When it comes to Yang Ruoxi, many people may not have any impression. But when it comes to the fall in the first part of "Kangxi Micro Service Private Interview", many people may remember it.
She used to be an actress who was highly valued by Zhang Guoli and his wife, and Zhang Guoli treated her like his own sister.
But then Zhang Guoli and his wife gave up on her, why is this?
Yang Ruoxi and Liu Wei were once a controversial couple, although Lang Cai was a woman, but they were 23 years apart.
And Yang Ruoxi's current husband, Lian Yiming, and Yang Ruoxi also have an eight-year age difference.
Why did the young and beautiful Yang Ruoxi choose a man who was much older than himself twice? And what kind of emotional entanglement is there between them?
Born in Chongqing in 1979, Yang Ruoxi grew up beautiful, with slender limbs, and was a good seedling to learn dance.
When she was young, she was very weak and often sick, so her mother sent her to the Children's Palace to practice dance.
Yang Ruoxi's cultural class results are not very good, she is always in a daze when she goes to class, the teacher reminds her several times and it is useless, the classmates do not understand her behavior, maybe she is just immersed in her own dreams. And her dream is to dance.
When he was ten years old, the Beijing Air Politics Song and Dance Troupe came to Chongqing to select dancers. Yang Ruoxi naturally did not want to give up this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, but if she wanted to live alone in Beijing, her parents were really relieved about her.
Yang Ruoxi's family conditions are not very good, and her parents cannot quit their jobs to accompany her to study. But Yang Ruoxi insisted on going to Beijing alone to study for her dreams, and her parents saw that she was so persistent that she had to agree.
When Yang Ruoxi was alone in Beijing, her parents often sent her what her daughter liked.
It is precisely because of this that when she once wanted to give up her life, she remembered her parents who were far away from home, and she continued to persevere.
When Yang Ruoxi learned to dance, he experienced a lot of suffering, the dance teacher was very strict, often corporal punishment education, if the dance was not good, or did not practice in place, he would directly use the rattan to whip, sometimes the rattan was interrupted, and did not stop.
As a little girl, Yang Ruoxi has experienced a lot of suffering in such an environment, but she is particularly able to endure hardships, and she is different from children of the same age.
Although sometimes she would be beaten and punished for kneeling, she did not relax for a moment.
She often grinds her feet out of bubbles and bleeds because of practicing dance, and once in dance class, her fingernails flew out directly, directly frightening the teachers and classmates, and she also laughed and giggled.
Yang Ruoxi studied both ethnic dance and ballet, and worked harder than other students, so his grades were very good and his dance also made significant progress.
But after all, she was only a little girl, even if her body could endure hardships, the mental blow still made her almost collapse and commit suicide.
Once on a New Year's Day night, Yang Ruoxi was unusually homesick, so he wrote a postcard to his parents in the classroom.
As a result, two naughty male classmates had to tease her, turned off and opened the classroom one by one, and kept fiddling with it, not letting Yang Ruoxi write well, Yang Ruoxi's personality was relatively gentle, so he put up with it.
However, several boys passing by hugged her unevenly, and as a result, several boys fought and broke the glass of the classroom.
Originally, there was nothing wrong with Yang Ruoxi, but some of the teachers in that era were very feudal in their thinking, and a teacher scolded Yang Ruoxi in front of the whole class, and actually let a few boys fight for her.
This is really a great humiliation for Yang Ruoxi, who has just entered adolescence, Yang Ruoxi can't think for a moment, directly stood on the roof of the fourth floor, ready to jump down.
But at this time, she remembered the flowers and souvenirs sent to her by her parents, and her grandfather, who died when she was very young, and she did not jump after all.
After finally surviving the painful and torturous five years, Yang Ruoxi was admitted to the Air Politics Song and Dance Troupe, and it was at this time that she got the opportunity to act.
Yang Ruoxi is full of spirit and has a deep foundation in dance, and at a young age, he received the role of Xiang'er in "Kangxi Micro Service Private Interview", and performed together with Teacher Zhang Guoguo.
Because of her gentle and lively personality, she also performed well in the film, and Zhang Guoli and his wife praised her and directly recognized her as their own sister.
At that time, Yang Ruoxi affectionately called Sister Deng Jie and Zhang Guoli as his brother-in-law.
It was in the rising period of his career development that Yang Ruoxi met Liu Wei, who was 23 years older than himself.
Liu Wei is a very good actor, today he is 65 years old, and his film and television resources are still very good.
In 2021, he cooperated with Wu Gang, Ou Hao, Li Yifeng and Guo Xiaodong to perform "The Years of Passion", participated in the broadcast of the literary and artistic performance "Great Journey" celebrating the centenary of the founding of the Communist Party of China, and also participated in the film "Chinese Doctor" on the theme of fighting the new crown pneumonia epidemic.
When he was young, Liu Wei also filmed many works, such as "Guanzhong Girl", "Tang Minghuang", "Burning Life", etc. are his representative works, and he has also appeared on the Spring Festival Gala performance sketches.
When Yang Ruoxi knew Liu Wei, he was still filming in "Kangxi Micro Service Private Interview", and Liu Wei made a cameo in it.
At that time, Yang Ruoxi, who had just begun to enter the acting career, did not have a person around to take care of him, and often came and went alone.
Liu Wei observed this silent but very hard-working little girl and took care of her as if she were his own daughter.
Once Yang Ruoxi accidentally burned his feet with boiling water, and the people in the crew were frightened, but Yang Ruoxi was just like when he was learning dance, laughing and saying that it was okay, and he felt that others were surprised.
Yang Ruoxi grinned widely, not afraid at all, but made Liu Wei feel a wave of pain from the inside.
What did this little girl go through to be so calm when she was in danger?
Ignoring Yang Ruoxi's objections, Liu Wei insisted on taking Yang Ruoxi to the hospital.
"A little girl, how come you don't know how to protect yourself?" Liu Wei directly hugged Yang Ruoxi, scolding on her lips, but the pain in her eyes was captured by Yang Ruoxi.
Yang Ruoxi, who has been living alone from his parents since he was a child, faces such a broad shoulder and unconsciously wants to rely on it.
In this way, Yang Ruoxi fell in love with Liu Wei and directly confessed to Liu Wei.
Liu Wei also frightened himself, in fact, he had always just regarded her as a daughter, and in the face of such a beautiful and cute little girl's confession, Liu Wei also felt overwhelmed.
However, Yang Ruoxi did make him feel moved, so Liu Wei decided to bravely love once, agreed to Yang Ruoxi's confession, and lived with her.
At that time, the age difference between couples was so large that it was inevitable that someone would point fingers, but the two people still insisted on coming together despite the opposition of everyone and showing affection in public.
At that time, Yang Ruoxi was happy and satisfied, but after they were together, contradictions gradually surfaced.
Liu Wei was nearly 50 years old at the time, and he very much wanted to get married and have a child of his own.
However, Yang Ruoxi's career has just started, and she has no way to give up her job, after all, giving birth will inevitably affect the career development of a woman, let alone an actress.
Liu Wei did not force Yang Ruoxi at the beginning, but was particularly good to her, as long as there was a good play, he would help Yang Ruoxi to fight for opportunities, and even often said that if he did not let her act, he would not act.
Liu Wei also gave his money to Yang Ruoxi for safekeeping, and opened a coffee shop for her.
Liu Wei met Yang Ruoxi's needs as a little girl in all aspects, and pampered her unconditionally, and in this way, the two people loved each other and spent nine years.
But one day, Liu Wei suddenly disappeared.
One day after filming "Beiping Past", Yang Ruoxi found that he could not contact Liu Wei at all.
This person is like evaporating in the world, and the friends around him have finished asking, and as a result, they can't find him wherever they go.
Yang Ruoxi sat alone at home, only to realize that Liu Wei might have left him.
At that time, it was the "Beiping Past" press conference, Yang Ruoxi went to the conference with a glimmer of hope, thinking that Liu Wei, as a producer and star, would definitely come to the scene.
The unexpected result is that Liu Wei did not even come to the press conference in order to avoid himself.
Yang Ruoxi couldn't help it, directly on the scene of tears, in the face of the reporter's questions, she choked up that Liu Wei was missing, they broke up.
Faced with the sudden departure of his lover, Yang Ruoxi was deeply shocked and directly returned to his hometown in Chongqing to accompany his parents, and did not take the drama for a long time.
It wasn't until 2008 that Liu Wei suddenly appeared, taking his wife and son with him.
It turned out that he had married in the United States and had a son with a makeup teacher.
When he first left Yang Ruoxi, it was also because Yang Ruoxi was always unwilling to marry him and have children, he was already more than fifty years old, and he really couldn't wait.
Yang Ruoxi was hit hard again, and often secretly avoided crying on the set.
She had actually been waiting for Liu Wei to come back, and she was ready to marry him and give him a baby.
It was also when she felt desperate that Lian Yiming, who had filmed "The Course of History" with her, appeared.
Lian Yiming was eight years older than Yang Ruoxi and was already married at that time, but the marriage was already extinct in name only.
Seeing that Yang Ruoxi was sad in the crew every day, even Yiming often went to comfort her.
At this time, Yang Ruoxi was originally very fragile in her heart, and in the face of such a gentle and considerate man, she was once again moved.
Even Yiming gradually developed a good feeling for Yang Ruoxi, and his already discordant marriage finally had a reason for divorce. Lian Yiming made up his mind and directly divorced his wife Chen Shi.
Lian Yiming directly cleaned up the house, the car house son did not want, iron heart to marry Yang Ruoxi.
However, he forgot that Chen Shi (Chen Jiayan) was more famous than him at the beginning, and when he starred in "Marrying the Wrong Flower Car to the Lang", Lian Yiming was still unknown.
Chen Shi did not want a house, did not want money, and once fought to save Lian Yiming in an accidental fire, but now he has ended up with such a result, which is really chilling.
Probably because Chen Shi's ability is outstanding in all aspects, even Yiming has no sense of existence in the family, while the weak Yang Ruoxi has satisfied his desire to protect as a man.
So in 2011, Lian Yiming and Yang Ruoxi got married and made the good news public.
This made Zhang Guoli and his wife, who had always admired Yang Ruoxi, unable to accept it, because Yang Ruoxi had intervened in someone else's marriage after all.
The resources of Yang Ruoxi and Lian Yiming were not particularly good originally, and it was even more difficult to receive good drama after marriage.
Lian Yiming began to be a director himself, but there was still no improvement, no profit and loss, and finally had to return to the opera stage to sing.
The pressure of life, work, and public opinion made Lian Yiming breathless, he was full of white hair, and he did not look like a person in his forties at all.
But Yang Ruoxi felt that he had received the happiness he wanted.
Perhaps for Yang Ruoxi, who has experienced a love failure, the happiness of the family is far more important than the success of her career, and this time she only wants to firmly hold on to her love and family.
Yang Ruoxi now has a child with Lian Yiming, who takes care of all the housework in the family, except for the occasional variety show, the rest of the time is concerned about family life, and it is also a pleasant life.
Although Lian Yiming does not have any good resources, but life is simple and happy, his wife is beautiful and virtuous, and his son is well-behaved and cute, which is also a kind of satisfaction for him!