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Gu Qingyu and Shi Yuan divorced, which brought her a particularly big blow, because she really loved Shi Yuan, even if she found that there was a big gap between the two people after being with him, she still loved him very much, if it wasn't for Shi Yuan's divorce, she didn't even think about divorce.
When she first married Shi Yuan, she ran for a lifetime, although she kept falling in love with people over the years and then broke up, but her family concept was very heavy, and it was not easy to divorce when she got married.
She was the one who was divorced, and what made her feel sad was that she loved Shi Yuan so much, but their marriage could not last, and she began to doubt love, it turned out that love alone was not enough, it was not enough to keep the marriage going.
That's why she is so sad, her divorce makes Zhan Xiang see hope again, he rekindles the battle, and begins to pursue Qingyu as in the past, and qingyu in the sadness decides to give him a chance and agrees to be with him.
Although they are together, they don't look like lovers at all, they are still separated by a river, obviously they are next to each other, but they are so far away.
It seems that everyone is happy, in fact, Qingyu is not happy, and Zhan Xiang is not happy, because there is no feeling of heartbeat between them, nor a feeling of love. Love this thing is very wonderful, can make you produce love, you just need to see him feel very moved, can not let you produce love people, stick together every day is also tasteless.
Why are they not happy together?
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On the surface, Zhan Xiang is very happy, because he has finally caught up with the goddess of his dreams, she was once his unattainable dream, but now she is within reach and has achieved a major goal in life.
Before catching up with Qingyu, Zhan Xiang's biggest goal is Qingyu, it can be said that his life is almost around Qingyu, sticking to her like a small follower every day, brushing her sense of existence around her.
Many people in the barrage said that Zhan Xiang was the best man in this drama. I can understand why people say that he is good, because his conditions are good, there are several houses in Shanghai, living by rent, and he has already achieved financial freedom, and he does not have to worry about life.
On the other hand, he has a long love, loves Qingyu for so many years, has not been empathetic, everyone likes his long love for Qingyu, and good for Qingyu, hoping to have the same object.
But in fact, people are very lowly, and what they can never get is the best, which is no exception in Zhan Xiang.
Before he got Qingyu, Qingyu was the best, the goddess of his dreams, he could only look up to her forever, in order to get her, he put a lot of energy into it, and did everything to please her and be good to her.
In fact, he only enjoys this process, enjoys the good to Qingyu, enjoys the pleasure of pursuing the goddess but is not favored, as long as the goddess gives him a smile and sends him a message, he will feel super happy.
But once he got the other party, it was equivalent to the goal being achieved, he didn't know what to do next, he suddenly felt as if everything had become boring. So he couldn't be happy.
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Although in terms of the assets they own, Qingyu and Zhan Xiang are completely equal and evenly matched, from a spiritual point of view, they do not belong to the same world at all.
Zhan Xiang has no culture, he came out early to beg for life, he suffered the hardships of life, a person who is struggling for life, what higher spiritual pursuit can he have? That, of course, is not.
Later, when he successfully realized the freedom of wealth and did not have to suffer hardships for life, he became a person who had nothing to do, and when it came to the day of rent collection, he would collect rent, and on the day of not collecting rent, he would play mahjong, wash his feet, and pursue Qingyu.
But Qingyu is completely different, she was born in a cultured family, grew up reading poetry and books, has a higher pursuit on the spiritual level, likes to watch movies, listen to concerts, eat Western food.
This leads to the fact that their spiritual level is not at the same level at all. This was also the reason why Gu Qingyu did not look at him at the beginning, she knew that with him, he would not understand her spiritual needs, nor could he provide for her spiritually.
Qingyu likes to go to concerts, but Zhan Xiang does not know how to appreciate, he sits on the side like a needle felt, very painful, but also very boring. Qingyu likes to watch literary and art movies, but Zhan Xiang can't appreciate it.
So when they were really together, Zhan Xiang was actually not happy, because he knew that he was too far away from Qingyu.
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He had liked Qingyu for so many years and pursued it for so many years, to put it bluntly, but it was because of the obsession in his heart.
As I said before, what you can't get is the best, because you can't get it, so there are a lot of fantasies about her, fantasies about how happy you will be with her, and fantasies about being with her will definitely be very happy.
If you don't get it all the time, you will always have thoughts, but after you get it, you will find that it is so different from what you fantasized about, and the things that the original goddess liked, he actually didn't like at all. It turned out that the gap between the two people was so large.
In fact, the incompatibility between them is not suitable in the bones, because the two people are people in a completely different world, and the reason why Gu Qingyu will consider him is only to be touched by his long-term affection, but she also cannot have love for him.
How can two people like this feel happy together? Therefore, after Zhan Xiang finally got Gu Qingyu's favor, he did not get the happiness he imagined, which was fate.
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Article illustration | Stills from "Heart Dwelling"