One day, I was walking on the road
"How can you be so stupid? Gas is all angry with you! ”
The voice of a mother scolding her daughter came from behind
Look back
Between the mothers poked the child's head with her fingers
"So stupid, how can you mix with you in this society in the future?"
Mother said viciously....
I guess everyone is turning a blind eye to this phenomenon
But is this the truth?
Are our children really genetically defective?
Wrong
This gene comes from you and your other half
But....
You and your significant other aren't "stupid" are you?
How could this be...
I can feel your depressed mood, really
The image originates from the internet
What is the truth?
Subconsciously
We are parents
Excellent is always "someone else's child"
But Matthew Saeed, author of The Illusion of Genius, tells us:
The so-called "genius myth" is nothing but an illusion
To reach the world's top level in any complex field, it takes at least 10 years of practice, or rather, "ten thousand hours"
Now you get the idea
There is no shortcut to success, and repeating and repeating the practice is the truth of excellence
The image originates from the internet
Develop your child's patience to practice and polish repeatedly
Knowing that every child is not inherently stupid
As a parent, your tight nerves can be loosened
But you will wonder again
My child is not stupid by nature, but why is he so "stupid" everywhere in life?
That's because the amount of deliberate practice the child has not yet achieved in terms of learning
You have to put up with the clumsiness and sluggishness of your child when they first start
Practice with them slowly and patiently
Try heart to heart
Compare our children's short-lived length experiences with our decades of life-length experience
It's inherently unfair
Right?
Of course, this also requires the child to sink down and endure the patience to repeatedly practice and hone various skills
Parents practice with their children
Sometimes, instead, we should thank our children
They are elves that make us learn to reflect