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At the age of 22, he met Wu Fang.
It was 1977, just after graduating from the Shanghai Theater Academy, and Guo Da was assigned to the drama troupe in his hometown.
A piece of clothing, washed and repaired all year round, basically will not be changed.
Especially at that time, it was popular to wear military uniforms, and Guo Da was sometimes dressed in grass green, and sometimes he was dressed in general yellow.
Because the cloth was not good, the grass-green military uniform was worn out and always crumpled.
One day Guo Da walked into the costume room of the regiment, and he wanted the costumer to change the collar for him.
At that time, Guo Da had just arrived in the regiment, and he thought that it was his own clothes, but he was still a little embarrassed to open his mouth.
Coincidentally, there was a person in the costume room that day, and if you looked closely, it was still a young girl.
He explained his intentions, wondering if he would be rejected.
The girl asked him to take off his coat, and then, according to Guo Da's request, quickly changed the collar of his clothes.
The girl also recognized him as a newcomer to the group, but did not help him because she did not know him.
As a result, Guo Da was more grateful to this girl named Wu Fang.
After a while, Guo Da went to find Wu Fang again,
This time it was "borrowing a car".
In fact, since the last time we met, this beautiful girl had left a deep impression on his heart.
It's just that it was an era when love had to be reported, and he didn't dare to deliberately show anything.
But if you go to someone else, you can't use the excuse of changing your collar, right?
He thought about it, so he borrowed the car, because he wanted to borrow her car in a hurry.
As soon as Guo Da said this, he made Wu Fang laugh.
"You're so tall, riding on my car, hahaha..."
Although Wu Fang smiled, she still handed the car keys to Guo Da.
Not long after, Guo Da came to return the car.
"Your lap is a little smaller, but I pedal two more times and run faster than my car."
Wu Fang listened and smiled straight.
He continued to say on the side that he was on the street just now, and he didn't expect the return rate to be super high.
I guess you've never seen me ride such a small car like a monkey.
"I have to thank you very much."
Guo Da's words made Wu Fang laugh so much that he couldn't stop laughing.
After he left, Wu Fang still thought about it in his heart, and this young man did not expect to be quite humorous.
Just after seeing her bicycle, Wu Fang became crying and laughing again.
Guo Da was tall and heavy, and his car was pressed by him, and the rings were deformed.
When she pushed the car to the repair shop, she was seen by Guo Da again.
Guo Da hurried over to apologize, and then helped her push the car to the car shop.
After changing their collars and borrowing a car, Guo Da and Wu Fang slowly became familiar with each other.
Wu Fang found that this young man not only spoke humorously, but also had a tenacity in his body.
That year, the unit suddenly entered more than twenty young people.
Guo Da studied English with them for a while.
It wasn't long before the others stopped learning, and only Guo Da was still getting up early and insisting on it.
At that time, Guo Da lived in the dormitory of the unit.
In order to learn English, every day after work, he stopped by his colleagues' homes to watch English programs on TV.
In addition, he collected English materials in various newspapers and magazines.
Over time, the walls of the dormitory, including the corridor at the entrance, were plastered with materials for his English learning.
On Sundays, he also frequents the city's People's Mansion.
There are often foreigners there, and when he catches the opportunity, he will take the initiative to talk to people and practice his spoken language.
It may seem that learning English has nothing to do with his business, but many opportunities arise inadvertently.
Later, the Western Film Studio filmed the movie "Bethune",
Because he had studied English, the director had him play a translator in the play.
With this tenacity, Wu Fang feels that Guo Da is good and is a potential stock.
In fact, Wu Fang is also a self-motivated person.
She has also won the Gold Medal at the National Fashion Design Grand Prix.
What is important is that at that time, she was irreplaceable in Guo Da's heart.
It is worth mentioning that Guo Da's later marriage proposal ceremony is not like the current young people holding diamond rings.
Instead, he was holding a letter of introduction to marriage registration stamped with the official seal of the unit.
In this way, at the end of the seventies, Guo Da and Wu Fang came together.
He had long looked forward to a complete home.
When he was a child, Less than a month after Guo Da was born, his father died.
After that, it was his mother who pulled him and his sister together.
Especially in the sixties, life was difficult, and my mother was driven to the countryside again.
Even so, most of the salary squeezed out every month is spent on the son.
At the age of 15, Guo Da also worked as a railway worker, working every day to repair the railway.
At that time, his body was still very thin, and he couldn't stand such physical work.
Later, he was arranged to feed the pigs.
Therefore, for home and family affection, Guo Da has been very yearning since he was a child.
It is worth mentioning that Guo Da once had a relationship with Ni Ping,
But in the end, because of the opposition of Ni Ping's parents, the relationship was over.
Now, having formed a family with Wu Fang, who is 1 year older than him, his future life will be complete.
After marriage, they had a son.
Outside of work, the family's affairs are pressed on the wife.
Guo Da is a very enterprising person, and almost all his energy is focused on his acting career.
Eight years after graduation, Guo reached the head of the performance team of the City Repertory Theatre.
Work is busy, and he can't take care of things at home.
However, Wu Fang had no complaints, she knew that her husband was busy with his business, and she silently supported him behind his back.
Later, when her son went to school, she simply put the child in a full boarding school.
As a stage designer and costume designer, she became her husband's most powerful helper in costumes and props.
It's just that after entering the eighties, the advantages of drama and the audience are losing out day by day.
What the future will be, even Guo Da himself is not clear.
At the end of 1986, the provincial television station held a sketch contest.
After learning the news, Wu Fang suggested that her husband go to the competition.
At first, after Guo Da listened, he was a little reluctant and did not want to participate.
After all, the sketch is the product of the extension of the drama, which has always been the white snow of Yangchun before,
He did not want to waste his artistic talents on such a small-scale program form.
"You can't think of it that way, art doesn't matter how big or small, and you have a talent for humor and should go to the competition."
His wife continued to enlighten him during that time, and finally Guo Da agreed to try it.
Soon, a skit called "In Front of the Delivery Room" was conceived.
The costumes worn and the props used in the performance of the show were designed for him by his wife.
The sketch later made it from the preliminary round to the final.
On the day of the TV broadcast, Wu Fang ate early and took the child to her sister's house.
At that time, there was no television in their house, and she was sitting at her sister's house, even more nervous than her husband on the spot.
In contrast, the husband seems relaxed or even a little careless on the spot.
At the time of the official performance, he wore a jacket and a pair of yellow military pants.
This appearance, coupled with his pure Shaanxi dialect, vividly shows a peasant.
With this sketch, Guo Da later won the first prize in the professional group.
If it weren't for his wife's advice and enlightenment, he probably missed this opportunity.
And this award has also become a watershed in the development of Guo Da's career.
Soon, the program group of the Spring Festival Gala came to Shaanxi, and Guo Da's sketch was successfully selected.
After passing through Beijing, in the initial rehearsal, Guo Da could not find the state.
A few times down, he wanted to go back.
At that time, he wrote his thoughts into a letter and told his wife at home.
During his hesitation, the wife once again played the role of the needle of the sea god.
She quickly wrote a letter to her husband, full of encouragement and anticipation.
In this way, in 1987, Guo Da officially entered the Spring Festival Gala with this work.
Since then, Guo Da's career focus has shifted from Xi'an to Beijing.
Since 1994, he has been transferred from xi'an repertory theatre to zongzheng repertory theatre.
In the first two years of the job change, Guo Da, who was middle-aged, lived a life of separation from his wife and children.
Although the landline telephone has become convenient, Guo Da and his wife are "passing on books to Hongyan" almost every day.
One letter a day, hesitating to write it frequently, and later the next day, both sides could receive each other's last letter.
Colleagues and friends around them often joke that they are old husbands and wives, and what whispers are good to write.
Indeed, there is no whisper, the wife in the letter to talk about the family and children's trivia,
Guo Da wrote about some of his feelings at work.
Although they are all extremely trivial words, it is this kind of "broken words" that gradually pile up into a deep love between husband and wife.
This situation has changed with the emergence of big brothers.
Guo Da was almost the first person in the unit to "eat melon".
It was just that this melon was too expensive at that time, and it cost him a total of seventeen thousand pieces.
However, with a mobile phone and hearing his wife's voice anytime and anywhere, he felt that the money was worth it.
It wasn't until two years later, when his wife and son also came to Beijing, that the family of three was finally reunited.
At that time, Guo Da was already famous throughout the country, and his work was busier.
The wife was still the same as before, without any complaints.
She simply returned to the family completely, providing her husband with a stable rear.
When he was still living in Xi'an, in the unit, Guo Da's home was the best one to clean up.
At that time, I lived in the tube building, and there was not only no decent furniture in the house,
Even the placement of pots and pans is not a special place.
Cooking in the corridor, other neighbors' cooking utensils are placed haphazardly,
At the door of Guo Da's house, his wife hung all the cooking utensils on the wall.
To keep it clean, cover the cookware with a layer of cloth.
Guo Da often said that his home is easy to find, as long as it is the one that does not have a pot stove at the door.
When I came to Beijing, my living conditions gradually improved, and my wife kept her home in good order.
However, because she did not work, her life was suddenly idle.
Later, it was a cat that her son inadvertently brought back, which changed the rhythm of her life.
At first, Wu Fang was a little scared and asked her son to quickly take the cat away.
Later, at the beg of her son, she reluctantly agreed to leave the cat behind.
It's just that instead of putting the cat in the house, she threw it in a box on the balcony.
One morning when she woke up early, she inadvertently saw the cat on the balcony, alone.
At that time, the husband had already risen early and gone to perform in other places, and the son was also at school.
The cat's state is like her state of being at home alone.
So she took the kitten back into the house, bathed it, and began to raise it carefully.
However, the good times did not last long, and after a month or two, she had obvious allergy symptoms on her body.
The doctor said very sure after the examination, what animals do you have at home, hurry up and send someone!
She and her husband began to hesitate.
At this time, the son had gone abroad to study, learned the news, and continued to plead with his parents not to send the cat away.
The son was alone, and as a mother, Wu Fang's heart softened again.
The cat continued to be kept, and she began to treat allergies as requested by the doctor.
However, allergens are not removed, and treatment is very difficult.
The doctor warned her not to send the animal away again, and to watch out for your body.
There was no way, she had to send the cat away.
However, at this time, she has established a relationship with the cat, and without the cat, her heart always feels empty.
She began to write a diary every day, expressing all her thoughts about cats in words.
However, her body began to improve gradually.
After full recovery, one day she called the adopter and asked about the cat.
Who knew that the other party told her that the cat had long been sick and dead.
Hearing this news, Wu Fang's mood suddenly collapsed.
Since then, she has consciously adopted some stray cats.
Some stray cats are walking around the neighborhood, and some are specially sent by others who have heard about her adoption.
Under the influence of his wife, Guo Da also slowly became a cat lover.
Later, the family bought a new house, and all the decoration matters were handled by Wu Fang.
For a while, the worker suddenly noticed that she had suddenly disappeared.
It turned out that someone had left a cat with a broken leg in front of her house in those days.
She took the cat to the pet hospital for medical treatment, and the doctor recommended euthanasia.
Wu Fang disagreed, as long as she was alive, she would definitely be treated.
Later, even if she moved to a new home, the cat that was properly disposed of every month, the cat food money was still out of her family.
When she arrived at her new home, she still cleaned up the house as she had before.
Even mopping the floor in front of his home several times was mistaken by outsiders as Guo Da's nanny.
In the early years, Guo Da once published a short article in the media.
In the text, he makes no secret of his love for his family.
It can be said that without the construction of his wife, he will not achieve good results in his career.
Today, both husbands and wives are past the age of flower armor.
Two men guard the family's collection, flowers and cats,
Also keep the love for each other for more than forty years. Well, today is here, Jiajia hopes that each issue of the story can bring friends a little emotional thinking, like Jiajia please pay attention to me, to the article like collection recommended Oh, thank you we will see you in the next issue ~