You Yongzhi is a well-known actor, from Yuan Hongwei in "The Circuit Prosecutor's Group" to Kanlila in "The Great Mekong Case".
With his superb acting skills, he has brought us one big boy role after another.
But it is such a hot-blooded boy, but emotionally he is an "obsessive species" trapped by love for 8 years.
As early as thirty years ago, he and Xu Qing became acquainted with each other and began a wonderful love story.
But this relationship was like the wind, hurriedly intruding into his life and then leaving in a hurry, leaving him alone in the wind.
You Yongzhi could not let go of his nostalgia for a long time after the breakup, and the appearance of a woman 8 years later pulled him out of the shadow of his feelings.
One
You Yongzhi was born in Xi'an, Shaanxi Province, and the heroism of the plateau people was vividly displayed in her body.
Others, as the name suggests, have been very brave since childhood.
Compared with his peers, his personality is more extroverted, and he has been the "child king" of his peers since he can remember.
He often organized some children to go to the park to play, and plucked some willow leaves and folded them into straw hats to wear on their heads.
You Yongzhi can always make more and bigger straw hats in the same time and wear them on his head to swear his status as "king".
His personality is grinning, and so is he after school.
You Yongzhi is not only a "poor student" in the class, but also a "chaos demon king" who worries the teachers the most.
He doesn't like to learn, and all the time in class is spent thinking about what to play after class.
When some teachers reminded him to listen carefully to the lectures, he not only did not repent, but even moved out of his own great demon temperament.
It has become common for You Yongzhi to talk back with teachers, and sometimes even run directly out of class.
Because of his naughtiness, the school approached his parents several times to talk to him.
But in the face of such a naughty child, his parents have scolded him, and in the end there is really no way to "give up treatment".
Although You Yongzhi's personality is very debauched and eager for freedom, he is very attentive to one thing, that is, watching dramas.
His fate with drama also began when he first began to skip class.
He was 8 years old, and on a summer when cicadas were chirping, he came out of the back door of the school because he didn't want to go to class.
You Yongzhi walked aimlessly on the street alone, and when he passed a drama theater, he was deeply attracted by the sounds inside.
He walked in to see a group of people in costumes rehearsing on stage, and it was still a martial arts play.
This made You Yongzhi's heart instantly have an idea of drama, and the seed of being an actor in his heart also began to take root.
Since then, whenever he skipped class, the Drama Theater became his favorite place, and the actors in the Drama Theater affectionately called him a "loyal fan".
When You Yongzhi was 17 years old, the Xi'an Drama Theater was enrolling students, and he immediately went to register after he knew it.
At that time, there were tens of thousands of people participating in the audition, but the final quota was only 16, and how should he stand out from these people who had never studied drama?
After thinking about it, he decided to play his old line, a "bully".
Only to see him perform "the self-cultivation of a bad guy" on the stage, making the people in the audience laugh.
The judges thought that his acting skills were very good, but they did not know that this was just his "true appearance".
What You Yongzhi did not expect was that he was actually taken by the drama theater in this way, far ahead of tens of thousands of people, and successfully entered the drama theater.
He became an actor and his life trajectory began to change.
Two
After You Yongzhi entered the drama theater, he felt very fresh about everything around him.
Since he liked to watch drama since he was a child, he knew better than anyone that this opportunity to enter the drama theater was not easy to come by.
He put away his grinning personality and transformed himself into an actor who pursues progress all the time.
Perhaps he was engaged in a job he liked, and the childishness and impetuosity of his body disappeared without a trace in the drama theater.
In the end, when he finished his further studies at the Xi'an Drama Theatre and was admitted to Nortel to continue his studies, the director of the Drama Theatre was still reluctant and did not want this good seedling to leave.
In order to soothe the dean's emotions, he wrote a letter of assurance that he would return to the Xi'an Drama Theatre after completing his studies.
In 1984, You Yongzhi was admitted to the drama with the first place in the professional course.
At this time, he has transformed into a professional actor and truly become the "best" among his peers.
And his first love is also slowly coming to his side.
When You Yongzhi grew up, he was not only tall, but his face was also very handsome.
Coupled with a talent, it is simply the "dream lover" in the hearts of many girls.
He has a lot of suitors for the play, and even when people are resting in the dormitory, there will be girls shouting his name downstairs in the dormitory.
This makes You Yongzhi feel very troubled, although there are many girls with good conditions among the many suitors, but his heart has long gone to the object of his crush.
The girl's name was Liu Xiaochun and she was his classmate.
Although You Yongzhi's conditions were good, whenever he saw Liu Xiaochun, he would always shyly walk around, or fight with people with his peers to hide his embarrassment.
What he didn't know was that Liu Xiaochun, who was also an actor, also had a crush on You Yongzhi.
The love of the two for each other has always been deeply hidden in the heart, and they have never revealed the slightest love.
It wasn't until they interacted in an acting class that You Yongzhi plucked up the courage to confess to the other party.
No one expected him, who always had a big grin, to bow his head shyly in front of the girls for the first time.
In this way, the two came together and became the "golden boy and jade girl" envied by everyone.
You Yongzhi and Liu Xiaochun's relationship is very stable, and they have almost determined that each other is the one who enjoys the white head.
But their ideal love, in the end, still failed to withstand the wind and rain of reality.
After graduating, You Yongzhi did not choose to return to the Xi'an Drama Theatre, and he paid a liquidated damages of 6,000 yuan in exchange for freedom.
Compared with the Xi'an Drama Theatre, he is more eager to go to Beijing with his girlfriend and look for more opportunities.
In the vast city of Beijing, even if the two of them were born in a professional art school, it was difficult to escape the fate of being submerged.
Life in Beijing is not as good as they think, but it is more difficult to survive than other cities.
When they first entered the society and had no income, they could only save money to maintain their daily lives.
More than ever, You Yongzhi wants to get ahead and let his women live a good life without having to suffer with him.
He also wants to buy a house in Beijing without having to live in a dilapidated rental house with his girlfriend and share the same bathroom with other people.
Fortunately, Liu Xiaochun did not care that You Yongzhi had achieved nothing now, she believed that this man had unlimited talent and potential.
It is true that You Yongzhi's talent is really one of the best, but the only thing he lacks is luck.
Sometimes luck seems to be an important ingredient in controlling fate than talent.
Perhaps it was bad luck, You Yongzhi was not selected by Bo Le for a long time, and could only run the dragon set in the crew to maintain a basic life.
The poor couple mourned, and his relationship with his girlfriend began to be disturbed by some trivialities in life, and finally came to the step of breaking up.
Three
The breakup hit You Yongzhi's heart hard, he knew that he did not have the ability to give Liu Xiaochun a better life, and he wanted to keep it but still had no qualifications.
Life alone is also easy, although life is still so bitter, but a person eating and staying will pass.
He returned his previous rental house and rented a cheaper studio.
There were no facilities in the house except for a bed and basic cooking tools, and even a small opening in the window.
This also led to a very damp inside the house, his clothes in the house often have a musty smell, but outside the house and easy to be stolen.
The days seemed to be getting more and more bitter, and his heart was also very depressed, often borrowing wine in the middle of the night to dispel his sorrows.
Although life is very hard, he has not given up on himself, and changing the status quo has always been the goal he has been insisting on in his heart.
After a few years of wandering in Beijing, You Yongzhi's life began to get better.
The life of the North Drift in the past few years seems to be a kind of experience for him by the heavens, so that he "eats bitterly and is a good person."
In 1991, he starred in the movie "Crazy", playing a pair of lovers with Xu Qing, who was 7 years younger.
Although this movie was not released later for various reasons, it is a good memory for You Yongzhi.
He and Xu Qing had an affair in the play, and what he didn't know at that time was that this relationship would become a difficult time for his life.
At the first sight of Xu Qing in the crew, You Yongzhi fell deeply.
Xu Qing looks pure and lovely, just like the fairy who came out of the painting, which makes people feel excited at a glance.
This is the second time that You Yongzhi has been so impressed with a woman after breaking up with Liu Xiaochun.
Xu Qing's smile and every move were perfect in his eyes.
Whenever he stood in front of the other party, he even felt inferior, because Xu Qing was a very perfect person in his heart.
"I must pursue Xu Qing, otherwise I will regret it for the rest of my life."
He swore in his heart, and then launched a fierce pursuit of him.
Xu Qing realized that You Yongzhi's love for her was also full of good feelings.
One day, after the crew finished work, You Yongzhi took Xu Qing to a restaurant for dinner.
In order to embolden himself, he specially ordered a bottle of liquor, just so that he would not be afraid of the stage when he confessed later.
The two talked and laughed at the dinner table, and he also drank liquor cup after cup, waiting for the opportunity to confess.
As the two chatted more and more atmospherically, You Yongzhi suddenly stood up.
"Xiao Qing, I like you, be my girlfriend."
After he said this, he was already sweating profusely, not knowing whether the drink was too hot or too nervous.
Xu Qing saw the situation and immediately took a tissue to wipe the sweat off his face.
Looking at the nervous You Yongzhi in front of him, Xu Qing couldn't help but laugh.
"I promise you, be your girlfriend."
After speaking, Xu Qing took the initiative to take You Yongzhi's hand to prove that he was saying this sentence very seriously.
You Yongzhi hugged the beauty and began a sweet love life with Xu Qing.
He is very single-minded about his feelings, willing to listen to Xu Qing's opinions and suggestions on everything, and has completely degenerated from a big man to a "spoiled wife demon".
Whenever Xu Qing was filming outside, he would put down his work and travel thousands of miles to visit his girlfriend's crew.
Although he still has a lot of work to deal with, as long as Xu Qing's words "miss you", everything is a floating cloud.
And Xu Qing's love for You Yongzhi is also in her eyes, in her heart, in her own words: "He is not only a lover, but also a family member." ”
The feelings of the two are also notoriously sweet in the circle, and it can be said that they are the "model couple" that everyone envies.
But what no one expected was that it was such a couple, and the relationship ended after less than a year.
Four
When the relationship between them ended, even You Yongzhi was hindsighted, what was going on?
In 1991, Xu Qing partnered with actor Wang Zhiwen and starred in the movie "Imperial City Roots", in which she played the heroine "Golden Branch".
In order to be able to be with Xu Qingzhi, You Yongzhi also got a supporting role in the play.
But what he did not expect was that his girlfriend would hold hands with others in this drama from inside the play to outside the play.
In this drama, Xu Qing and Wang Zhiwen, who is both talented and beautiful, are attracted to each other.
At that time, Wang Zhiwen's fame was already very high, and he also had a certain influence in the circle.
Compared with You Yongzhi, Wang Zhiwen is indeed a perfect man in the minds of more women
And Xu Qing's heart, after meeting Wang Zhiwen, also began to change.
She eventually took Wang Zhiwen's hand and unilaterally declared at the new drama launch that she had broken up with You Yongzhi.
After this news was broadcast, You Yongzhi, who was the "party", was very surprised, and he could not accept that his girlfriend still held the hands of others.
Xu Qing has always been the existence of "White Moonlight" in his heart, and this relationship has been so beautiful that he cannot face the facts, and the person who has been hurt the most is him.
After the breakup, You Yongzhi's spirit became devastated.
The pain of the original North Drift in Beijing was less than one in ten thousandths of what it was after the breakup.
Xu Qing is his favorite woman, he is not opposed to lovers to pursue new love, but he has never been able to accept this reality.
Not knowing where to go, he called his brother Ge You and Li Chengru.
The three brothers get together, and You Yongzhi drinks while telling his inner grievances and pain.
His two brothers were also on the sidelines to comfort him and let him see the matter as soon as possible.
"Yongzi, where there is no herb at the end of the world, why should we love a flower alone, it is really not okay, let's try to change the next one, maybe we will meet true love."
Listening to the brothers' stable words, You Yongzhi's heart felt a lot better.
"Thank you brother, I understand the truth. I just can't let go of this hurdle in my heart. ”
After saying that, You Yongzhi poured another large cup, and then sighed a long time.
For the next time, he stayed in Ge You and Li Cheng's Confucianism, and every day in addition to drinking and singing, he lay down on the sofa to sleep.
He persisted in this life for 3 years, until he finally embarrassed to stay in his brother's house and decided to change the status quo.
He regrouped and returned to the entertainment industry.
After a few years, her former girlfriend Xu Qing has become a first-line actress, standing on the stage and shining.
Looking at himself again, he is completely like a middle-aged uncle, and he has achieved nothing.
After the lessons of the first two loves, he believes that the biggest reason is that he has no savings.
You Yongzhi decided to change from this point, and he vowed to work hard to become a good person.
He devoted himself to his work, and his life slowly began to go uphill.
His friends around him are married and have children, and they have begun to worry about his marriage.
Whenever someone introduced him to an object, he was rejected by him: "There is no woman in the heart, and the sword is naturally god." ”
Over time, his friends stopped paying attention to his relationship.
It wasn't until 2000 that a girl named Shen Rong broke into You Yongzhi's life.
Five
Shen Rong is a fan of You Yongzhi, who has been following this man for all these years, and later became friends with You Yong through the introduction of friends.
She knew the other person's emotional experience and decided to use her warmth and care to take this man out of sadness.
In order to make You Yongzhi feel loved, Shen Rong will make breakfast for him every day and deliver it to You Yongzhi's doorstep.
In her spare time, she will also offer to take You Yongzhi out to play and take him to places he has never been to relax.
After a long time together, the closed chain in You Yongzhi's heart finally began to loosen.
Since he broke up with Xu Qing, he has not come out of the shadow of lost love for 8 years, and now the wound is slowly smoothed by a little girl.
This makes You Yongzhi full of hope for love again, and he gradually realizes some things.
"Find one you like, it is better to find one who likes you, I was once heartbroken because of love, I thought that I would end up alone in this life, it was the appearance of Shen Rong, who refilled me with positive energy."
A correct love has always inspired two people to make progress together.
After You Yongzhi and Shen Rong were together, life also began to become positive.
With the encouragement of his wife Shen Rong, he began to try more wonderful roles in the show business circle, and his career also rose sharply.
He doesn't have to humble for love, because he knows that his wife loves him too, and the only thing he can do is to live up to her love.
Although they did not have children after marriage, they still lived a very happy life.
This is like You Yongzhi himself said: "With my wife, I have rediscovered the meaning of love." ”
Inappropriate love will only make people stop moving forward, and the right love will make the other party progress together.
Xu Qing was once You Yongzhi's Yi Nanping, the person who influenced him the most, making him think that he would never touch love again.
But the appearance of Shen Rong allowed him to find the true meaning of love again.
Today's You Yongzhi can be described as a double harvest of love career, from Yuan Hongwei in "Circuit Prosecution Group" to Li Dayou in "Mountains and Seas", he has created a classic role for us with wonderful acting skills.
Looking forward to his new work, I wish him a career that rises higher and higher, and love is sweet and happy.