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The relatives all waited, and the bride asked for 99,000 to get off the bus, and was pulled off by the groom: give you 90 taxis home

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While love may be unreasonable, marriage must be conditional.

Therefore, many men and women will set up various tests when they enter marriage.

The heroine in the next case, because of her unrestrained demand, finally became a joke for everyone on the wedding day.

Zhang Fan is about to get married recently, but he and his parents are not happy at all.

It turned out that her girlfriend Xiaoxue's family asked for her name to be added to the house book, and the bride price increased from the original 200,000 to 300,000.

These two conditions, Zhang Fanjia now dare not agree to either.

Because the marriage room was bought and installed in full when Zhang Fan graduated, it is unreasonable to add a name.

Speaking of the dowry money, it has also been negotiated long ago, and Zhang Fan can now squeeze out 200,000 yuan at home.

He wanted to discuss with Xiao Xue's family many times, but the proud Xiao Xue did not give any room at all.

Forcing Zhang Fan's old father to eat and sleep badly at home, he said that this marriage was too suffocating.

Although the mother had a good temper, she also said worriedly: "Son, if you really want to marry, I and your father will open up this old face to find someone to borrow, as long as you can be happy." ”

These words immediately hit Zhang Fan's heart, on the one hand, he felt sorry for his parents, on the other hand, he also hated Xiao Xue's vanity.

Although there were many dissatisfactions in his heart, he was really unwilling not to marry him.

Therefore, I can only seize the time to find relatives to borrow money, and the dowry has reached 300,000.

Originally, Xiaoxue wanted to get the money in advance, but Zhang Fan's father asked for the dowry on the wedding day for the sake of insurance.

Upon hearing that the bride price was put on the wedding day, Xiao Xue said loudly on the phone: "Whoever's family didn't send it in advance, what do you mean by your family, prevent me!" Zhang Fan, don't forget, who was the one who chased me in the first place!"

After saying that, he hung up the phone without hesitation, making Zhang Fan's heart also burst into flames.

In fact, Xiao Xue was right, in order to catch up with her, Zhang Fan really spent a lot of effort.

Girlfriend Xiaoxue used to be a dance teacher, whether it is looks or body shape, she is also outstanding among girls.

Since meeting Xiaoxue at a friend's party, Zhang Fan has fallen in love with her and privately inquired about her contact information.

And the reason why Zhang Fan dared to pursue Xiaoxue was not that he was incapable of doing so. At that time, he had a house and a car, and he still had some savings.

Later, after contacting Xiaoxue, he talked to her and made her happy.

However, after taking the initiative for several months, the two still did not establish a relationship.

It was obvious that Xiao Xue did not look at Zhang Fan, but he still persevered undeadly.

Slowly, in order to please Xiao xue, he spent more and more money. Eating and buying gifts to transfer money has already cost tens of thousands.

Finally, she sent a valuable bag to Xiaoxue, and she reluctantly agreed to be Zhang Fan's girlfriend.

Although he chased the goddess as he wished, the good brothers around him did not envy him, and said that he was not worth it.

But where could he listen to this, and thought it was a friend who soured him and found a beautiful woman.

After determining the relationship, he rushed to take Xiaoxue home to see his parents, but this matter was pushed away by Xiaoxue several times.

It's not that you're not mentally prepared, or you're too busy to be available.

Until Zhang Fan inadvertently said: "Xue'er, you can go home with me to meet your parents, my mother has already prepared a big red envelope for you." ”

As soon as he heard this, Xiao Xue seemed to have come to the spirit, and then he happily agreed to see Zhang Fan's parents.

The meeting gift was naturally bought by Zhang Fan, and his parents made a good table at home.

After the two sides met, Xiaoxue only shouted uncle and aunt at the beginning, and rarely spoke when eating later.

Seeing that the scene was a little awkward, Zhang Fan could only chat with his parents.

When he finally left, Xiao xue did not wait for Zhang Fan's parents to meet the red envelope.

So before he went out, he put on a face, so that Zhang Fan's parents were confused.

After Zhang Fan and Zhang Fan came out, Xiao Xue made a fuss, not saying that Zhang Fan's family was a liar, and did not pay attention to her at all.

No matter how Zhang Fan explained, she only had one request, that is, she must compensate her for twenty thousand yuan, otherwise she would break up.

Zhang Fan would be nervous every time he heard about the breakup, and could only quickly withdraw money to Xiao Xue.

After this time, Xiaoxue concluded that Zhang Fan could not do without her, so the number of times she asked for money increased.

This can annoy Zhang Fan, if he does not meet Xiao Xue's request, he will threaten him with a breakup.

A few times down, even the family knew that Xiaoxue was a difficult girl.

Especially the father, who strongly advocated that his son and Xiaoxue break up.

But when he thought about all the previous efforts, Zhang Fan was not willing.

No, when it comes to the scene at the beginning of the marriage, the family lets the money be forced to borrow everywhere.

In the end, it was not easy to meet the requirements of the woman's family, and Zhang Fan was also relieved.

In addition to these, he also guaranteed to hand in his salary card and all premarital income after marriage.

In this way, Zhang Fan welcomed their wedding with a desperate posture.

That day Xiaoxue dressed up chuchu movingly, like a princess in a fairy tale, and Zhang Fan also looked tall and handsome.

The bride price of 300,000 yuan also made a grand appearance today, which aroused the envy of relatives and friends.

Xiao Xue was told a few words by her mother and got into the wedding car.

But when it was time to get off the bus, Zhang Fan had a mistake on this side.

It turned out that the bride Xiaoxue had to pay 90,000 for the car, otherwise she would be exempted from talking.

Hearing zhang fan's nose here is almost out of breath, you must know that all the relatives are waiting for them, and at this time, the request is clearly nonsense.

At first, he kindly begged Xiaoxue not to make trouble, and he must make up for her after marriage.

But this trick was useless, and Xiao Xue didn't even look at him.

As the minutes and seconds passed, he began to call to borrow money.

But as soon as I opened my phone, a huge sense of sadness and anger rushed into my heart.

He put away his mobile phone, pulled Xiao Xue out of the car with a flat face, and said: "This marriage is not over, you come down." ”

Xiao Xue and the accompanying mother's family changed their faces, and then Zhang Fan said again: "This is the wedding car I paid for, you are not qualified to sit." Don't you want ninety-nine thousand, sorry, I'll only give you 90 taxis home. ”

After saying this, he beckoned everyone to leave, including the driver in Xiao Xue's wedding car.

In the end, the marriage was indeed yellow, and the bride price was also given to Zhang Fan to take home.

And Xiaoxue is also because of this incident, many people say that she is a gold worshipper, and she has not married out at the age of thirty...

Zhang Fan in the case is good at stopping the loss in time and does not marry back to a woman who only has money in her eyes.

This tells us that feelings can not only talk about money, but also let us understand the following two marriage principles.

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One: In the marriage relationship, don't turn the advantage into a gap between husband and wife.

In fact, when two people live together, the most important thing is to like each other and respect each other.

But there are always some confused people who, with their own good conditions, will elevate their position in the relationship.

Finally, in the constant hurt and cross-distance, the lover was hurt to the point that he could only turn around and walk away.

Zhang Fan in the case has shown all his sincerity to Xiaoxue, but he still can't exchange Xiaoxue's love and respect.

The fundamental reason is that the love status of the two is too different.

Know that in emotional relationships, equality is the most basic factor in maintaining balance.

So don't let your advantage turn into a chasm between husband and wife.

Don't let yourself be humble and become the kind of person you look down on.

We pursue feelings, not just because of its beautiful dreams.

More often, there is a lover who knows cold and knows heat, and one more loves his other half.

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Second: Any demand in marriage needs to be returned to the other party sooner or later.

Some people get married because of love, while others go on for profit.

Xiao Xue in the case did not invest in her marriage at all, and some were just constantly asking for money.

That's why she went through so many steps that she finally forced the groom to explode on her wedding day.

Know that taking without a bottom line is actually a very dangerous behavior.

If a person uses feelings as a chip in exchange for benefits, his nature is also cold-blooded and selfish.

Sooner or later, such a mind will make itself a lonely person.

And the money you think you get is cheap, but you will also lose it invisibly.

Although marriage pays attention to practical interests, it is by no means a naked monetary transaction.

Because no matter how much you ask for, sooner or later you will return it.

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Everyone's material pursuits should be pursued on their own.

If you use your feelings and marriage for profit, you will only make yourself a clown.

On the other hand, when choosing a mate, we still have to be open-minded and cautious.

Don't know that the other party has no intention, but also have to force, after all, the twisted melon can not be sweet.

Text/No Pen

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