As the old saying goes, middle-aged couples kiss a mouthful, nightmares can do a few nights, recently, somehow, the short video platform always pushes that "family of six", old husbands and wives cuddle and cuddle, in the kitchen, in the living room, in the bedroom all kinds of show love.
To be honest, when I just brushed one or two, I think they are very good, but I see more, really greasy, after all, their age, I am afraid that when they fall in love, they will not be so intimate, old but come to the strength, really difficult to accept, the Internet is also a scolding.
The couple I want to talk about today is over 50 years old, and they are almost every day in front of people to "show love", however, their actions will not only not be boring, but full of touch, full of warmth, this is Lu Xuju, Liu Guizhi and his wife.
Lu Xuju, a native of Rizhao JuXian County, Shandong Province, was born in a cold and bitter background, and at the age of 23, he came to Qingdao to work, tied steel bars and pushed carts on the construction site, which was extremely hard.
Although Lu Xu is not tall, he is very able to bear hardships from a bitter haha, not only does a beautiful job, but also is a warm-hearted, no matter how tired, as long as the people around him need it, he will always lend a helping hand.
All this was looked at by the contractor, admired this young man, and gradually began to let him be his son-in-law, but several times he wanted to open his mouth, the contractor wanted to talk and stopped, what happened?
The reason is simple, his daughter Liu Guizhi is intellectually disabled and afraid that Lu Xuju is unwilling.
Although it was difficult to say, after getting familiar with it, the foreman of the package still mentioned this matter to Lu Xuju.
23 years old, it is a young man's proud time, at this time, let marry a "wife", I am afraid that no one is willing to do it?
It is very likely that Lu Xuju at that time was also unwilling, but first, he had kissed several times in his hometown, and as a result, the women thought that he was ugly and had complained, although Lu Xuqing thought that his heart was not bad, and his heart was beautiful, but the girls preferred to look handsome.
Second, the contractor was quite good to him, and he couldn't bear the old father's sadness, and Lu Xuju agreed to meet him.
Fate this thing, sometimes really magical, when seeing Liu Guizhi's first glance, Lu Xuju was deeply attracted, big eyes, thin figure, look innocent, especially laughing, is really good-looking.
In an instant, Lu Xuju fell, he felt that she was his destiny, and he was willing to take care of her for the rest of his life.
In August 1993, Lu Xuju, who had known each other for a few months, married Liu Guizhi.
At the beginning of the marriage, the two did not get along well, because of intellectual problems, Liu Guizhi was willful, grumpy, often lost his temper, and was even more disgusted with the sudden increase in "strangers" at home, and he was often about to drive him away.
But Lu Xuju really likes Liu Guizhi and understands her rejection very well, not only is he not angry, but he tries to make friends with Liu Guizhi.
Under Lu Xuju's patience, Liu Guizhi gradually accepted this person, and later, even regarded Lu Xuju as important as his parents and became an indispensable person in life.
In the second year of marriage, Liu Guizhi gave birth to a daughter to Lu Xuju, this daughter is not only intellectually normal, but also pink toot is very cute, lu Xuju, who became a father, loves his daughter at the same time, and loves his wife more, after all, she is a great hero in the family.
Because of intelligence, Liu Guizhi can not feed the child, Lu Xuju alone to take care of two "children", busy is in a mess, no way, he sent his daughter to his mother-in-law's house, let the mother-in-law help take care of it, he took care of his disabled wife, while earning money to support the family.
In 1995, Lu Xuju entered Qingdao Sanyuan Group as a greening worker, although the salary is not high, but it is much easier than working on the construction site, and there is more time to take care of his wife, cooking, washing, washing, washing, although much more tired than the usual man, but seeing his wife smile like a flower, Lu Xuju feels that everything is worth it.
In the blink of an eye, Lu Xuju's daughter was 10 years old and sensible, and his father-in-law and mother-in-law were also older, and they couldn't bear to worry about it anymore, so Lu Xuju took his daughter back home.
Suddenly, Lu Xuju's home began to "chicken flying dog jumping", every day when he came home from work, his wife and daughter always rushed to him to complain, either watching cartoons to grab the remote control, or she touched her, she pushed her.
Although the twittering is very noisy, it falls in Lu Xu's ears like a "fairy sound", and the scene is very warm, because in his eyes, this is the feeling of home.
With his wife's INTELLIGENCE, he couldn't understand what he said, so he began to enlighten his daughter, telling her that her mother was more special, and if she could, she would let it go.
10-year-old children, who have begun to understand things, watching their father come home the next day, but also busy cleaning up the house and taking care of their mother, how can the child not experience the hardships of his father? Gradually, she stopped fighting with her mother, got a little older, and helped her father take care of her mother.
Looking at the picture of "motherly kindness and filial piety", lu Xuju can imagine how happy he is.
Although the salary of the green worker is very low and the family of three lives poorly, Lu Xuju is very satisfied, and nothing is more important than the family's happiness together.
In the blink of an eye, after another seven or eight years, in 2014, their daughter was admitted to college and chose the preschool teacher major, which made Lu Xuju laugh, the kindergarten teacher is also a teacher, it is a teaching and educating person, and the daughter does not have to earn money by selling coolies like herself in the future.
And Lu Xuju's daughter, the reason why she chose the profession of kindergarten teacher, there are two reasons, first, she likes children, second, she has a "grown-up" mother, she hopes to pass on the joyful atmosphere of her family to every child.
Nowadays, Lu Xuju and Liu Guizhi have been together for 28 years, and under the careful care of Lu Xuju, Liu Guizhi is not only physically great, but also has significantly improved her intelligence and social skills.
Under the patient guidance of Lu Xuju, Liu Guizhi can help with some household chores, such as rolling dumpling skins, pounding garlic, sweeping the floor, and wiping the table.
Knowing that his wife likes to be lively, whenever there is leisure, Lu Xuju will invite a few workers and relatives to play in his own home, although Liu Guizhi will not play, but when she sees that everyone is happy, she will also be happy.
Nowadays, Lu Xuju's position in Liu Guizhi's heart has long surpassed that of her parents, and Liu Guizhi is also extremely dependent on Lu Xuju.
Every morning Lu Xuju went out, Liu Guizhi would lie on the window to send him away, every evening, he would also stay in front of the window, waiting for her husband to return, Lu Xuju entered the door, and immediately handed the hot water poured in advance to her husband.
Liu Guizhi is very affectionate with Lu Xuju, and will often hold his hand, kiss his cheek, and shove delicious things into his mouth for him to eat.
Because of the problem of intelligence, when Liu Guizhi makes these intimate actions, it is regardless of the occasion and often attracts the side eyes of passers-by.
For the strange eyes of others, Lu Xuju also does not care, in his eyes, his wife is happy is the most important, outside, Lu Xuju never shy away from his wife is disabled, the two often hold hands together to climb mountains, visit parks, buy vegetables, people before and after "show love".
People who know them, not only do not resent, but are envious from the bottom of their hearts, there is a wife who is full of his own eyes, why not "be embarrassed"?
After the deeds spread, he touched countless netizens, and because of this, in 2021, he was listed on the list of "filial piety and love for the elderly" of Qingdao civilized citizens.
This honor is undoubtedly a great affirmation of this man.