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Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

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Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

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"I know every relationship my son has, and I still interfere."

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

"A woman should be a good wife and mother, and since she has married you into the door, since you are willing to enter this family, you should take on your responsibilities."

"I especially believed that at first glance, I thought she was dressed too revealingly."

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

Zhu Xiangling's speech in the program "My Family's Boy" made many netizens feel uncomfortable.

While feeling physiological discomfort because of Zhu Xiangling's speech, netizens also felt unfortunate for Zhu Yuchen's 43-year puppet life manipulated by his mother.

In the 43 years when he was manipulated by his mother, Zhu Yuchen's love affair was beaten by a stick, his career fell into a downturn, and the independence and freedom that adults should have, Zhu Yuchen never had.

In the first half of Zhu Yuchen's life, it seemed that he was not living for himself, but for his domineering mother.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

01

Zhu Yuchen was born in Shanghai in 1979. His mother, Zhu Xiangling, works in the literary troupe, and his father works for a small company. The honest Zhu father has no sense of existence in the family, and the big and small affairs of the Zhu family are decided by the powerful Zhu mother.

Before Zhu Yuchen was born, the Zhu family also had an eldest daughter. Because Zhu Xiangling preferred sons to daughters, Zhu Yuchen and her sister's treatment at home was very different.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

At home, Zhu Yuchen was most favored by Zhu Xiangling, and whatever zhu Xiangling wanted would satisfy him, while his sister Zhu Beibei was very unpopular with Zhu Xiangling. On weekdays, if Zhu Beibei and Zhu Yuchen argue about things, it must be Zhu Beibei who is scolded.

Zhu Xiangling once dreamed of becoming a pianist, but for various reasons failed to achieve it, and eventually she decided to impose her dream on her children. Therefore, the eldest daughter Zhu Beibei began to learn to play the piano under Zhu Xiangling's arrangement.

When he first started learning piano, Jubeibei learned with relish. But after some time, Jubebe lost interest in the piano. Slowly, Jubeibei "quit practicing". Zhu Beibei's "strike training" made Zhu Xiangling dizzy, and she began to take out sticks to force Zhu Beibei to study.

Zhu Beibei is a girl with a very rebellious spirit, Zhu Xiangling's "stick education" failed to make her change her mind, and Zhu Xiangling could only give up the idea of making Zhu Beibei a pianist.

The paradox of fate is that after Zhu Beibei "boycotted", Zhu Yuchen developed an interest in the piano. Therefore, Zhu Xiangling began to train her son to learn piano.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

Unfortunately, Zhu Yuchen's interest in piano did not last long, and soon he also "quit practicing". This made Zhu Xiangling angry, and she didn't even think about it before she started to clean up her son.

Zhu Yuchen and Zhu Beibei's personalities are completely different, Zhu Beibei is a very assertive person, while Zhu Yuchen is very unconscioned, he does not dare to rebel against his mother.

Therefore, after being cleaned up by Zhu Xiangling, Zhu Yuchen was afraid, and he did not dare to "strike up" like his sister, so he had to insist on learning hard.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

02

In addition to forcing her son to learn piano, Zhu Xiangling also controlled Zhu Yuchen in all aspects of life, and she always regarded Zhu Yuchen as a child who had not grown up.

For example, every morning at four o'clock, Zhu Xiangling began to get up to boil soup, make pear juice, and squeeze juice for her son. She divided the soup when to drink, when to drink the juice, even if Zhu Yuchen repeatedly stated that she did not want to drink, Zhu Xiangling would use the excuse of love to "force" Zhu Yuchen to drink.

Once, Zhu Xiangling made chicken feathers for her son, but Zhu Yuchen did not want to eat it. At this time, Zhu Xiangling would show the wound on her hand and say to Zhu Yuchen: "How can you not eat, your mother can cut her hands in order to cook for you." ”

After seeing the wound on Zhu Xiangling's hand, Zhu Yuchen also softened his heart, and could only be forced to give in and choose to eat chicken feathers.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

03

For Zhu Yuchen, Zhu Xiangling's love was too strong and too heavy for him to bear.

Therefore, after graduating from high school, Zhu Yuchen resolutely filled in the university in other places.

At first, Zhu Xiangling did not agree to her son going to study in other places, but she could not resist Zhu Yuchen's insistence, and eventually she had to agree to her son's going to Beijing to study.

Before agreeing to her son's going to Beijing to study, Zhu Xiangling also had a request: "When the school starts, I should accompany my son to the school to report." ”

Zhu Yuchen agreed to this request of Mother Zhu.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

So in 1998, Zhu Yuchen took the admission letter of the Central Academy of Drama and accompanied by his mother to Beijing.

For his mother's accompaniment, Zhu Yuchen was very broken. Only thinking of her mother's promise to "help me go back after I registered my name" did Zhu Yuchen feel a little happier.

At that time, Zhu Yuchen could never have imagined that on the day of the opening of the school, Zhu Xiangling would make him embarrassed by her words and deeds.

On the day of the opening of the school, Zhu Xiangling came to Zhu Yuchen's dormitory to actively make a bed for him, and during the busy interval, Zhu Xiangling also took time to say to Zhu Yuchen's roommate: "Classmate, do you sleep without snoring?" After asking, she saw that there was a gecko on the wall outside, and Zhu Xiangling was ready to burn it with hot water.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother
Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

Seeing Zhu Xiangling's words and deeds, at that time, Zhu Yuchen's roommates were secretly saying: "It's over, there is a mother treasure man in the dormitory." ”

Fortunately, Zhu Xiangling only accompanied Zhu Yuchen for one day, and Zhu Yuchen could save her image in the eyes of her roommates.

After Zhu Xiangling left, Zhu Yuchen "rebelled" once. Not only did he get studs in school, but he also had long hair and wore ripped clothes.

Although he had "rebelled" again in terms of image, in major matters, Zhu Yuchen still did not escape Zhu Xiangling's control.

At that time, Zhu Yuchen had a girlfriend named Tang Wei. The two first met in 1995 and fell in love in 1997.

During the love affair, the two often play badminton together. Tang Wei will also send Zhu Yuchen rattles, sugar gourds and other small gifts.

Although the two got along sweetly, due to Zhu Xiangling's interference, the relationship eventually ended in failure.

The reason why Zhu Xiangling interfered with this relationship is because Tang Wei did not meet her standards for her daughter-in-law.

Zhu Xiangling's standard for her daughter-in-law is: "Life is regular, there is no small sex, and there is no random drinking." And it is clear that Tang Wei, who was pampered and raised by his family at that time, did not meet these criteria.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

As for why Zhu Xiangling interfered with this relationship, there is also a saying on the Internet.

Legend has it that once, Zhu Xiangling went to Beijing to visit her son who was studying, and happened to see Tang Wei in the rental house. At that time, Tang Weisu's face was facing the sky, his hair was messy, and he looked like he had just woken up.

In addition to the very indecent image, the floor of the rental house was also piled with Tang Wei's clothes.

Zhu Xiangling asked Tang Wei to clean up, and as a result, Tang Wei directly rolled up the clothes into a pile and stuffed them into the washing machine. Looking at Tang Wei's "rough" operation, Zhu Xiangling's head hurt.

Naturally, she would not choose this girl who was not "virtuous" to be her daughter-in-law.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

04

Two years after breaking up with Tang Wei, in 2002, Zhu Yuchen graduated from college.

After graduation, Zhu Xiangling moved to Beijing to eat and live with Zhu Yuchen and began to work as Zhu Yuchen's exclusive chef.

At that time, Zhu Yuchen went out to shoot a movie, and Zhu Xiangling would also go with him. Because Zhu Xiangling followed too closely, Zhu Yuchen also resisted, but the result was still failure.

In addition to liking to "stick" to her son, Mother Zhu also likes to read her son's Weibo.

At that time, Zhu Yuchen liked to write some words on Weibo, and Zhu Xiangling would go to the website to read these words, just reading was not addictive, Zhu Xiangling would also copy these words from beginning to end.

Once Zhu Yuchen did not write a Microblog, Zhu Xiangling also specifically asked her son: "Yuchen, why don't you write Weibo today?" ”

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

When controlling all aspects of Zhu Yuchen's life, at some times, Zhu Xiangling also liked to meddle in her son's career.

In 2007, Zhu Yuchen starred in the TV series "Struggle", and with this fire. After the fire, Zhu Yuchen continued to work hard and took over the TV series "Who Decides My Youth".

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

These two TV series pushed Zhu Yuchen's career to the peak, but just when Zhu Yuchen was preparing to continue to move forward, Zhu Xiangling suddenly said to her son: "You are not allowed to take dangerous scenes, and you are not allowed to pick up works that hang Weiya and climb scenes." ”

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

Because of Zhu Xiangling's request, after the fire, Zhu Yuchen could receive very few plays. Therefore, Zhu Yuchen was forced to embark on the road of "paste coffee".

When the career was unexpected, Zhu Yuchen's love quietly arrived.

In 2012, while filming "The Story of Time", Zhu Yuchen met Jiang Yan.

At first, there was no spark of love between the two, and the reason why they came together was because Jiang Yan sent her own cucumber to Zhu Yuchen.

One day, this cucumber was noticed by Zhu Xiangling, who took the initiative to ask her son: "Yuchen, who gave you the cucumber?" Good knife workmanship. ”

After hearing that it was a cucumber sent by the actress of the same play, Zhu Xiangling became excited, and she encouraged her son: "This girl does not have a boyfriend yet, right?" You go after it, she is very suitable for marrying home and being a wife. ”

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

Although Zhu Xiangling suggested that her son take the initiative to chase After Jiang Yan, when Zhu Yuchen really chased Jiang Yan in his hand, Zhu Xiangling was not happy again.

The reason is that there is no other reason, Jiang Yan is too exposed to dress.

Seeing Jiang Yan's first face in real life, Zhu Xiangling was not satisfied.

In Zhu Xiangling's view, Jiang Yan not only dressed revealingly, but also had a very bad manners, and sat on the arm of the sofa at first sight, which was also too bad.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

Dissatisfied with Jiang Yan's dress and manners, Zhu Xiangling began to interfere with her son's second relationship.

Not surprisingly, this relationship was also interfered with successfully, and the relationship between Zhu Yuchen and Jiang Yan changed.

When it came time to break up, Jiang Yan suspected that Zhu Yuchen did not love herself and questioned him: "Won't you fall in love with me because I can cook, take care of people, and be suitable for being a wife, right?" ”

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

After breaking up with Jiang Yan, in 2009, Zhu Yuchen met Huo Siyan again because of his work "Love Must Be Perfect to You".

During filming, due to improper protection, Zhu Yuchen and Huo Siyan both suffered from stye. The medicine for treatment was very bitter to drink, and every time he wanted to drink the medicine, Zhu Yuchen complained.

After listening to Zhu Yuchen's complaints, Huo Siyan comforted him: "Good medicine is bitter." ”

When he returned home, Zhu Yuchen told Zhu Xiangling what Huo Siyan had to comfort him. As soon as Zhu Xiangling heard it, she immediately had a good feeling for Huo Siyan. She said to her son: "You go after Huo Siyan, she can cook and take care of people, very suitable for being a wife." ”

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

Zhu Xiangling has a good feeling for Huo Siyan, not only does she often praise Huo Siyan at home, but also praises Huo Siyan when she is interviewed outside: "Xiaoyan is a very good girl, I like her very much. My future daughter-in-law will have to be like her, beautiful and generous, and able to take care of people. ”

Zhu Xiangling very much wanted Huo Siyan to become her daughter-in-law, but Huo Siyan did not want Zhu Xiangling to be her mother-in-law.

Once, Huo Siyan went to Zhu Yuchen's house to play, and was praised by Zhu Xiangling in the middle of the way: "Xiao Yan is really too well-behaved, if only my daughter-in-law were good." ”

Huo Siyan could understand Zhu Xiangling's meaning, but she really didn't want to be Zhu Xiangling's daughter-in-law, so when Zhu Xiangling once again said that she wanted to be a daughter-in-law, Huo Siyan refused.

Later, when interviewed by the media, Huo Siyan frankly said: "Mother Zhu's daughter-in-law does not care about Zhu Yuchen's thoughts at all, she just wants to find a new wife for Zhu Yuchen." ”

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

05

Zhu Xiangling's desire to find a new bride for her son has never been broken. In 2018, in the variety show "My Family's That Boy", Zhu Xiangling began to speak confusedly again.

In the program, Zhu Xiangling not only compared herself to a Filipino maid, but also stressed to the host and other guests: "I want to find a good wife and mother for my son." ”

As soon as these words came out, Zhu Xiangling was intimidated by Zhang Wei. Da Zhang Wei said bluntly: "How many years have passed since the male cultivators and female weavers have passed." ”

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

Although many years have passed since the male cultivator and the female weaver, for so many years, Zhu Xiangling has not given up finding a good wife and mother for her son.

Because of Zhu Xiangling's "standards" for her daughter-in-law, Zhu Yuchen was single until the age of 40. In the program "My Family's That Kid", Zhu Yuchen also broke down and shouted: "Why is there no one around who is willing to stay with me?" ”

In fact, the reason why no one wants to stay with Zhu Yuchen is known to everyone. It's just that it is useless to know, and if you want to improve Zhu Yuchen's dilemma, you have to make changes from Zhu Xiangling.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

06

Now Zhu Yuchen is 43 years old, although his youth is not there, his career has improved to a certain extent.

This year, he starred in the TV series "Welcome" and the movie "Next Love".

At the same time as his career improved, Zhu Yuchen was finally no longer single, and some media filmed a video of him and Miaoling woman going home together.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

In the video, Zhu Yuchen shows a gentlemanly demeanor, not only giving the woman a car door, but also taking the initiative to lift heavy objects.

It can be seen that Zhu Yuchen quite spoils his girlfriend, but whether this relationship can be maintained is not that Zhu Yuchen does not spoil the woman, but that Zhu Xiangling likes or dislikes the woman, if Zhu Xiangling does not like the woman, the end of this relationship may still be broken up.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

Looking at the first half of Zhu Yuchen's life, you will find that he spent most of his time "sticking" with Zhu Mu. For this reason, Zhu Yuchen got the title of "Ma Bao Male".

In fact, Zhu Yuchen knew that he should not be "glued" to his mother all the time, but Zhu Yuchen knew that did not mean that Zhu Xiangling knew.

Zhu Xiangling has been "coercing" Zhu Yuchen with love.

Zhu Yuchen did not want to eat chicken feather vegetables, and Zhu Xiangling played the emotional card to force him to eat; Zhu Yuchen wanted to go to the crew alone for a while, and as a result, Zhu Xiangling brought 80 crabs to the crew to cook for Zhu Yuchen.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

Zhu Xiangling's love was too heavy for Zhu Yuchen to bear.

So, does Zhu Xiangling know that her love is heavy? It should be known. Otherwise, in the show, Zhu Xiangling would not sigh: "Bei Bei does not get married because of my attitude towards Yuchen from childhood to adulthood." ”

Love must be moderate, because "too much is not enough." "Seven points in the heart, just show five points." Otherwise, both the loved one and the loved one will suffer.

Talk about one, divide one, 43 years old unmarried, Zhu Yuchen's emotional tragedy initiated, is his mother

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