In this era of good looks, everyone pays special attention to their external image, especially those delicate pig girls.
When they are at home, they can be loose t-shirts and shorts, or they can be plain-faced and tied with a ball head that has not been washed for a long time.
But as long as they go out, even if they go downstairs to dump a garbage, they will carefully dress themselves, dress up beautiful clothes, and paint a fresh makeup to keep themselves exquisite at all times.
In terms of eating, they have played to the extreme, they must eat well, they must go to the Internet red restaurant to punch, and they must show their exquisite life in the circle of friends.
From their point of view, it seems that such a life is called enjoyment, and such a life is called life.
In sharp contrast to this, there are those "not delicate pig girls" who do not pay much attention to eating and wearing, and do not love makeup.
This is very strange, we can't help but ask this question: what kind of psychology is a woman who does not pay attention to food and clothing, and does not love makeup?
Don't go with the flow, have your own opinions
I remember when I was in college, my roommates almost all wore makeup, and according to them, if a woman went out without makeup, it was no different from running naked.
Moreover, when everyone around them is making up, his plain face always feels like an outlier, so he joins the ranks of makeup.
However, I thought that I would feel happy when I was part of a group.
In fact, makeup exploits my sleep time, and it acts like an invisible shackle that forces me every day to do things I didn't like.
So I stopped deliberately trying to fit myself together, and I stopped forcing myself to do things I didn't like.
In real life, many people wear makeup to make themselves look less different, and whether they are pleasing themselves or catering to others may not even know themselves.
Lin Qingxuan once said such a sentence: "Third-rate makeup is the makeup on the face; second-rate makeup is the makeup of the spirit; first-class makeup is the makeup of life." ”
Those who don't wear makeup are not sloppy or untrimmed, but they never do things they don't like because of other people's opinions.
They have their own ideas and never go with the flow.
Confident and open, you can accept yourself from any angle
Gold has no feet, no one is perfect, not paying attention to eating and wearing is not social, not wearing makeup is "soil"?
In this world, for eating, wearing and makeup, it seems that there has never been a hard standard, requiring people to do this, do not do it, is scum, is an outlier.
We care too much about other people's opinions, we are too unconfident in ourselves, we have too much unnecessary appearance anxiety, but these are just the shackles that bind us.
Women who don't pay attention to food and clothing, and don't like makeup much, they are full of confidence, knowing that they have a different flavor in the sky.
It is said that women are pleasing to themselves, then, for these women, they can also be the object of their own pleasure, so if so, makeup or no makeup, is not determined by their own mood?
What about some small freckles, even if the skin is not so fair, even if there are some acne marks on the face?
These are unique characteristics that are exclusive to us, and we should reconcile with ourselves, with those who are imperfect.
Zhou Guoping said: "There are three times in life, one is when you find that you are no longer the center of the world, the second is when you find that you can't do anything no matter how hard you try, and the third is when you accept your ordinariness and enjoy the ordinary. ”
We must be able to recognize the beauty of success in ourselves, and then continue to strive for ourselves;
You must also be able to accept your own ordinary reality, and then embrace the quiet of the years.
It makes the most sense to be full and clear, and to know what time is spent on
Makeup itself is nothing, after all, the heart of beauty, everyone has it, everyone wants to be beautiful and shiny.
But sometimes, if you go too delicate, you will take on a noisy posture in life.
Some girls spend most of their time on makeup, studying which lipstick is good and which foundation is good every day.
As soon as they arrive at the exam, they temporarily hold their feet, learning is not their top priority at all, dressing up is.
However, the original meaning of life is to let us experience more colorful colors, rather than just staying on one thing.
Therefore, girls who do not wear makeup are more sober and rational, and they also know more that time must be wasted on things that are worthwhile.
The writer Suzen said: "A person's attraction is formed by three things: appearance, spirit and soul." The more superficial the person, the more he pays attention to appearance; the more profound the person, the more he pays attention to the soul. ”
When our souls shine, we live like a beam of light, and at that time, we don't have to run to the moon, the moon will come to us.