The countryside, although it does not have the bustle and hustle and bustle of the city, has a unique simplicity and elegance. Every spring when everything awakens, it becomes a green ocean, and then it ushers in summer, the trees all grow tall, the lush smoke is beautiful, autumn is the harvest season, the golden wheat on the ground flutters with the wind, and the temperature in winter is lowered, and it becomes a snow-white world of ice and snow. In addition to the beautiful scenery, there are also many simple farmers living here.
Compared with the life of the people in the city, the life of the peasants is simple and pure, busy on the back of the hoe to work in the field, idle on the friends to meet and chat, and in the process of this chat, someone will say some old sayings, the so-called colloquialisms, as the name implies, is popular in the folk language, it is a wide variety and huge scale, covering almost all areas of life, including history, morality, learning, folklore, life, production, meteorology, and other aspects.
The saying shared with you today is 'female eldest one, not wife, female eldest three, golden brick moving'. The first thing to say is that this sentence is not complete, the complete sentence is from the female freshman, the female sophomore, all the way to the female senior ten. However, in real life, women are more than three years older than men, and it is relatively rare for two people to end up married, so the next few words have not been handed down. So, does this old rural adage make sense? Today we will analyze it.
First of all, let's talk about "female freshman, not wife", everyone knows that the psychological age of women is generally greater than that of men of the same age. If the wife is several years older than the husband and the husband accidentally makes a mistake, the wife will generally adopt an inclusive attitude. However, this is only the case of "several years older".
If the wife is only one year older than the husband, the age of both people is similar, both sides are stubborn when they encounter things, and neither person wants to let anyone, the marriage will be difficult to go on for a long time. Therefore, it is said that "the female eldest is not a wife". However, in real life, the wife is one year older than the husband, and the two people are still sweet and sweet, and there are too many examples of this to count.
Let's talk about "female eldest three, golden brick moving". This sentence is not to say that the wife is three years older and can really move the gold brick after marriage, but praises marrying a woman older than her own age, there will be many unexpected benefits. Generally speaking, wives who are three years older than men are usually gentle and considerate to their husbands, and they are empathetic and hurt people and can work. The husband basically does not have to care about the affairs of the family, as long as he is busy with his own business, so that the family harmony career is successful, comparable to moving three gold bricks.
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