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She is a woman who can marry Mei Lanfang, a master of theater art.
She is a woman who married the Mei family and was able to sit on an equal footing with the original grand lady and become a peaceful wife
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She is a really staged how to become a big house from a flat wife, inside and outside no one can fault the main mother's wife.
But she is also a woman who can't tolerate the drama of the female emperor Meng Xiaodong.
She is Fu Zhifang.
Fu Zhifang was born in 1905 and was born in the real flag people.
However, after her mother got married, she found it difficult to get along with her in-laws and husband, so she went home with her pregnancy and lived the life of a single mother.
This is also a kind of boldness, and at that time, there were not many women who dared to do so. And the blessed mother is to cut toothpicks by hand, one by one to raise her daughters to adulthood.
Fu Mu is quite thoughtful, she believes that women also have a certain body to stand in the world. Therefore, when Fu Zhifang was still very young, he was sent to study drama.
The appearance is exquisite, and a pair of bright Dan phoenix eyes are even more implicit in the autumn waves.
Watching Fu Zhifang emerge more and more beautifully, and also show her talent in singing from time to time.
Finally, after being introduced by others, she was extremely fortunate to worship under the door of Wu Lingxian, the opera master at that time.
Although Fu Zhifang's reputation in the future was not as big as Mei Lanfang's, but in terms of the talent of the two, Fu Zhifang was not bad, after the teacher's teaching, the first time on stage, it ushered in the audience's loud applause, and there were many male audiences secretly a large number of this beauty.
At that time, many reports called Fu Zhifang a "new star show" of Peking Opera. If she had continued to sing, Fu Zhifang would have occupied a seat in the peking opera name that we can now call out.
FuMu's figure is relatively large, worried about the daily safety of her daughter when performing, she will pretend to be a man to follow her side to protect her, but she still did not prevent her daughter from being moved by her brother Mei Lanfang.
According to some information, from the very beginning when Mei Lanfang saw Fu Zhifang, he did not give birth to the love element of the moon hitting the earth. On the contrary, in his eyes, this is a suitable woman for procreation.
It turned out that Mei Lanfang's lovely sons and daughters had just been killed by measles, and the original Wang Minghua was devastated by this, because in the early years, his wife went to sterilization surgery in order to support his career and ignore everyone's opposition. Wang Minghua is traditional, and she knows that the Mei family will not be accepted by reality. Therefore, she has always supported her husband to take another concubine.
Therefore, he hurried to find someone to talk about the media, and after some trouble, Mei Lanfang and Fu Zhifang officially married.
She took over the responsibility of taking care of the family from Wang Minghua and took care of the Mei family from top to bottom. Mei Lanfang's performance career, from food, clothing, housing and transportation to performance arrangements, is also done by herself, and outsiders call this Xian Neisuke "Fu Zhifang".
Of course, I don't want to be a wife who can only take care of the shortness of the parents, but I want to be a wife worthy of her husband. So she asked Mei Lanfang to find a teacher for herself, learn poetry and painting, and be very proficient in vernacular and ancient Chinese.
Not only that, she also pays great attention to the current trend and learns how fashionable women dress. When accompanying her husband to meet guests, he dressed very well, was very fashionable, and received a lot of praise.
In the second year of marriage, she gave birth to a son, originally this child should be raised as Wang Minghua's child, but Wang Minghua said that he was not in good health, and after a month he sent the child back to his biological mother, in fact, Wang Minghua was very touched by Fu Zhifang's move, and when he sent the child back, he also made a hat for the child to bring, after this encounter, Wang Minghua and Fu Zhifang had a close relationship.
At this point, Fu Zhifang could be said to have taken the power of the head of the Mei family without moving a knife or a shot.
In 1929, Wang Minghua died of illness in Tianjin, Fu Zhifang also let his youngest son Mei Baochen as a filial piety to Wang Minghua Fuling to make a flag, before and after the funeral, Fu Zhifang led 3 sons to wear ma Dai filial piety, and handled Wang Minghua's affairs in a decent and comprehensive manner.
For the "eldest sister" Wang Minghua, Fu Zhifang can treat each other with sincerity, she has given birth to nine sons for the Mei family in her life, which cannot be described as hard work, and the Mei family has always been the battlefield of Fu Zhifang, she firmly defends the fruits of her labor and does not allow anyone to covet.
When a young and beautiful "new lover" Meng Xiaodong appeared next to her famous husband, Fu Zhifang regarded him as a "love enemy" and slowly exhibited his own unknown scheming and means.
Fu Zhifang felt the crisis of marriage, resolutely defended his position as the head of the room, sternly refused Meng Xiaodong to marry into the Mei family, and even threatened Mei Lanfang with the child in his belly. Let Mei Lanfang make a choice, want a child or Meng Xiaodong to enter the door, Mei Lanfang, who has no way to pay attention to her heirs, chose a child, and Meng Xiaodong's dream of marrying into Mei was also shattered.
Mei Lanfang always thought that as long as she insisted, Fu Zhifang's attitude would eventually be soft, but before the day came, a serious quarrel occurred again between Fu Zhifang and Meng Xiaodong.
After Mei Lanfang's aunt died, Meng Xiaodong, as a concubine he had been raising outside, came to mourn according to the rules, but who knew that Fu Zhifang stopped at the door and did not let Meng Xiaodong come in, and ordered the next person to call "Miss Meng". In view of today's special occasion, many people have advised Fu Zhifang to let Meng come in and kowtow.
Fu Zhifang stood up sharply, resolutely refused, and said: "I took two children, and one in my stomach, and Fought with her, today's door, just don't let her in." Mei Lanfang looked at Fu Zhifang, who was about to give birth, and had to give up, letting people persuade "Miss Meng" to go back.
The "Winter Emperor" was famous all over the capital, for a time, the streets and alleys, large and small publications were all kinds of speculation about this matter, how could the proud and lonely Meng Xiaodong bear such grievances and embarrassment, in a fit of anger, published the newspaper, and Mei Lanfang broke away from the husband and wife relationship, and this marriage that lasted only nine months disintegrated.
At the end of 1941, the Japanese army suddenly surrounded Hong Kong, and Mei Lanfang, who was performing in Hong Kong, was trapped in his private apartment at 8 De Dao, and was cut off from the outside world. It can be said that Mei Lanfang's most difficult time was spent with her.
Mei Lanfang was trapped, and the outside world was rumored for a while, but at this time, Fu Zhifang stepped forward and announced to the major media: "Mr. Mei will definitely return safely!" ”
During Mei Lanfang's time in Hong Kong, she asked around for Mei Lanfang's news while taking care of her children.
She had never imagined how she could have so much energy. After the Dragon Boat Festival the following year, there was finally news of Mei Lanfang.
It is said that at that time, someone used 100 gold bars as bait to persuade Fu Zhifang to come back, but Fu Zhifang was not at all moved, preferring to rely on selling real estate, selling jewelry, selling calligraphy and paintings to survive, rather than bowing to the Japanese.
On April 4, 1945, mei lanfang's painting exhibition opened, and when Fu Zhifang and Mei Lanfang arrived at the exhibition hall, they accidentally found that each painting was pinned with a small note ordered by The Japanese.
Mei Lanfang was angry and explained everywhere, or Fu Zhifang made up her mind, persuaded Mei Lanfang to destroy all the calligraphy and paintings, while drawing, she also said with vigor and words: Mei Lanfang does not sell her heart when she sells art!
Although the exhibition was not completed, this move caused a sensation throughout the country, and everyone praised Mei Lanfang and his wife as "loyal to the soul".
In 1961, Mei Lanfang died of a myocardial infarction in Beijing.
Fu Zhifang endured the grief and made a request to the prime minister to let her husband be buried with Wang Minghua. This request was allowed, and Fu Zhifang personally served as a supervisor. Personally inspected and supervised, Mei Lanfang and Wang Minghua were buried together in the Wanhua Mountain of Xiangshan.
Minghua's sister and Husband hair are married, have children for Mr. Minghua, love Mr. Minghua deeply, manage to manage half a life, and treat me like a sister. She was lonely and miserable when she went, but now my husband went first, and only by seeing my husband and my sister return with my sister in person could I heal my heart a little.
On January 29, 1980, Fu Zhifang finally died at the age of 75 due to the ineffectiveness of cerebral thrombotic attack rescue. Before Fu Zhifang died, she did not leave a legacy for her children, but left a last word to the world: Mei Lanfang's career is like a mountain, and I can only be counted as a nameless grass.
Later generations buried the three of them together, and their lives were considered complete.
Without Fu Zhifang's nameless silent dedication in her life, there would be no Glorious Life of Mei Lanfang
Fu Zhifang knows the general body, knows the advance and retreat and knows the trade-offs, and knows very well what he wants in his heart, and it is precisely because of this that Mei Lanfang said before he died, "Without Fu Zhifang, where is Mei Lanfang", which is enough to see how deep Fu Zhifang's position in Mei Lanfang's mind is.