's arms and wrapped his arms around Chairman Mao's neck.

Father and daughter, you kiss me, I kiss you, and they have not been separated for a long time.

Sometimes Chairman Mao was tired from work, so he walked in the courtyard with his hands behind his back, thinking about things as he walked.

After Li Ne saw this, he followed Chairman Mao with his children and imitated Chairman Mao in a similar way.

When Chairman Mao found out, he pretended not to know, turned his head sharply, and made an eagle grab the chicken, which frightened Li Ne and them to run around.

Although he ran away, the smile on his face could not be hidden, and Li Ne often used this as a means of playing with Chairman Mao.

In the blink of an eye, Li Ne has grown to 7 years old and it is time to go to school.

In 1972, Li Ne divorced, and Chairman Mao wept when he learned the reason: Neva's family affair was too hasty

However, because of the impact of the war, the school was also difficult to run regularly, and in order to give Li Ne a good education, Chairman Mao invited Han Guixin, who graduated from high school, as a nurseryman to teach at home.

On the day that Han Guixin came, Li Ne also promised Chairman Mao that he would study well, never be naughty, and would not be mischievous.

Chairman Mao listened to the music and said: "It is appropriate to study well, but this is not naughty and can be discussed."

It's not advisable to be naughty, but it's okay to be naughty. Naughty children are a sign of smart health. ”

In Chairman Mao's relaxed and democratic family atmosphere, Li Ne's character also grew up naturally and healthily.

When Chairman Mao moved to Beiping, he sent Li Ne to Yuying Primary School, because the school was far from home, and Li Ne could only go home once a week.

Once, on New Year's Day, Li Ne fell ill again at school, and Chairman Mao wrote her a letter after finishing her work, in which he urged her to take good care of her illness and recover her health as soon as possible.

Chairman Mao's love and care for Li Ne was also seen in Li Ne's eyes and remembered in his heart.

Congratulations to his father

Chairman Mao was very fond of swimming, especially in the great rivers.

He often took young Li Ne with him to swim in the wild, but he did not allow her to use a lifebuoy, which was Chairman Mao's exercise of his daughter's willpower.

He hopes that his daughter can face the difficulties and setbacks in nature and life as bravely as he is, not afraid of hardship, self-confidence and self-improvement.

Once when the wind and waves were very strong, Chairman Mao took Li Ne to swim in the sea, and the two of them began at 5 a.m. and worked until 11 a.m.

The guards, worried that Li Ne was physically weak, put on a swimming ring for her, but Chairman Mao asked Li Ne to take it down.

Because Chairman Mao himself did not bring it, Li Ne had to obediently do so, and his physical practice had a great impact on Li Ne.

Under his cultivation, Li Ne gradually developed a strong character, which also laid the foundation for her later life.

In order to express his filial piety, Li Ne personally prepared a birthday gift on Chairman Mao's 61st birthday.

She weaves a delicate little bookmarklet on a round piece of cardboard with silk thread, and draws two large shou peaches on the front and a large "shou" character on the back.

When Chairman Mao was sleeping while the gifts were being delivered, she asked the guards to hand them over to Chairman Mao and wrote a letter.

In this letter, "family affection" and "love" are displayed everywhere, and Chairman Mao has praised it after reading it.

Defeat the disease with willpower

Li Ne was frail and sickly since he was a child, and he would get sick when he was three or five years old, which was also something that Chairman Mao often remembered.

In 1972, Li Ne divorced, and Chairman Mao wept when he learned the reason: Neva's family affair was too hasty

When I was a child, I once had an injection and accidentally left the needle in my body, but the situation at that time did not support Li Ne to remove the needle, so it was left in the body.

Chairman Mao personally contacted the president of the Beijing Hospital and the surgeon to perform the operation and remove the needle.

However, during the operation, the two doctors found that the needle stayed in the body for too long, the position moved, and they could only do the operation with the help of machine perspective.

Since the operation was not done in a sterile operating room, after the operation was completed, the wound became infected, and Li Ne had a high fever.

Chairman Mao also hoped to be with his daughter when she needed him, but he could not leave at all, and could only write to her daughter to encourage her to overcome the disease with strong willpower.

Definitely not special

1960 was a special year after the founding of the People's Republic of China, due to the frequent occurrence of natural disasters, the people fell into a difficult life.

Ordinary people throughout the country have experienced the situation of not having enough to eat and not being warmly dressed.

In order to tide over the difficulties with the people, Chairman Mao took the initiative to reduce his grain rations and gave up the habit of eating meat.

For his daughter Li Ne, Chairman Mao also let her eat in the big canteen at school like other children, without a trace of specialness.

But Chairman Mao also considered that the child would not eat well at school, so as long as she returned home from vacation, Chairman Mao asked the chef to find a way to get some delicious food to relieve his daughter.

Li Ne did not know that his father did not even have a little egg and meat foam in his daily meals, and he rarely went home once, so he would eat a big meal every time he came home and practice the spirit of the disc.

Once, during a meal, Li Ne put his nose on the rice mixed with taro and took a deep breath, smiled and said, "It's so fragrant!" ”

"Eat it." Chairman Mao said bitterly.

Li Ne ate all the food on the table as quickly as she could, but she was not satisfied.

"Uncle Yin, are there any soups and steamed buns?" Shabu-shabu this plate, don't waste it. ”

Chairman Mao watched his daughter feasting on the sidelines, and his heart was both happy and sad.

As a member of his family, not only did he not enjoy the slightest special treatment from Chairman Mao, but he demanded more strictly than ordinary children.

Looking at Li Ne's wolf-devouring appearance, you can imagine what kind of life she lived in school.

"Chairman, Li Ne is really too bitter, is it okay..." The staff really couldn't bear it.

"No, compared to the people of the whole country, she is already very happy." Chairman Mao waved his hand and asked him not to say anything more.

Chairman Mao's tutoring was very strict, Li Ne's school was dozens of miles away from home, and every weekend, li Yinqiao, the head of the guard, would secretly drive Li Ne home and secretly send her some snacks.

In 1972, Li Ne divorced, and Chairman Mao wept when he learned the reason: Neva's family affair was too hasty

After Chairman Mao learned of this incident, he severely criticized him, saying that other people's children can go home by themselves, so why can't their own children?

Chairman Mao repeatedly taught children not to engage in special things, otherwise it would not be good to spread the word, so why did he name her Li Ne instead of Mao Ne? She just didn't want others to know her identity.

Since then, Li Ne has been cycling between Zhongnanhai and Peking University, and has never taken Chairman Mao's bus to school again.

Daughter's wedding

When he was studying at Peking University, Li Ne, who had just opened his heart, had a heart for a charming male classmate in the school.

But her temper, disposition, and identity doomed her not to be able to decide marriage on her own as ordinary girls do.

Due to the mismatch of status, Li Ne's first love was snuffed out before it even started.

In 1970, Chairman Mao arranged for Li Ne to work at the "May Seventh Cadre School" in the central part of Jinggangshan, where Li Ne became a noble "princess" respected by everyone.

No one wants to take the initiative to deal with her, she doesn't have any friends, and she does everything alone.

At that time, while doing farm work, Li Ne encountered difficulties, a young man took the initiative to come forward to help, and his shy smile deeply touched Li Ne.

Although the man's education level is not high, but he has a clear eyebrow and is very cute, so the two talked about love.

However, this incident alarmed the leaders of the cadre school, who felt that the boy used his appearance to deceive Chairman Mao's daughter and had ulterior motives.

Therefore, the cadre school "guarded" him and listened to the instructions for the next step, and the leaders of the cadre school also told Chairman Mao about this situation.

In September 1971, Li Ne, who was working in Jiangxi, wrote to Chairman Mao to report on his marriage vision.

Her boyfriend, who is politically reliable, is a member of the Communist Party, is a waiter at the Beidaihe Management Office, and is preparing to marry him, hoping that Chairman Mao will agree.

Although Chairman Mao had a hint of regret, he still agreed to get married. As an enlightened father, a daughter's marriage should be decided by herself.

When her daughter got married, the chairman sent her a gift she had prepared.

Jiang Qing was extremely dissatisfied with her daughter's marriage, she originally hoped that her daughter could find a door-to-door right, but she did not expect that she would find such a mediocre man.

The intervention of the mother, coupled with the fact that the two differ in knowledge, personality and background, are too great to talk together.

When the passion receded, all that was left was the chicken and garlic skin, and Li Ne often had a feeling of chicken talking to the duck.

Instead of living so painfully, it is better to simply shoot and scatter and be fine.

In 1972, Li Ne and her husband divorced, and when Chairman Mao learned the reason, he sighed heavily and shed tears, saying: Neva's family affair is too hasty.

In 1972, Li Ne divorced, and Chairman Mao wept when he learned the reason: Neva's family affair was too hasty

Li Ne remarried

Li Ne divorced her husband when her child was more than one year old, and after the divorce, she had no hope for marriage, but only wanted to raise the child as an adult.

Whoever introduced her to her was not interested.

Every day, against the cold wind, pedaling a tricycle under the sun to pull cabbage and rice, washing clothes and drying bedding.

As a single mother, Li Ne alone has to take on all the heavy responsibilities of raising children, and usually has to be busy with work, which is not easy.

I want to ask a babysitter to share it, but the economy doesn't allow it.

Seeing that Li Ne's life was so tight and there was no follow-up to the remarriage, Li Yinqiao, who had served as Chairman Mao's guard chief, and his wife Han Guixin could not rest assured.

Han Guixin is the nursery who once taught Li Ne to learn, and she has a deep relationship with her, and has always regarded Li Ne as her own daughter, how can she see her life is so difficult?

But with Li Ne's situation at that time, how easy was it to talk about remarriage?

The year 1976 was the darkest year of Li Ne's life, and his dearest father passed away.

Li Ne's spiritual world collapsed in an instant, coupled with the fact that she had not yet come out of the shadow of divorce, she was alone to raise her young and ignorant son, and her life and spirit were under heavy pressure.

As soon as the average person heard about Li Ne's situation, they retreated.

If it weren't for her father exercising her willpower from an early age, perhaps she would never have been able to get out of this dark time.

In 1984, Wang Jingqing came to Li Yinqiao's home as a guest. During the conversation, Li Yinqiao and his wife learned that his wife had just divorced him, and their children had their own lives.

Li Yinqiao and his wife feel that Wang Jingqing and Li Ne are very compatible together, one is the chief of staff of the military region, the other is Chairman Mao's daughter, the two experiences are also roughly similar, if they can be together, they must be a happy couple.

The enthusiastic Li Yinqiao and his wife became matchmakers and told Wang Jingqing about Li Ne's situation, and Wang Jingqing also felt that he could contact it after listening to it.

Under the guidance of Li Yinqiao and his wife, Li Ne and Wang Jingqing finally came together and held a wedding in Beijing.

Because neither her parents could attend the wedding, Li Ne only invited a few elders and friends who cared about her when she remarried.

The wedding banquet was simple but solemn, and President Yang Shangkun also specially sent a box of wine and chocolates to congratulate and bless them.

Although Wang Jingqing is more than ten years older than Li Ne, after getting married, he seems to spoil Li Ne as a little princess, and the two live happily.

Thoughts of my father

As a daughter who had received more love and care from Chairman Mao since childhood, Li Ne felt ashamed of her father.

He failed to let his father see the day of his happy life, and let his father worry about himself in addition to worrying about the major affairs of the country.

Not long after marrying Wang Jingqing, Li Ne took her husband back to Shaoshan.

Looking at chairman Mao's portrait, she wanted to tell her father that she had gained happiness, that her husband was very good to her, and that he could rest assured.

Because she didn't want to be known, she didn't fill in her name when she registered.

However, identity can be disguised, and emotions cannot be hidden.

When he saw the photos of his grandparents and father, Li Ne's inner excitement and longing were hard to hide.

The managers of Shaoshan did not understand why a stranger was crying so touchingly and sincerely.

When looking at the managers' puzzled expressions, Wang Jingqingcai explained to them that this was Chairman Mao's youngest daughter.

In 1972, Li Ne divorced, and Chairman Mao wept when he learned the reason: Neva's family affair was too hasty

Looking at Chairman Mao's portrait, the laughter and laughter of the past are still in front of her, but unfortunately she can no longer talk to "Little Daddy".

Although Chairman Mao left her permanently, for Li Ne, chairman Mao's spirit has always accompanied her life.

"The greatest wealth my father left me was hard work." She was still wearing the simplest, plainest clothes, without a single shelf.

In Shaoshan, as long as someone sincerely asked her to sign, she was willing to do it.

As the daughter of Chairman Mao, it is her mission to carry forward the spirit of Chairman Mao and the sense of responsibility that she needs to uphold in her later years.