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"We are innocent, we can check" The wife and ex-boyfriend cried bitterly after returning from travel: they could still check like this

Our encounter is a grain of dust in the sea of people, but a grain of dust refracts the sun is the most dazzling, I hope you can tell me your story, and I will listen to your voice as the best listener, hello everyone, here is "Bar Emotional Station", I am lever ~

Qualified exes are dead, and the living ones are either overt or dark.

From a young age, we have been indoctrinated with the idea that "time is gone, youth is precious", but because we are too young to understand the deep meaning of it, we will also use "an inch of time and an inch of gold" to express our central idea in the composition. As everyone knows, time is precious only because: the wrong thing can never be repeated, and once the right person misses it, it will always be.

But when we were young, we had no concept of time, because youth was used to run wildly and squander, and when we looked back and began to regret the time when we did not know the height of the sky, it proved that our youth was over, and the years of recklessness only for love had been crushed into foam by time, and even the sadness of not daring to make a big fuss when we missed it.

"We are innocent, we can check" The wife and ex-boyfriend cried bitterly after returning from travel: they could still check like this

How many people regret their predecessors? How many people have woken up? Only the person concerned can tell whether the predecessor is an abyss or a redemption. All the good exes want to die as quietly as ever, as if they had never appeared, leaving only a few good memories as souvenirs, and occasionally when they were remembered, they were all relieved and blessed.

What does an unqualified ex look like? Probably just keep doing it, either overtly provoking things or secretly making bad things, and can find a suitable excuse for myself: my long-term affection makes me never forget him/her.

The existence of the ex itself is not wrong, because life is only once, the road traveled can not be erased and withdrawn, they will become an experience on the road of your life, perhaps fruitful, rapid growth, perhaps extremely hurt, long-lasting, perhaps hateful, enlightened.

"We are innocent, we can check" The wife and ex-boyfriend cried bitterly after returning from travel: they could still check like this

No matter which kind of ex, they have a qualitative difference when they change from "current" to "ex", the ex has nothing to do with you, except for that past relationship, which has acquiesced to "here" when they are separated, and any entanglement will be called "shameless".

Love that does not know the height of the sky has failed!

Xu Hao used to be a very dedicated person, to his first love girlfriend Xiao Shuang so good that everyone envious, they met in college, love began simple and simple, no roses and candle confessions, no gold and silver jewelry promises, is a small cake, written: I love you, so old-fashioned so cheesy way to let two people together.

Xiao Shuang is a very grounded girl, following Xu Hao to the food stalls, but also to eat street stalls. Probably the love on campus is so mirror flowery, and has nothing to do with the future, has nothing to do with hope, and even has nothing to do with the future, all the efforts are for "love to drink water", what material, what family, what door will be worthless worldliness.

After graduating from college, the two faced cruel social pressure together, and they began to realize that the world's panic was only for the sake of breaking silver, but this broken silver could solve all sorrows. The two of them also joined the crowded team, and love seemed to begin to change its taste. They love each other, but having enough food and clothing is the most important thing at the moment, and love cannot be pawned. Their love is defeated by reality, so they silently go their separate ways.

"We are innocent, we can check" The wife and ex-boyfriend cried bitterly after returning from travel: they could still check like this

Living apart doesn't mean being okay with each other

After Xu Hao and Xiao Shuang separated, he fought hard for his career, he no longer had to squeeze out time to talk with Xiao Shuang every day, and he no longer had to waste energy arguing with Xiao Shuang. His career was stabilized in the overtime work day after day, and he was promoted in the face of constant difficulties, his career began to achieve small success, and he also changed from a workaholic who had no need for feelings to a man who needed spiritual comfort.

Xiao Shuang has always wanted to be stable, and after separating from Xu Hao, he accepted a blind date, and soon married and had children with her current husband Ade. Although not her true love, Ard has always been good to Xiao Shuang, and the financial conditions have always been enough for her to be a full-time wife. Xiao Shuang also fulfilled the purpose of the original want to get married, and got stability and seeming happiness.

"We are innocent, we can check" The wife and ex-boyfriend cried bitterly after returning from travel: they could still check like this

As the saying goes: a wife is not as good as a concubine, a concubine is not as good as stealing, and stealing is better than stealing. This fully illustrates the greed and unwillingness of human nature. Xu Hao and Xiao Shuang did not resist in the face of human nature, they called the reunion: fate is not broken, they call the resurgence of old feelings: making up for regrets, they call the marriage out offidelity: love does not know what has always been deep.

In fact, Xu Hao went around with several women, but they all ended up in vain for various reasons, either because women coveted his money and fame, or they felt that people were too perfunctory to themselves. At this time, Xu Hao realized that there are some things that money can't buy, such as the love that Xiao Shuang once wanted to ask him.

Xiao Shuang's marriage is plain and happy in the eyes of everyone, but the most common mistake that people are prone to make is: they are not blessed in the blessing. Xiao Shuang's married life is too smooth, too ordinary, no big ups and downs, no landslides, only more than ten years of respect for each other. Xiao Shuang also began to miss the throbbing in youth, although full of regrets, it did not prevent it from becoming a light in youth.

"We are innocent, we can check" The wife and ex-boyfriend cried bitterly after returning from travel: they could still check like this

What happens if you lose to a love that is real and meets again?

Xu Hao took the initiative to contact Xiao Shuang, "I haven't seen you for a long time, is everything okay?" Xiao Shuang was excited, suppressing his emotions: "Well, it's okay." Xu Hao took the initiative: "Let's have a meal together?" Tell me about my classmates. When Xiao Shuang saw the word "classmate", he couldn't help but feel a little lost in his heart, and agreed with a certain gambling element.

There was almost no embarrassment in their meeting, xu Hao tentatively asked: Look at your dress, you are not very happy, all day around the children and husband?! Xiao Shuang was a little displeased: So what, it's better than you're a single dog until now! Xu Hao knew that he had a play as soon as he heard this tone, and deliberately smiled badly and replied: Right, right, single dog, single dog! However, there are people in the single dog who live in the heart and have not yet made room, and there is no way to get off the list.

As soon as this word came out, Xiao Shuang drank a sip of water, gathered a lot of resentment, and knowingly asked: A handful of years old is still so sour, let's talk about who occupies the pit and does not. Xu Hao raised a glass, "Do you remember a particularly beautiful girl who said she wanted to go to Lijiang?" Xiao Shuang trembled slightly, silently did not reply, raised a glass and drank it all.

The topic of the past was thus revealed, and the two people began to talk openly, drink openly, and finally had to stop abruptly because it was too late. Her husband, Ade, who constantly urged Xiao Shuang to go home, was actually a little suspicious, because in so many years, this was the first time that Xiao Shuang had been so abnormal.

"We are innocent, we can check" The wife and ex-boyfriend cried bitterly after returning from travel: they could still check like this

Holmes husband quietly went online

After returning home, Xiao Shuang had an undisguised liquor on his body, and his mood looked unusually good, Ade repeatedly asked Xiao Shuang several times who he was drinking with, Xiao Shuang was very impatient to say classmates, and then he began to lose his temper. This makes Ard more suspicious, women's sixth sense is very accurate, in fact, men's sixth sense is not bad, especially this kind of good thing, whether men or women will instantly soar IQ value.

After taking advantage of Xiao Shuang's rest, Ade looked over Xiao Shuang's mobile phone, and xu Hao's news of Calling Xiao Shuang to eat was seen by Ade, fortunately, the two were very stiff together in the message, and there was no ambiguity. But Ard was still not at ease, and secretly put a mini locator in Xiao Shuang's pocket.

"We are innocent, we can check" The wife and ex-boyfriend cried bitterly after returning from travel: they could still check like this

Subsequently, Xu Hao often asked Xiao Shuang to go out, they ate together, watched movies together, and did a lot of things between lovers, as if to make up for the regrets in their youth. But all this was seen by Xiao Shuang's husband Ade, who found that xiao Shuang often went to a certain neighborhood later. He suspected that this was the place where Xu Hao had a small private meeting, so he secretly stepped on the point twice, which also confirmed this speculation.

At this point, Ard already felt that he could not bear it, but Ard decided to collect more evidence of Xiao Shuang's cheating and then divorce, so that he could fight for more property for himself.

At this moment, Xiao Shuang proposed that he wanted to travel alone for a few days, and Ade Shuang quickly agreed, but asked Xiao Shuang to come back within three days on the grounds of children, and then secretly stuffed a voice recorder in Xiao Shuang's bag and enthusiastically sent Xiao Shuang away.

"We are innocent, we can check" The wife and ex-boyfriend cried bitterly after returning from travel: they could still check like this

After returning from the tour, Ade directly showdown, told Xiao Shuang that he knew that he and Xu Hao went on a tour together, Xiao Shuang tried to defend: "We are innocent, you can check" Ade said: "You have a voice recorder that I put in advance, so let's check the recorder together." ”

Xiao Shuang was stunned, it turned out that Ard already knew everything, and cried with remorse: Can you still check like this?! In the end, Ard and Xiao Shuang divorced, but Xu Hao did not marry Xiao Shuang, on the grounds that I did not want to be a father to other people's children.

Whose problem is it to keep the bottom line of marriage?

Marriage is a practice, there is no absolute fit, there is no intolerable opposition. In the face of life, feelings are occasionally not worth mentioning because of material scarcity, but this does not mean that feelings are dispensable. Only when the economic foundation is solid, can feelings have fertile soil, which can gradually sprout and then take root.

Xiao Shuang and Xu Hao's marriage ended abruptly due to economic problems in the early stage, and later rekindled their old feelings because of their solid economic foundation. This fully shows that the material basis is the soil for providing feelings, such as the travel of the two people later, but also because the economic constraints were never realized in that year, which became a regret after having to separate.

"We are innocent, we can check" The wife and ex-boyfriend cried bitterly after returning from travel: they could still check like this

Xiao Shuang still acquiesced to Xu Hao's every invitation when he knew that he had marriage and children, and from the first time he agreed to meet, he was already wrong, just so-called: life is like chess, one wrong step, one wrong step. Later, Xiao Shuang's improper relationship with Xu Hao was also a manifestation of Xiao Shuang's own lack of principles.

The issue of principle is roughly equal to the red line, and once touched, it is beyond the line. The relationship between Xiao Shuang and Xu Hao is like this, the best relationship between them should be to keep a sufficiently calm distance from each other, it is best to forget each other in the wash of time, if it is too unforgettable, then at least keep a distance, at least under the ordinary watering can.

Good times are always short, thank you for reading this, I hope the story between us will continue, the bar is ready to listen here, is your story ready?

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