#品书香. Increase knowledge#
#Read n hours a day#
Today is very interesting, through a small thing to find their own shortcomings and deficiencies, but also a harvest.
My son was taking online classes, and from time to time he would come over and talk to me at dinner. Hands still can't stop playing with hangers. As soon as I slid my hand, the hanger bounced out of my hand and flew right past me. A little deviation, it is hung up. When my son saw this, he quickly ran over to look at me, saw that he didn't squeak, quickly picked up the hanger that flew down on the ground, and buried his head in study.
When he finished his studies, he suddenly ran over and hugged me reading. I asked him what was wrong, he said that his mother seemed to have changed now, I casually asked how it had changed, and my son laughed
Not too angry now. I paused for a moment and settled my mind
Answer the son: Is the mother so scary? The son said: No, but I did something wrong today, why didn't I see you criticizing and blaming me. Suddenly I was stunned, it turned out that in my son's heart I was such a mother. Put down the book in your hand, and open the box with your son...
After the conversation, I discovered my flaws. It turns out that I always use my own standards and ideas to evaluate and accuse the child's mistakes, ignoring the child's thoughts and feelings. Let the child's heart also be affected and hurt, resulting in the child's disobedience and rebellion. In the days to come, be sure to pay more attention to your words, deeds and emotions so as not to affect your children. Effective communication and less blame and criticism, more affirmation and understanding will make children better show their beauty.
Pick up the book again and continue the learning journey!
