"Marriage is a big gamble, men are a potential stock, the key to happiness lies in whether to choose the right person"
Jacky Cheung, one of the Four Heavenly Kings, has been with his beloved wife Luo Meiwei for 34 years, and is still as sweet as ever.
In the entertainment industry, where fish and dragons are mixed, Luo Meiwei undoubtedly chose the right potential stock and bet on the right treasure.
Luo Meiwei in her youth
In fact, when they first met, there was no Heavenly King Jacky Cheung, but "a generation of goddesses" Luo Meiwei.
Today, we can see Jacky Cheung, one of the four heavenly kings, precisely because of a decision made by Luo Meiwei at that time...
01
Because of the drama
In April 1986, the love story of the heroine of the movie Ami and the boyfriend of the international student, "Crazy You" was released.
Teenage girls fly into the sea, and boyfriends sneak into the villa swimming pool and other thrilling adventure love.
As soon as the film was released, it attracted the enthusiastic pursuit of countless young boys and girls.
Luo Meiwei, who was 20 years old at the time, and Jacky Cheung, who was 24 years old at the time, were also in their youth, and they met the same warm each other when they were young and enthusiastic.
While playing the love story of the teenage girl Ami and his boyfriend, she also found her own love...
In 1985, Luo Meiwei, who was young and beautiful at the time, met the star scout Huang Baiming.
He told Ms. Luo that he wanted to make a series of movies and needed a beautiful and sunny girl like her to star.
Under the strong persuasion of Huang Baiming, Luo Meiwei joined the cast with Luo Mingzhu, Li Lizhen, Chen Jialing and other girls.
Starting from the cute and clever girl in the movie "Happy Ghost", Luo Meiwei was unanimously praised by the audience.
The marketing strategy that the company thought of was to put the girls together and make their debut, and named it "Happy Girl Group".
Girl groups in the 80s were uncommon, and Luo Meiwei and her companions made a wave as soon as they appeared.
Then the "Crazy You" crew also paid attention to this, the hot girl group at that time.
It seems that it is destined that the two will definitely meet each other, and Jacky Cheung at that time has also entered the entertainment circle.
In 1984, Jacky Cheung participated in the first Hong Kong 18 District Amateur Singing Competition with the mentality of trying it out, and stood out from it, won the championship, and made his debut in one fell swoop.
In 1985, Jacky Cheung, who loved singing, began to try to release an album.
He has just entered the entertainment industry, like most newcomers in the entertainment industry, silently singing songs and has not received much attention.
By chance, the crew selected new talents and wanted to create a new youth movie.
They need a young and enthusiastic girl to play the role of Ami in the movie.
At that time, the director of the crew also looked at Li Lizhen and Luo Meiwei of the "Happy Girls Group".
In the hearts of several directors, Li Lizhen's fit with the role is higher, given that love movies need to be paired with the male protagonist.
On the other side of the male protagonist, they found Jacky Cheung, who was a newcomer in the entertainment industry at that time.
In the face of this opportunity, Jacky Cheung took over the job without thinking.
In order to test Li Lizhen and Luo Meiwei, who have a more romantic feeling with Jacky Cheung, the director team decided to conduct a live audition.
Jacky Cheung, who received the notice, was also mentally prepared, and he was looking forward to who would be his last partner.
At the audition scene, Jacky Cheung saw Luo Meiwei standing there at a glance.
The girl's outgoing personality and cheerful smile left a deep impression on Jacky Cheung at first glance.
Later, the crew organized Jacky Cheung to go up to audition separately, and the boy's involuntary heartbeat was naturally revealed along with the acting.
Luo Meiwei eventually succeeded in becoming the heroine of the film with a more vivid and youthful personality.
Jacky Cheung, who learned the film candidate, was even happier.
As a couple actor in the movie, Jacky Cheung experiences his emotions like the protagonist of the movie.
At that time, the same young Jacky Cheung did not successfully convert the emotions between the actor and reality in the process of acting with Luo Meiwei.
He simply felt that his heartbeat could not deceive people, and those kisses and hugs could not deceive people.
In the face of interviews with others, Jacky Cheung said bluntly, "Luo Meiwei is the most beautiful one I think."
So he quietly moved his real feelings and made up his mind to pursue Luo Meiwei.
An adventure movie about love, deep into it is of course not only 24-year-old Jacky Cheung.
There was also Romei, who was 20 years old at the time.
She is influenced by the passionate pursuit of herself in the movie, and she is also touched by her beloved boyfriend in the movie.
Later, Luo Meiwei remembered herself at that time, "My body felt crisp and numb, and I knew that we could not be separated."
With a vague love for each other, they continued to finish the film.
Luo Meiwei and Jacky Cheung, who ended the life of the crew, naturally went from the roles in the play to reality.
Jacky Cheung felt that his heart had not changed, so he often went out to eat and walk with Luo Meiwei.
The familiar people around them were curious, "Who are you Luo Meiwei?" ”
In the face of others' questions, the shy Jacky Cheung just smiled and said, "This is my good friend."
Later, in the interview with the host Lu Yu after marriage, he also laughed and said that the term "good friend" seems to have started from me.
Good friends are nothing more than protective clothing for love.
In the daily relationship and interaction, the two still broke the layer of window paper and became an enviable couple.
During the period when the two men established a relationship, Jacky Cheung felt that he was the happiest man in the world.
Emotionally enriched, career motivation has also been gained.
In 1986, because of the sweetness of love, he released his second album "Distant Her AMOUR".
It contains many songs, and every word sings about his deep love for his girlfriend Luo Meiwei.
Perhaps it is emotional and moving, or perhaps it is the sincerity of the song, as soon as the album was released, it became popular all over the country, with sales of up to 200,000.
A song called "Half Bend of the Moon" became a classic Cantonese song that everyone could sing at that time.
Immediately after, his career reached a new peak.
In 1987, he opened a personal concert for six consecutive days, and the peak of his career made Jacky Cheung feel very happy, and he was ready to concentrate on writing songs and creating brilliance again.
On the other hand, the movie "Happy 5" co-starring girlfriend Luo Meiwei and Er Dongsheng was launched, and her career was booming.
Just when they thought that the days would continue like this and work together to create brilliance, setbacks quietly came.
02
The week of the breakup
The boom will decline, and it will rebound when it reaches the bottom.
No one's life has been smooth sailing, and Jacky Cheung, one of the Four Heavenly Kings, is of course.
Not every song can be completely loved by the audience.
1988 was a year of stagnation for Luo Meiwei, and it was also a year when her boyfriend Jacky Cheung fell off the altar.
Jacky Cheung, who is ready to do a big job, released a new album "Last Night's Dream".
Jacky Cheung, who wanted to achieve another good result, waited until the end of the sales period, and only waited for the sales of a few thousand copies.
And the long-awaited music awards ceremony, any award nomination above, Jacky Cheung's name also failed to appear.
This made the proud teenager at that time feel depressed.
In just one year, it was a heaven and an earth for him.
Too glorious past, coupled with the increasing heat of his girlfriend Luo Meiwei, Jacky Cheung's heart actually has a strong sense of gap.
Just when the mood was getting stronger, it encountered a sharp drop in album sales.
The heavy blow to his career made Jacky Cheung disregard the comfort and companionship of his girlfriend Luo Meiwei and blindly fall into deep doubts.
For him, only wine could make him forget all his troubles and troubles.
When a person can't face it, powerful shocks often make people want to dodge.
Jacky Cheung is no exception, using alcohol as a tool to anesthetize himself.
In the bars of Lan Kwai Fong, on the set of the film, and even at home, he can be seen everywhere drunk.
Such a boyfriend made Luo Meiwei fall into a deep sense of powerlessness.
She accompanied her boyfriend every day and said words of encouragement to him.
But at that time, Jacky Cheung seemed to be just blindly intoxicated, in his own failure.
Zhang Xue, who was originally gentle and considerate, was like a big change in temperament, only knew how to drink, and even did not want to touch the music he liked.
Thinking about the idea of taking her boyfriend out to open up her heart, Luo Meiwei took Jacky Cheung to attend her sister Mei Yanfang's birthday party.
However, Jacky Cheung, who was in a low mood at the time, just drank in silence, and finally launched a drunken madness under the condition of drunkenness.
Finally, in the chaos, I don't know who grabbed the cake and threw it around, and the scene was chaotic.
The news kept reporting for a while, saying that Jacky Cheung was "drunk and threw the cake" and looked at those negative reports.
Luo Meiwei, who accompanied Jacky Cheung, felt that her long-term companionship and persuasion seemed to have no effect.
She didn't know what else she could do, and although her heart ached, she told herself that she had to wake up Jacky Cheung.
At the end of 1988, Luo Meiwei left a sentence to Jacky Cheung: "As long as you quit drinking, we still have a possibility."
Subsequently, she unilaterally announced in public that "I broke up with Jacky Cheung."
Looking at his girlfriend's message and thinking of the days when there was no longer Luo Meiwei to accompany him, Zhang Xueyou suddenly woke up.
This news deeply stung Jacky Cheung's heart.
For him, the most important half seems to have really drifted away from himself.
Chagrin and unwillingness burned the boy's heart deeply, and in just seven days, Jacky Cheung began to miss his girlfriend Luo Meiwei.
He tried to come out of the shadow of failure, and because of Romevi's message, he put down the bottle.
He didn't know what to use to express his heart, so he continued to choose to sing, "Seven Days Away from You" is Jacky Cheung's most sincere love for Luo Meiwei.
He realized that if he continued like this, he would not only lose his career, but also lose his lover.
So, he made up his mind to accept his failed self and recover Luo Meiwei.
Luo Meiwei, who saw Jacky Cheung again, unconsciously shed tears.
Knowing that he had made up his mind to quit drinking, he listened to Jacky Cheung's affectionate confession to himself.
Luo Meiwei, who originally had feelings for Jacky Cheung, although she did not immediately reunite with him, she decided to accompany him to reinvigorate.
In this way, the sensational "breakup storm" at that time passed.
In 1989, with the meticulous companionship and encouragement of Luo Meiwei, Jacky Cheung regained the spirit of singing.
In the same year, he released the album "To My Dear", which again received a lot of praise.
With this album, he returned to the pinnacle of the Hong Kong music scene.
In 1991, Jacky Cheung, whose career was gradually stable, confessed again like his girlfriend Luo Meiwei, and finally got a positive answer as he wished.
It was the trough of that career that Jacky Cheung saw the sincerity of Luo Meiwei, who was not abandoned to accompany her.
He knew that if he had to marry someone in this life, it would have to be Luo Meiwei.
03
Loving husband and wife are not in doubt
After experiencing jacky Cheung's low period, Luo Meiwei also realized her sense of responsibility as a girlfriend.
It may be because of the same busy work that communication with each other is not so timely.
In 1993, After filming her last love movie in the entertainment industry, "Lover's Confidant", Luo Meiwei gradually shifted her focus.
In order to support your boyfriend's career, give him support and encouragement in the rear.
Girlfriend Luo Meiwei decided to take a back seat at the peak of her career.
In 1996, after a decade of love run, Luo Meiwei and Jacky Cheung finally got married.
Compared with Huang Xiaoming's wedding of the century, the wedding of Jacky Cheung and Luo Meiwei was not so grand.
There are not even diamond rings, no loud propaganda reports, and some are just vows of people who love each other for a lifetime.
After getting married, Luo Meiwei reduced her work and devoted herself to her husband and children at home.
In the face of the reporter's interview, Jacky Cheung said, "If the wife does not want to come out to work, then she wants to stay at home."
In Luo Meiwei's heart, she wants to be a good helper to Jacky Cheung, and only hopes that her husband can get better and better.
Fortunately, the object of love, Jacky Cheung, did not fail Luo Meiwei, checked herself after marriage, and often went home to give her a sense of security.
In 1999, Jacky Cheung did what made countless girls move.
He picked a star for his girl.
A planet in the sky was named after his wife, Luo Meiwei, whose English name was "may".
Luo Meiwei, who knew her husband's romantic behavior, was deeply moved, and got a full sense of security from her husband, and their feelings for each other only increased.
In 2000, this was a year that made Jacky Cheung excited, because his daughter was born.
Under the discussion of the couple, they named the child Zhang Yaohua.
With the bond of love, the life of a family of three is even sweeter.
Jacky Cheung's daily work is family, and his love for Luo Meiwei and his daughter has also penetrated into his own songs.
In 2004, he released his first fully composed record, which included "Tell What You Know" for his wife, Luo Meiwei.
In order to earn milk powder money, Jacky Cheung started a concert tour, and immediately went home to take care of his daughter after the concert.
Luo Meiwei felt very warm about her husband's family behavior, so she took more attention to her daughter and wanted to reduce her husband's worries.
In 2005, their second daughter Zhang Yaoxuan was born, which proved the sweet life of the couple.
With these two daughters, Luo Meiwei has put all her energy into the family.
I don't know if it's because of my husband's growing fame or because of my increasing workload.
The shadow of the divorce of the parents of the original family finally left a harm to Luo Meiwei.
In the face of her marriage, Luo Meiwei's insecure mind began to induce her to pay more attention to hygiene and cleanliness.
In fact, as early as 2002, Jacky Cheung had admitted in the program that his wife Luo Meiwei paid special attention to hygiene in her daily life.
It was only later that this situation became more and more intense.
After the birth of her second daughter, Luo Meiwei did not even allow others to touch her child.
For the clothes she wears every day, the dishes and chopsticks she uses are washed and disinfected over and over again.
The domestic servants were also under The strict requirements of Luo Meiwei, changing again and again, reaching 21 at the worst time.
In the face of his wife's changes, Jacky Cheung has become cleaner and cleaner from an originally casual boy.
The clothes that were used to being littered would also take the initiative to put them away, and when he saw his wife washing too much, he would also go up to help.
He wanted to use practical actions to reduce his wife's discomfort.
I thought such a serious situation was just at home.
Later, at the funeral of her sister Mei Yanfang, she was even more shocked by her cleanliness, which caused embarrassment to many people at that time.
Because of her excessive cleanliness, media reporters have reported that she is too pretentious.
In the face of countless accusations and insults, Luo Meiwei felt very helpless, and sometimes she would be pointed out when she went out on the street.
Seeing his wife being hurt like this, Jacky Cheung will continue to comfort her at home, telling her that she can do what she wants to do with confidence.
At home, Luo Meiwei felt that the clothes were not neat enough, and Jacky Cheung took the initiative to help reduce his wife's discomfort.
When there is a lot of criticism from the outside world, he also defends his wife in person, expressing to the public that this is just a personal habit.
She confessed affectionately to Luo Meiwei in front of the public, believing that her wife was the best, giving her enough security.
Jacky Cheung once said, "I give everything to my wife at home, and I completely trust her."
After marriage, Jacky Cheung used practical actions to show everyone his respect and love for his wife.
Now that the two have gone through 34 years of sweet life, in the face of countless interviews, Jacky Cheung has indicated that "marrying Luo Meiwei is the most correct decision he has ever made." ”
Jacky Cheung even showed his deep love for his wife in many of his songs.
Nowadays, Jacky Cheung often participates in some music programs, but more time, he returns to his family and is with his wife Luo Meiwei.
He used his body to tell Luo Meiwei that he loved her very much, and in his heart, Luo Meiwei was the best.
In the family he was a good husband and a good father.
In the entertainment industry, he is a good singer and a good actor.
The many classic songs he has left for us are our most precious spiritual nourishment.