Divorced and suffering from terminal illness, the world seeks a rare blood type to match the bone marrow, and 36-year-old Yang Lingxia was reborn

[News tip] 8 years ago, 36-year-old Yang Lingxia suffered from leukemia, because her blood type is a rare "panda blood", and the bone marrow transplant donor is unusually difficult to find. However, she was lucky to match Joseph, the secretary of the Dubai Emirates, thousands of miles away, and crossed the ocean to fight for life. After the operation, she was alone in a foreign country, she was saddled with more than 2 million yuan in treatment fees, endured loneliness and sadness, taught herself Arabic and Iranian, not only became a translator, but also was admitted to Dubai University, and held a number of jobs, and finally paid off this huge debt... In the days of desperate self-help, she and Joseph fell deeply in love. However, she could not accept the reality that a Dubai man could marry 4 wives, so she had to return to her hometown thousands of miles away with infinite gratitude and tears, and was reborn after the disaster...

Divorced and struggling with terminal illness, the world seeks a rare blood group to match the bone marrow

On April 15, 2007, Wenzhou Benda Automation Company organized an annual physical examination for employees, and Yang Lingxia, a 36-year-old production supervisor, was diagnosed with "aplastic anemia". "This is the legendary leukemia. The best way to cure is a bone marrow transplant. But we found that you are rare RH negative blood, commonly known as 'panda blood.' The odds of bone marrow transplantation in general are not high, let alone this rare blood type..."

Listening to the doctor's words, Yang Lingxia suddenly felt that the sky had collapsed! Why is heaven unfair, always let a weak woman suffer so hard!

Yang Lingxia, formerly known as Deng Yufang, was born in November 1971 in a peasant family in Qige Village, ZhaoPeng Town, Anlu City, Hubei Province, with a brother and a sister. Two years later, her father, who had been ill for 8 years, deteriorated, and her mother had to tearfully send her to a nearby family surnamed Yang as an adopted daughter and change her name to "Yang Lingxia". Seven years later, her adoptive father formed a new family, and her adoptive mother brought her sister who was two years older than her and a younger sister. In order to support the family, the adoptive father worked outside the home for many years. The adoptive mother fell the rough and heavy work of the family to Yang Lingxia's young shoulders...

In 1982, yang Lingxia, who was only 11 years old, was in the fifth grade, but she was like a "big laborer" at home. She followed her adoptive father to pick rice and water, and her shoulders were worn out layer after layer of skin...

On this day, Yang Lingxia, who could not bear the abuse of her adoptive mother, wrote a suicide note and secretly ran to the Qingshan Reservoir to commit suicide by throwing herself into the river. A passing farmer jumped into the icy water and rescued her... The uncle of the adoptive father saw that his granddaughter was really pitiful, and he took the initiative to raise Yang Lingxia on his behalf.

In August 1989, Ling Xia was admitted to Guangshui Normal School with excellent results. However, because her grandfather could not afford her to continue her studies, she dropped out of school and was placed to work as a temporary worker in an Anlu Hardware Factory. Because she is smart and studious, the factory recommended her to study at Wuhan Metrology Management School. She also enrolled in an on-the-job refresher course at Huazhong Institute of Technology (now Huazhong University of Science and Technology).

On September 8, 1994, she married Zhao Wenping, a young man from Xiaogan. After the birth of a son, the burden on the family became heavier and heavier. Immediately after the restructuring of the unit, she was laid off. For this home, she opened an Internet café and subcontracted a restaurant. However, the husband fought at the card table all night. She gradually became ill... In November 2006, Yang Lingxia and her husband agreed to divorce, and her 11-year-old son and property were handed over to her ex-husband, and she went to Wenzhou to work alone.

In the spring of 2007, Yang Lingxia entered Zhejiang Benda Automation Co., Ltd. as a management company and boldly put forward reasonable suggestions to chairman Xu Chongfeng. Soon, she was promoted to production supervisor. However, when the bitterness came, a terminal illness struck, and life fell into a bottomless black hole.

On July 15, 2008, Yang Lingxia went to the riverside to prepare for suicide... At this time, my son suddenly called for tuition. What if you just walk away like this, what about children without a mother?! Yang Lingxia dried her tears, gritted her teeth and returned to the company to continue working. But the disease is getting worse and worse, and when the attack occurs, the mouth and nose bleeding, the whole body is in severe pain, and it has to be maintained by taking excessive painkillers...

After her situation was reported by the Xiaogan Evening News in her hometown thousands of miles away, many enthusiastic citizens enthusiastically donated money; Yang Lingxia's classmates also spontaneously organized to help her. The first fundraising amounted to more than 80,000 yuan.

On November 28, 2008, Yang Lingxia came to Xi'an Xijing Hospital and underwent a major blood exchange in order to maintain and prolong her life. This blood exchange allows her not to get sick for eight or nine months. At the same time, he ran around looking for bone marrow that could be matched. Unfortunately, none of the siblings had RH-negative blood, and none of them could successfully match her bone marrow.

The 3-month treatment period passed quickly, and Yang Lingxia returned to Wenzhou with a sense of urgency, waiting quietly for death while continuing to work hard.

This scene made Xu Zong's heart ache. He has repeatedly applied to the Wenzhou Branch of the Charity Federation and the Wenzhou Red Cross Society, hoping to provide humanitarian assistance to this suffering woman. In March 2009, Mr. Xu met the relevant person in charge of the International Red Cross Society, and after hearing the news that the International Red Cross Society was collecting RH-negative blood type volunteers, he applied to the International Red Cross Society for yang Lingxia's rescue through the Wenzhou Chamber of Commerce. The International Red Cross offered to help Yang Lingxia seek matching bone marrow around the world as long as she was willing to volunteer and bear the cost of her bone marrow transplant surgery. Volunteering with the International Red Cross means that once Yang Lingxia can't get off the operating table alive, her body will be used as an international medical research sample for RH-negative blood.

"Even if there is a hope to survive, I still have to try..." In April 2009, Yang Lingxia, who was determined to fight to the death, quickly completed the relevant procedures for applying for volunteers of the International Red Cross Society, and reached an agreement with the Society to donate her body as an international medical research sample of RH-negative blood. Soon, the Society began to search globally for bone marrow donors that could match her.

Wanli went to Dubai to fight for his life, and the 2 million huge debt stood up a weak backbone

In July 2009, Yang Lingxia suddenly received a call from the International Red Cross Society, so excited that she could not speak for half a day. It turned out that this rare matching donor had been found – a Dubai man thousands of miles away!

According to the international bone marrow donation practice, the identities of the two parties to the bone marrow donor and recipient must be strictly confidential, and they cannot meet for one year after the operation, even if they want to meet after one year, they must be arranged by the International Red Letter Society and other relevant parties to carefully let the two sides contact.

However, in the Mid-Autumn Festival of 2009, the Dubai man came to Shanghai and conducted a second matching comparison with Yang Lingxia at Ruijin Hospital. Yang Lingxia was surprised to learn that this foreign donor was actually the chief's secretary of the Emirate of Dubai, named Joseph, who was 9 years older than herself. It turned out that in view of the fact that this bone marrow donation was a transnational humanitarian action, and Yang Lingxia's condition was very special, and she had signed a "life and death certificate" with the International Red Cross Society, and the two had met before surgery by the International Red Cross Society and relevant parties.

After the comparison, Joseph saw a haggard-faced Yang Lingxia through the glass window of the ward, and his sympathy sprang up, and he managed to take her phone number and expressed his willingness to provide her with all assistance.

Because both the donor and the recipient are rare RH blood types, the surgery is extremely dangerous, in case of heavy bleeding, it is difficult to find the same blood source to save, coupled with the fact that the bone marrow of this matching cannot be airlifted, the International Red Cross Society proposed that Yang Lingxia go to Dubai to receive bone marrow transplantation, and it is expected that the entire treatment cost will be more than 4 million yuan, of which the society will pay 1.2 million yuan for the operation according to the previous agreement, but there is still a gap of more than 2.6 million yuan.

In mid-November 2009, Yang Lingxia flew to Dubai with more than 200,000 donations from the company and society. The Dubai chief sent a convoy and took her family to pick her up. Soon, as a guest of honor of the chief, she was admitted to the Royal Dubai Hospital to prepare for surgery.

On November 28, 2009, Yang Lingxia's 38th birthday, she insisted that the operation be put on this day for "life and death handover". But when she really wanted to go to the operating table, she was extremely scared, greedily looking at this living world, afraid that she would never wake up after she got on the operating table... When she was pushed to the operating table, she accidentally found a five-star red flag and a big red lantern hanging in front of the operating room door, and her heart was warm. In the same operating room, Joseph's 500ml stem cells were taken out and injected into her body. After 28 hours and 45 minutes, Yang Lingxia was pushed out of the operating room. When she woke up after 3 days and 3 nights in a coma, she found that she was not dead, ecstatic, and tears flowed.

She was subsequently transported by sheikh of Dubai by private helicopter to The beautiful island of QESHM in Iran for recuperation. Here she is seriously thinking about the future path of life. Although some people in China kept donating money to her during this period, it was a drop in the bucket after all. Medical expenses, special care fees, bed fees, etc. are added together, and she also owes more than 2 million yuan to the Royal Dubai Hospital. If you return to China, it will be difficult to pay off this huge amount of money for a lifetime. But if you stay in Dubai, a high-income country, you may be able to create another miracle.

However, being alone in a foreign country, being unaccompanied, with language barriers... Yang Lingxia fell into deep bitterness again. She was distraught when Joseph walked in with a carnation in his hand. "Hi dear, I wish you a speedy recovery." Since that day, Joseph has come to the hospital every day to talk to her and teach her arabic and Iranian. Within days, the talented Yang Lingxia was able to have a simple conversation with him in Arabic and Iranian. During her convalescence, she lay on her stomach and taught herself a large number of Arabic and Iranian books. In less than half a year, her "bilingual" listening and speaking skills have reached the level of professional level six. When they met again, Yang Lingxia was able to converse with him fluently in Arabic, which surprised Joseph, who did not expect that this thin woman had so much energy hidden in her!

At the end of the convalescent period, Joseph said to Yang Lingxia: "Your body is flowing with my blood, which is my relative." I hope you live well, and our whole family will be circumstantial evidence of your happiness. He used his advantage as a visiting professor at Dubai University to help Yang Lingxia study. In December 2010, Yang Lingxia was admitted to Dubai University to study the economics of foreign trade. In order to pay off her huge medical debts, she went to work after each class. In his free time at noon, Joseph tutored her alone.

The general rejection period of bone marrow transplant surgery is half a year, perhaps Yang Lingxia's physique is too poor, and the rejection period lasts for 3 years that life is worse than death. But even during the exclusion period, she worked two part-time jobs. Every morning after class, I rushed to work at an elevator installation company. After work, she went to the bar to make fruit platters and bartending... Joseph told Yang Lingxia: "Your condition is still in the period of rejection, pay more attention to rest." You don't have to worry about the cost of the hospital, I have settled it for you. And said that the money does not have to be repaid. Yang Lingxia learned that although Joseph was the chief's secretary, he was also the owner of the Chinese Shoe City in Dubai, and he had opened two trading companies in India, with strong strength. Yang Lingxia, who wants to be strong, insists on repaying the money. Joseph couldn't help her, so he secretly helped her contact a lot of business translation business. Many Chinese entrepreneurs go to Dubai to sign contracts and directly ask her as an interpreter; There are also many Chinese who travel to Dubai, asking her to be an interpreter and guide.

Wages in Dubai are daily closed. After finishing work every day, Yang Lingxia came to Joseph's house and returned all the remaining money to him in addition to setting aside living expenses for the next day. Watching Yang Lingxia seriously take out a small notebook and record the balance owed, Joseph looked at her like a monster: "You? are？ Chinese. I？ can‘t？ understand！ ”

After the exclusion period, Yang Lingxia began to work 4 jobs, rotating every day, sometimes with a monthly salary of up to 280,000 yuan. Over the course of several years, she gradually paid off more than $2 million in medical expenses that Joseph had previously advanced!

I have a life in my blood that you have given me, and I have returned to my homeland to be the goddess of destiny

Yang Lingxia's self-reliance and self-improvement also won Joseph's respect and love. In August 2010, Joseph officially expressed his love to her. He told her that he had developed an inexplicable fondness for her as early as the first time he saw her. Yang Lingxia suddenly realized: when she first arrived in Dubai, the Dubai chief and her family picked her up; During the operation, the nurse hangs the Chinese flag and the big red lantern at the door of the operating room; Including the two private stamps of the chieftain on her passport, she enjoyed special privileges. These are actually Joseph's "handwriting"; Even after graduating from Dubai University, he received a business translation job, which Joseph was helping to match. During the recuperation in Iran, every morning, before the sun rises, Joseph takes her to the beach to watch the sunrise; In the evening, they sat by the sea to watch the sunset, and the two of them held hands and walked by the sea. At that time, her physical strength was poor, and Joseph took her in his arms and walked a long way by the sea. From time to time, he kissed her forehead...

From the bottom of her heart, she loves this foreign man deeply, but when she thinks of the reality that Dubai's laws allow a man to marry 4 wives, she can't accept this transnational love... She chose to escape, flying from Dubai to the Iranian island of QESHM, just wanting to be quiet. Joseph also chased after him, and the pair of exotic people hugged each other tightly in a foreign land...

On November 27, 2010, the day before Yang Lingxia's birthday. Joseph searched the world for cakes, but there was not a single cake shop on that small island in Iran. The next day, Yang Lingxia was surprised to find that a small helicopter had descended from the sky. It turned out that the Josephites bought fresh birthday cakes from Dubai and airlifted them to the island by private jet! Not only that, Joseph also summoned the chinese people all over the island and opened a birthday party for Yang Lingxia. Even if Yang Lingxia was hard-hearted, she was also incredibly moved.

After they returned to Dubai from Iran, Joseph took her to the desert. At dusk, they rushed to a large villa in Archeman, where Joseph insisted on handing her the keys. "Honey, I bought it specifically for you." Joseph said sincerely.

In those days, the moon always sketched their dreams very round, very round... They had lived in the villa for more than half a month, and in the evening Joseph would join her in the evening sipping wine and eating a candlelit dinner. That thick exoticism made Yang Lingxia feel sweet and happy when she thought about it...

Yang Lingxia found that her love with Joseph had also reached a time when it was in full swing, and she gradually became a little inseparable from him. However, Joseph was 9 years older than she was and already had two wives. When she told her family about her relationship in a foreign country, she was strongly opposed by her birth mother and relatives. Yang Lingxia suddenly fell into extreme pain and locked herself in the dormitory until Joseph came knocking on the door. Yang Lingxia choked on tears and said, "Honey, although I love you very much, I still can't accept you." Our national Marriage Act provides for monogamy. You already have two wives, and I can't marry you again. I have a life in my blood that you gave, and I will never forget your great kindness, let's break up! ”

Joseph was anxious: "I know the marriage system in your country, but in our country, the law allows a man to take 4 wives. I marry you in accordance with our legal provisions. Dear Xia, didn't you tell me that there is a myth and legend in your hometown that has spread throughout China, "Heavenly Immortal Match"? You are the Seven Fairies sent by Heaven, marry me! I will love you for the rest of my life..." Yang Lingxia closed her eyes tightly and shook her head vigorously: "I am not a fairy, nor a goddess, you are the immortal who saved me..."

On May 21, 2014, Yang Lingxia, who had made up her mind, left Dubai in tears and returned to her hometown in China. Can't be joseph's goddess, Yang Lingxia wants to be the goddess of her own destiny. Although the disease entered the incubation period after rejection, after returning to China, with the awe of life, she opened a large health center in Anlu, and also devoted herself to charity and public welfare, and successively donated tens of thousands of yuan to several leukemia patients in Zhoushan, Qingdao and Shenyang.

On July 2, 2015, Joseph came from Dubai to Shanxi to inspect the coal mines and asked Yang Lingxia to come forward to do an interpreter. She accompanied Joseph on an expedition in Shanxi for half a month. On October 21, Joseph, who was far away in Dubai, chatted with her through QQ video. Joseph said, "Dear Xia, are you okay?" I miss you very much. In late November, I will come to Wuhan to find you..."

Great love is speechless, and the pain breaks the liver and intestines. Yang Lingxia could only choose the rebirth of fate.

In September 2014, four months after returning to China, she was introduced to Dai Jianping, the owner of Anlu Construction, and she had been betrothed. "Although he is not the man I want to love the most, and he can't give me anything else, he can give me a sense of solidity." I plan to form a new family with this honest, hard-working man, let us cherish this life-and-death friendship with each other! She covered her face and cried bitterly. At the end of the video, Joseph also cried heartbreakingly...