The son and daughter-in-law are divorcing.
Everyone was trying to persuade him, but this mother-in-law, carrying a large bag of home-cooked food, came to her daughter-in-law, and she said, "I'm not here to persuade you, I'm here to say goodbye to you and Hehe." ”
A few years later, her granddaughter Hehe suddenly fell ill, and the mother-in-law laughed a second ago because she had won mahjong, and after hearing the news, she was so sad that she couldn't even stand steadily.
When I went to the hospital to see my granddaughter, the old man hugged his granddaughter on the hospital bed and cried a lot.
This mother-in-law is the hit drama "Dear Child", Xiao Lu's mother Gao Caiping.
The role of Gao Caiping does not have many roles, but he can crush several protagonists with his own unique style and occupy a place in "Dear Child".
This credit is due to the actor Li Qinqin, who portrayed a small problem in front of a big thing but a very wise high-color screen.
Even the "former daughter-in-law" Ren Suxi said: "My mother is really good at acting." ”
Indeed, as a "mother-in-law" professional household, Li Qinqin's control of such a role has never disappointed.
She is the Hengshan Sect Dingyi Master Tai in "Smiling Proud of the Rivers and Lakes", the adoptive mother of Yuan this summer in "Under the Golden Dress", the Luo Jia mother in "When the Mother-in-Law Meets the Mother", and the daughter-in-law in "The Big Mansion Gate 2".
Li Qinqin is a very stereotypical person, although they are all mother-in-law or mother-in-law roles, but she can perform different wonderful performances.
This may have a lot to do with the actor's own experience.
Because I like Li Qinqin, I couldn't help but read the past experience of this old drama bone, and after watching it, I found out:
She has the appearance of a mature woman, but also the heart of a girl, the bravery of a man, and the simplicity of a woman.
Li Qinqin's life is indeed more exciting than the TV series.
01 The transformation from a registered clerk to an actor
Li Qinqin was born in Beijing in 1963.
Since childhood, Li Qinqin is a beautiful billet, big eyes, tall, dark skin, people give nicknames "black bandages", a few kilometers in circumference belongs to her most beautiful.
Behind the mother's pride, there are also their own troubles, because Li Qinqin grew too fast, a did not pay attention and a lot higher, just made the new pants, did not take long to wear to become legging pants.
Other people's mothers are worried that the child will not grow up, but Mother Li often says worriedly: "This child looks like a crane, what should I do if I am so tall?" Don't be long. ”
Because of his tall age, Li Qinqin entered the volleyball team when he was 13 years old, and became a classmate with Lang Ping, and the two played on the school team together.
Although Li Qinqin grew tall, he could not bounce.
When rehearsing, the teacher often feels sad, and whenever he sees Li Qinqin bouncing, the teacher always can't help but say: "When I was young, I wore high heels and jumped higher than you." ”
In this way, on the volleyball side, Li Qinqin finally passed by.
Later, when she failed the college entrance examination, her father could only arrange for her to enter the hospital as a registration officer according to his own wishes.
Can't play volleyball, can't go to college, these can't stop Li Qinqin from becoming a hero in the hospital.
Because of their beautiful looks, many people who are not sick like to go to the window to register, just to see Li Qinqin.
At one point, the head of the office said to her, "You've been complained about. ”
Li Qinqin thought that her work was not done well, and after asking the reason clearly, she learned that on the day she took a leave, someone went to register, and after hanging up, she was reluctant to leave.
Standing by the window, he looked left and right, and then impatiently asked the staff: "What about the black nurse, why didn't you come today?" ”
If other people hear such words, they may be proud, what is charm? Oh, that's it.
However, after Li Qinqin heard such words, he was like a fish in his throat.
She didn't like the job, and although she didn't know what ideals she had, her future certainly couldn't be tied to this little window.
Later, there was a restaurant that was recruiting actors, and some people thought that Li Qinqin looked so beautiful, and it was a pity that she was not an actor, so they suggested that she try it.
Li Qinqin feels that it makes sense, although she has no experience in acting, but she has also made cameo appearances in dramas before.
The performance is much more interesting than registration.
On the day of the interview, Li Qinqin put on pajamas worth 7 yuan and went to the interview with a big grin, and when she was in line, she looked at the beautiful women in the hall and had no confidence in an instant.
But all came, always can't let herself end it without starting, so she lined up for a long time, and she didn't expect that when she interviewed, she was really selected by the director.
In this way, Li Qinqin went from a registration clerk to the heroine of "Beijing Story".
Li Qinqin said that she had picked up a big bargain, in fact, she knew how to seize the opportunity and did not shrink back when she encountered a strong enemy.
This is the brave side of Li Qinqin.
As long as you can take the first step, as long as you dare to tiptoe, you can bring yourself closer to the sun.
After officially becoming an actor, Li Qinqin is not picky about the role, she thinks that as long as someone uses herself, it is very good.
Therefore, she dared to challenge the older role of "mother-in-law or mother" at the age of about thirty years old, so as to make herself a professional in this field.
02 Both marriages are married to foreigners, and they are ridiculed
Li Qinqin has had two marriages.
Her first husband, a Japanese man named Yamane, was a journalist.
At that time, when Li Qinqin went to Japan to play, he met the local indigenous Yamane, and Yamane did his best to make a difference as a landlord, leading Li Qinqin to play many well-known attractions and eat famous local snacks.
Later, Yamane told her that when he was young, he had received help from chinese in Japan, so he had a very good impression of Chinese.
Yamane soon fell in love with Li Qinqin, and his confession was straightforward.
Yamane: "Do you have a boyfriend?" ”
Li Qinqin: "No. ”
Yamane: "Then I'll be your boyfriend." ”
In this way, the two walked together so simply and directly, however, this relationship was strongly opposed by the father.
When the father learned that his daughter was in a relationship with a foreigner, he angrily said to her: "If Lao Tzu can stand up and beat you, I will break your leg." ”
However, the rebellious Li Qinqin felt that love had no borders, and she identified Shangen.
After a long time of dealing with his father, Li Qinqin finally married Yamane in his father's compromise.
However, after marriage, Yamane was often not at home because of his profession, which made Li Qinqin unable to accept it.
She is not fat like other wives, with her husband accompanying her shopping, with her husband next to her to take the handle, almost everything in the family, Li Qinqin alone.
Gradually, she began to make trouble, lost her temper, and finally couldn't help but file for divorce from Yamane.
Yamane respects Li Qinqin's decision, he chooses to let her pursue his own happiness, and finally said to Li Qinqin at the time of divorce: "Although we are very plain together, you may find that we are more suitable by the time you are 40 years old." ”
However, Li Qinqin did not wait until he was 40 years old to look back at this person, because a few years after the divorce, Yamane died of an accident.
The second husband was an American named Pete.
Pete is different from Yamane, he is particularly concerned about his family.
However, although Pete cares for the family, he has a strong desire for control, he likes everything in the housekeeper, and Li Qinqin will ask where to spend every penny.
Once, Li Qiang, Wang Xuexi and Zhao Bao had just gone abroad, and they came to Li Qinqin and Pete's big house.
Friends come from afar, if it is we will be warm hospitality, Pete is not, he according to the local customs, only for Li Qinqin these friends prepared two dishes: pasta, salad.
At that time, Li Qiang jokingly said to Li Qinqin: "You let us eat noodles?" There are no intestines, no dishes, just a pot of ketchup? ”
Unexpectedly, this made Pete, who knew Chinese, hear it.
He was particularly unhappy, in Pete's eyes, the visitor was the guest, no matter what the host prepared, the guest had to accept it, and finally quarreled with Li Qinqin because of this matter.
Even so, what Li Qinqin can't stand the most is that she has some small problems, such as spitting, and Pete will scold her for three days.
Because of the different cultural differences, Li Qinqin eventually chose to divorce Pitt.
After two marriages, Li Qinqin never got married again, and some people ridiculed her for preferring to be single rather than marry a local, which was a bit admirable.
In this regard, Li Qinqin also admitted that the reason why he likes foreigners is because they are simple, what they think in their hearts, and what they say on their lips.
Li Qinqin is simple, she is a consistent person, so she also hopes that her other half can be as simple as her.
Even though she had already run for five, she still felt that the matter of marriage could not be settled.
Only when you don't settle down can you know what kind of life you want.
As she said, there is no rehearsal in life, everything is live, and since this is the case, then work well and live well according to the arrangements of Heaven.
03 Single mothers are not good, learn to reconcile
The two marriages allowed Li Qinqin to harvest her son Li Leilei, who was her and Shangen's child.
However, Li Qinqin, like many single mothers, often feels that it is not easy.
Li Qinqin went out to shoot a movie, and her son often complained about her dissatisfaction, why she couldn't be like other people's mothers, always by her side and cook a meal for him.
The son even protested to Li Qinqin: "You don't want to shoot a scene." ”
When it is difficult to rest at home, Li Qinqin will also educate his children according to his own ideas.
She asked her son to go to bed early every night, and not to sleep late the next day.
Once, because his son played too late the night before, he slept until noon the next day and did not get up, Li Qinqin did not say a word, ran to his son's room, lifted the quilt, and a loud slap on his son's face: "Such a good time, you wasted on the bed." ”
Li Qinqin hopes that jackie chan, she works hard to film, only to provide herself with a good educational environment, so that her son can attend international schools, learn horseback riding, learn various interest classes, skill classes.
However, the son's rebellion once made the relationship between mother and son very tense.
Li Qinqin had no choice but to ask his friends to see how they taught their children. After some consultation, she found that the education methods of others were applied to her son, and all of them were not bright.
Gradually, Li Qinqin chose to reconcile with himself.
She no longer forced her son to do anything and chose to respect her child's decisions.
Later, Li Leilei also began to develop into the film and television circle, when he became an actor, he could understand why his mother was often not at home before, and filming was so hard.
Li Qinqin's "laissez-faire" to his son made Li Leilei truly understand her hardships, and the relationship between mother and son was gradually eased.
Nowadays, Li Qinqin is even more indifferent to his son.
She only takes care of herself, and when she is not filming, she will plant flowers at home and raise small animals.
As for the rest, whether it is feelings or sons, all follow fate and heart.
Have a job you like, have a good love and marriage, and have children who know how to be considerate of yourself.
Li Qinqin's life is perfect.
She is both brave and simple, with the appearance of a mature woman and the heart of a young girl.
Li Qinqin is also an excellent one.
Truly excellent people never raise the bar with life, they always have a "come, then settle" indifferent mentality.
Such a person, whether it is a person or a drama, is admirable.
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