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Balzac said: "A woman who can think is really a person with boundless strength." ”
Truly intelligent women never rely on men, but live their own world, through their own wisdom, to open up an ideal path for themselves, to live the life they want.
However, a lot of women don't understand this, they like to rely on men, they like to spend men's money to support themselves, and they think that's happiness.
In fact, an independent woman is the most beautiful, she does not necessarily have a beautiful appearance, but has a firm heart; she does not necessarily have much esoteric knowledge, but has always learned to enrich herself; she is not necessarily how strong, but her tenacious character is enough to withstand any wind, frost, snow and rain.
Woman, Shaohua is easy to pass away, and her appearance is only a few years of glamorousness. As long as you are firm in your heart, you will have the power of grace and tranquility in your life, and let yourself live a dashing and independent life.
So women, always keep in mind the three "no", the more comfortable the rest of their lives.
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First: do not rely on men, do not settle
Chekhov said: "All women who are in love are always fascinated by love and never understand life. ”
Love can blind a woman's eyes, even make her zero IQ, but it all depends on what she thinks.
If, you are naturally dependent on men, you will live in the shadow of men for the rest of your life; and if you can be independent, love is only the spice of life.
Compared with the two, independent women are more attractive, she has a steady stream of power, and anything lost in life will be found later.
Ma Yili divorced because of the betrayal of the article, and the article's career became increasingly silent. And Ma Yili has transformed from an artist to an investor, she founded her own company, incarnated as a female president in the workplace.
Thinking that year, Ma Yili repeatedly defended the article and clarified it for him. In order to keep the family and the article, she paid too much effort, but in the end she divorced.
After the divorce, she was strong and independent, and while gaining a new height in her career, she also walked out of the shadow of divorce, and could not help but let people praise her.
A woman who lives on love, once there is no love, her world will collapse; a woman who can be independent on her own, even if the man changes his heart, will live not badly.
Women should straighten their waists and create enough security for themselves. Rely on others to send umbrellas, it is better to bring an umbrella yourself; instead of waiting for a person to pick you up, it is better to have a car to leave at any time.
As Ma Xiaohong said: "Marriage is a scale, there are too many expectations and reasons, destined to invest the same amount, when expectations and payments are unbalanced, marriage must be unbalanced." ”
Only by maintaining their independence will women have equal rights in marriage, will they have dignity and live fearlessly.
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Second: Not weak to life, not yielding
Ding Ling said: "As long as a woman has a belief and pursues, she can endure any hardship and adapt to any environment." ”
In a person's life, any difficulties and obstacles can be encountered, but the result depends entirely on your attitude towards difficulties. If you don't fall down, no one will push you down, and you will live through if you are strong.
Gree President Dong Mingzhu, she was born in a very ordinary family. At the age of 30, her husband unfortunately died of illness, leaving her and her son, as well as a bunch of foreign debts left by her husband due to medical treatment.
In order to live, in order to pay off the foreign debt, she began to go out to work alone. From the beginning of the sale to the current president of Gree, Dong Mingzhu has experienced too much.
She once spent 40 days recovering 420,000 yuan of foreign debt left by Gree's predecessors; personal sales once soared by 36.5 million yuan; in 15 years, she went from the grassroots level to the current CEO of Gree Group.
When Dong Mingzhu was mentioned, even the opponent said: "The road that Sister Dong has walked cannot grow grass." Employees commented on Dong Mingzhu: "Speaking sonorously and powerfully, doing things vigorously." ”
Before the age of 36, Dong Mingzhu was unremarkable, but after the age of 36, she walked out of a path that others could not replicate.
A person's life, when encountering difficulties, complaints and fears can not replace life, only if you can do it will bring you the hope of life, and only strong efforts will be fulfilled in life.
In fact, no one is born a woman, every woman wants to be a little princess, but there is too much helplessness in life to force us to be strong and force us to be invincible.
As Zhang Xiaoxian said: "The transition of life, at that time, was difficult, one day twilight looking back, has flown a thousand mountains." How? I can't remember anymore. ”
Many times, when we are no longer entangled in our troubles, the troubles are actually already moving away little by little. Even if life is difficult, if you want to live yourself well, in addition to being strong or strong.
In this world, no one can define your life, only you can cheer yourself up. Most of the quality of life is determined by their own ideas.
Those women who are not weak and do not yield to life will always become strong in life, because after crossing the sadness, they will be happy, and after the night will break the dawn.
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Third: Do not blindly follow yourself and do not give up
In a person's life, he must plan for his future and see his own direction. Women, in particular, are weak in nature, but there is a saying that the world is controlled by men, but men are controlled by women.
So, smart women will choose to be independent.
Independence is not to say that there is no gap with the world and no need for companionship, but it is clear that happiness is not sought from men, but obtained by one's own hands.
You want to spend money to earn yourself, you want to find love yourself, and you want to be happy and make your own. Women will thrive on their own, spring will blossom, and there will be no shortage of butterflies to visit.
There are many such "superwomen" around us, who can wash and cook, can husband and teach children, and can earn money to support their families. Society is developing, and women are also being given more functions.
They live as they wish, do not rely on men, are not weak in life, and do not give up on themselves. Be able to see the world clearly, see yourself clearly, and be a ferryman of destiny.
A woman's life, learn to say "no", in order to live beautifully.
Therefore, in the second half of life, women must be strong, cool like the wind, tough like grass, even if silently crying, they can also go down to the kitchen to cook their own bowls of noodles.
Get out of your own prosperity in the mud, live noble and pure, independent and strong.