There was once a young man who came to me to do life planning, he was recommended to me by a friend, his friend had asked me to plan his future once before, and felt very satisfied, so he also recommended him to come to me to see, so as to take stock of his future.
Overall, after I read it to the young man, he was still very satisfied, thinking that my description of him was basically in line with his actual situation. For example, I am very satisfied with his personal character, his family background, and his general growth experience, social circle, and even health status.
He said to me, Teacher, you are really powerful, it is simply the golden eye of Sun Wukong, I am the kind of person you describe, if I had not found you on the Internet, I would really think that we are people who have known each other for many years in reality, or that my friend once told you about my situation.
I said to him, your friend has not mentioned anything about you, rest assured.
The young man replied, I believe in you and in my friend.
The young man then said to me that the biggest headache he has now is that he is almost thirty years old, but he has not been able to find a girlfriend, strictly speaking, he has not tasted the taste of love since he was born. He said that he was rural, and there was not much culture, the people in their area were more conservative in their thinking, and his parents had been urging him to quickly find a girlfriend to marry, but his parents did not know that now society was different from before, and now it is no longer the simple and beautiful era of that year, there is no certain material as the basis, a man without a diploma, no looks, and no savings, it is difficult to really find a partner. He thinks that he looks very average, the height is not particularly tall, less than one meter seven, no father to fight, only the first Chinese, into the society for more than ten years, only less than two hundred thousand savings, this little money for a man who wants to get married, it is simply a drop in the bucket, resentment that he does not have a particularly great ability, but it is impossible not to get married, he himself does not matter, but he always feels that if he does not get married, do not reproduce, or sorry for his parents, sorry for the ancestors.
So I asked him, what is your profession now?
The young man replied, Teacher, not afraid of your jokes, I am doing a particularly humble job, I am a doorman in a five-star hotel, that is, the kind of profession that bows to others, I myself think it is particularly undignified, but there is no way, I can only rely on this profession for a living.
I said to him, if you want to find someone, or even want to get married, you really should change careers. This job will limit your interpersonal communication, if you can't even meet a girl, why fall in love and get married?
The young man replied, Teacher, the truth is actually I know it myself, but how to change the method, I myself am confused, I have no clue.
After thinking about it for a while, I said to the young man, you don't have to say it, I really remembered that there is a profession that is particularly suitable for you, and may have a wonderful effect on your realization of singleness.
He then asked me what profession I was.
I said to him, you go to a milk tea shop to work, preferably a milk tea shop in a large shopping mall.
The young man then asked me why I had suggested he go to work at the milk tea shop.
I said to him, first of all, I think that in the process of being a protégé, you are actually not for nothing, in fact, this is a profession of observation, such as in the process of nodding at people, you do have a general understanding of the basic characteristics of this person, such as which people are real cattle people, which people are forked people, which people are dog fighting.
The young man replied, yes, teacher, I think I have the ability to see the color of speech, but what does this have to do with me going to work in a milk tea shop?
I said to him, you basically have the ability to observe people, what is lacking now is a way to know girls, you think about it, girls who work in milk tea shops, generally are relatively young, social experience is not much, they for the other half of the material requirements, may not be so high, and this kind of milk tea shop, the boss basically will not come to stare at you every day, which provides a good opportunity for you to communicate with girls. In addition, milk tea shops are generally relatively small area storefront, in a small space, a boy and a girl working together, is very convenient to exchange feelings, but also easy to produce a sense of intimacy, and two people together, and there is a division of labor, and cooperation, is not a bit of a husband and wife shop feeling? There is also that in large shopping malls, you can also do rest time, visit the mall, make an appointment, one-stop service, this is a good platform.
After listening to my suggestion, the young man quickly sent a thumbs up picture, and then said to me, Teacher, I see the line, just do it!
Speaking of this young man, it is really called a "people don't talk much", ah, he really resigned from the hotel immediately and found a milk tea shop to work.
Within a few months, the young man suddenly said to me one day on the Internet, teacher, it has been done, I am working in the milk tea shop according to the method you said, found my girlfriend, who is also my current fiancée, we have now registered, soon to get married, then we must send you a happy candy to the teacher. There is also, secretly tell you a secret, after the unremitting efforts of me and my girlfriend, we finally put this milk tea shop to the end, the boss lost more than 300,000 yuan, I myself made a girlfriend in vain, always feel a little sorry for my boss.
I said to him, in fact, the failure rate of the milk tea shop is already very high, this has nothing to do with you, there is no need to blame yourself too much, in short, congratulations on your successful single, and you are about to enter the marriage hall!