Happy marriages are similar, unhappy marriages have their own misfortunes. Even if beauty and wisdom coexist, the legendary princess Diana, who is loved by people, cannot escape the trickery of fate.
Although a lavish wedding of the century at the age of 20 made her the focus of the world's attention. But after marriage, the prince and princess did not live a happy and happy life as in the fairy tale.
The beginnings of all the contradictions are revealed in the photographs that Diana left in front of the Taj Mahal in India.
The Taj Mahal is the mausoleum of the Mughal Emperor of India, Shah Jahan, who built it for his favorite concubine, Taj Mahal. Mahal was a beautiful Persian maiden who had been in love with Emperor Shah Jahan for 20 years, and finally died of childbirth, and the emperor was devastated, so he used the strength of the whole country to build this magnificent building known as the "New Seven Wonders of the World".
Born of love, the Taj Mahal is a mecca for couples all over the world to witness love. When Putin, Trump and Macron visited India, they all brought their beloved wives here to take pictures.
However, after Prince Charles and Diana visited India together in 1992, diana was seen alone in the Taj Mahal.
At that time, Prince Charles's intentions were no longer here with Diana, and he did not even bother to do the superficial work of maintaining the image of the royal family, of course, he was even more reluctant to take photos with Diana against his heart to witness love.
It is also this photo, which lacks the figure of Charles, which is called the loneliest moment of Diana's life by the media.
In the photo, she is as beautiful and elegant as ever, and her red coat looks like enthusiasm, but it is difficult to hide the loneliness and loneliness in her eyes.
The journey of restoration ends with an accelerator of triumph and the shattering of the fairy tale dream of the prince and princess
In 1992, the news of Diana and Charles's marriage had spread like wildfire, and scandals were endless, causing headaches for the British royal family.
In order to calm the rumors of marriage changes and reverse the trend of public opinion, the queen specially arranged this visit to India, and used official travel to help her son and daughter-in-law repair the relationship between each other, so as to maintain the dignity and dignity of the royal marriage.
Unfortunately, it was supposed to be a restoration trip, but it became an accelerator for Diana and Charles to part ways.
Even if you come to a foreign country and come to the Taj Mahal, where you have witnessed the longevity of love, it is still difficult to bridge the deep rift between Diana and Charles, and the prince and princess whose married life has long been broken are not even willing to put on a show in front of outsiders.
The reason why Diana agreed to visit India with Charles should still be looking forward to this marriage and trying her best to save it.
At that time, Diana and Charles were visiting India on behalf of the British royal family, and the itinerary was originally arranged to go to the Taj Mahal, but Prince Charles changed his itinerary without authorization.
In Charles's eyes, there are too many important things waiting to be done, and taking a photo with a woman who has become a stranger to the Taj Mahal is probably a pure waste of time.
Diana had to visit the Taj Mahal alone, showing her loneliness to the world without reservation.
Until this moment, Diana truly understood that this relationship could never return to the beginning, and no matter how hard she tried, she could not save her husband's heart. It is also this solo photo that allows the outside world to find that the marriage life of the prince and princess in the original fairy tale has a gap, and the dream royal marriage will eventually be broken.
One person's efforts cannot support the marriage of two people, and a warm home needs to be operated by both parties
Diana once revealed in a media interview that there was a third person in her marriage to Prince Charles: "The marriage of two people is too crowded by three people."
This third person is Camilla, Prince Charles's old lover.
Camilla and Charles had known each other since 1970, but when Charles joined the army, Camilla married, and Charles married Diana, 20.
The direct trigger for the broken marriage is Camilla, but there is never one-or in the world of feelings, and the reason why outsiders can squeeze in is because the gulf between the two people is too deep.
In addition to Camilla's intervention, the deeper problem why Diana and Charles have come to this irreconcilable step is that they are too different from each other.
Age differences, differences in hobbies and interests, differences in life habits, etc., these seemingly trivial but can not be ignored, are all things that will consume marriage.
When Diana married Charles at the age of 20, Charles was 33 years old, and the difference between the two was 13 years, one was a simple, kind, innocent, and wonderful young girl who was full of fantasies about love, and the other was a mature man with a rich emotional life.
The two people are not in a hierarchy at all, the age of 19 is full of expectations and imagination for love and marriage, and Charles needs to marry a tool person who can match the royal standards for the royal family, and she wants her to be innocent and can give birth to beautiful offspring for herself.
In addition, Charles graduated from a famous school, like a quiet life, usually the favorite is to pick up the drawing board to quietly conceive a painting, or sit quietly by the river to fish for meditation, or go into the theater to listen to an opera, and the favorite sport is all kinds of horse sports, polo hunting and so on.
Diana is not highly educated, she is enthusiastic, likes to make friends, loves to communicate with people, and will be a shining star everywhere she goes.
Unlike her husband, Diana had a deep psychological shadow over horse-related sports because she had a horseback riding injury as a child.
At the end of the day, she and Charles are not the same kind of people at all.
At the beginning of their marriage, Charles and Diana really had a happy and joyful time, but as soon as the novelty passed, various contradictions followed.
Diana wanted her husband to spend more time with her, but Charles had endless official duties and socializing.
She was hysterical to keep him, but he thought she was inexplicable.
In such an unbalanced marriage, a crisis arises naturally.
Charles turns around and cheats on his old lover, but Diana tries to get it back but to no avail. In retaliation, she also began to find a lover, giving Charles one green hat after another.
The trip to the Taj Mahal in India was the beginning of the couple's complete rupture.
It was also in that year that Diana and Charles officially separated, and the marriage died in name only.
After the separation, Diana matured a lot, and the hurt of married life made her physically and mentally exhausted, and she began to devote all her enthusiasm and love to social and public undertakings, doing charity, caring for AIDS patients, caring for poor children, and advocating for the global anti-landmine movement.
She became more and more mature and independent, confident and beautiful and kind, deeply loved and respected by people, and even known as the "princess of the people", Diana created her own life value in another way.
However, on August 31, 1997, a sudden car accident accidentally took her life, and this charming beauty died and her life was forever stuck at the age of 36, which is regrettable.
Diana was alone and regretted, and 24 years later, William Kate's Taj Mahal took a group photo to realize the dream
In 2016, Diana's eldest son, Prince William, took his princess Kate on a trip to India, standing where his mother had been 24 years ago.
After taking the souvenir photo, William could no longer suppress his inner emotions, turned his back, and wiped the tears from the corners of his eyes with his hands.
No one knows his mother better than he does, and he knows deeply that her mother has been longing for her father's love all her life, for a happy home.
Now, I have a beautiful and kind wife. She understood me, was considerate of me, and when I was upset, she would even blush just as much as I did.
But Mother, can you, who are far away in heaven, see all this?