In the current era, exotic love is not a new thing, there are many famous Chinese and Korean couples in the circle, such as the sweet marriage of Qi Wei and Lee Seung-hyun, so that many viewers call themselves and believe in love.
There are also Yu Xiaoguang and Qiu Cixuan who have also accompanied each other all the way, and their feelings are also very enviable. Compared with these two pairs, Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi's exotic love is not so happy and smooth, one of the two refuses to learn Chinese, the other refuses to learn Korean, and lives in each country after marriage.
It's no wonder that some people say that they ridicule what they are married to, and online dating is good. Everyone was curious about how two people who didn't speak the same language fell in love and decided to enter the marriage hall.
Since they all chose to be together, why not learn each other's language and live a good life? A good marriage ended in failure. Next, we will talk about the story of Gao Ziqi and Cai Lin.
The conditions of the two are very different in all aspects
Gao Ziqi and Cai Lin live in different family environments, Gao Ziqi was born in an ordinary family in Shanxi, his parents are busy with work, and they can't take care of Gao Ziqi, plus they are boys, naturally naughty, and their lives are relatively rough, and the family will let him play crazy everywhere, and he can do whatever he wants.
Cai Lin was born in a wealthy family in Seoul, South Korea, her father is a famous local lawyer, her mother is a doctor, because there is only one daughter in the family, Cai Lin has been pampered since she was a child, and she grew up in full love. The education received, the toys to play with, the clothes worn are all the best, and it can be said that they are treated like princesses.
Gao Ziqi played until high school, the results are not bad, but he is very athletic talent, basketball is very good, and was selected into the school team, got the national second-level athlete certificate. At that time, the coach of the provincial team was very optimistic about him and wanted to pull him into the provincial team.
Just when Gao Ziqi was preparing to develop in the field of sports in the future, he was strained by a game that made him have no chance to enter the provincial team, and he could only give up the road of sports.
When it came to the time of the university entrance examination, Gao Ziqi's results were not very good, and a friend of his parents saw that Gao Ziqi's appearance was in good condition, so he suggested that Gao Ziqi go to the actor school, so that the score requirements were not very high.
In this way, Gao Ziqi, who had not studied a little acting, went to the acting school and actually won the Shanghai Theater Academy.
But after entering the school, Gao Ziqi did not go well, there were people who looked bigger than him in the school, and many people were professionally studied acting, and he was a person from other places, one did not matter, two people without strength, could not receive the role at all, after graduation only to take some small roles without lines, barely able to live in Shanghai.
Compared with The twists and turns of Gao Ziqi, Cai Lin can be regarded as a smooth sailing, 15-year-old Cai Lin was well known for participating in the Miss Haitai Selection Competition, and then starred in a series of popular dramas, accumulating a lot of popularity, becoming the female number one at the age of 20, and also won the Most Popular Actress Award.
When Cai Lin was popular in South Korea and was ready to come to China for development, Gao Ziqi did not know which crew to eat a box lunch and run the dragon set!
Perhaps the separation of the two people after that also has something to do with their different family environments and different growth experiences.
The two met and fell in love and walked into the marriage hall
When Cai Lin came to China to develop, she starred in "Love Sea of Love" with Su Youpeng, and once the TV series was broadcast, everyone was touched by the lively and cheerful sunshine girl in the play, and it was also this drama that made the domestic audience like this young girl who came to China alone to develop.
After this drama, Cai Lin was invited continuously, and they were all female number one, and this newcomer Korean actress was very attractive in the domestic audience. At that time, Gao Ziqi was also an unknown small actor with only a few lines.
Later, Gao Ziqi finally ushered in his own spring, because the role of Xiao Jian in the Zhu Gege was well known to everyone, and the resources began to improve, and it was precisely in this way that he got the opportunity to shoot with Cai Lin.
The two met in the filming of "Li Family Compound", Gao Ziqi knew Cai Lin early on, he originally thought that Cai Lin was that kind of very cold goddess, who knew that he found that Cai Lin was very smiling, very cheerful, and a little silly.
Although Cai Lin has been in China for a few years, she still has not learned the language well, and many things are still not understood, and Gao Ziqi often helps her solve her problems. This made Cai Lin feel very fond of this warm and sunny boy.
After the two became acquainted, they often ate and watched movies together after work, and used translation software to send text messages at night, often making a lot of jokes because of the language barrier, and both of them felt fresh for different cultures.
Just like this, the two were together, until the end of the scene, the two were not separated, every day is like being in love, when they do not meet, they use translation software to chat, when they meet, they look at each other and laugh, and they do not talk much, and convey love with their eyes.
After a year of acquaintance, Gao Ziqi proposed marriage, and Cai Lin was also eager to have a home, so the two got married, but they did not expect that marriage was completely different from falling in love, and there were many things that needed to be compromised.
The two eventually announced their divorce
At first, the two were still very sweet, and then there was a problem, both were only children, and the parents wanted their children to be by their side. Gao Ziqi hopes that Cai Lin can stay in China and develop in China, and Cai Lin wants Gao Ziqi to go to South Korea to develop and take care of her parents together.
Neither of the two will compromise, they can only run at both ends, and the two do not understand the language, nor can they communicate deeply, they can only remain silent, and gradually the distance between the two is getting farther and farther. It was only when they were busy with their respective careers that they got together on holidays to meet their parents.
Although life has become like this, neither of the two people has proposed divorce, they still do not want to give up this marriage, and then they want to have a child, thinking that it should be good to have a child, who knows that after the birth of the child, Cai Lin suffered from postpartum depression, returned to South Korea with the child, and did not let Gao Ziqi see the child.
This marriage is getting worse and worse, the distance between the two is far, the heart is far away, it is impossible to communicate, let alone understand each other, and finally came to an end, ending the 6-year marriage.
epilogue
The biggest problem between the two has come to this day is the language barrier and the unwillingness to compromise for each other. In fact, looking at the other two Chinese and Korean couples, they can speak each other's language very slippery. And willing to stay for each other and live together.
Qiu Cexuan and Lee Seung-hyun both stayed in China, and now the development is also very good, if Cai Lin can stay in China and learn the Chinese language well, maybe she can also have a successful career and a happy family.
If Gao Ziqi can learn Korean well, communicate with Cai Lin more often, and give her enough security to stay in China, she will not divorce. But this is all our imagination, and here we also hope that the two can be okay with each other.