There is a child in elementary school at home, and I wonder what is the most painful problem for parents? I believe that many people will point the spearhead directly at the homework, and some parents say that the child's performance has not been ideal, has been in a lot of cram schools, but the grades still can not be improved, and some parents reflect that the child's classroom can not concentrate, every time always deserted, has been "complained" by the teacher countless times. I believe that every family will encounter these problems to a greater or lesser extent, but my child, from the time of elementary school, these problems have really not been, I myself because I am busy at work, I do not have much energy to discipline him, but he can get a very high score in every exam, which makes me particularly pleased.
Many parents in the class have sent WeChat to me, hoping that I can share the method of educating children, through observation, I found that children have developed the following three good habits in their daily lives, sharing them with everyone, hoping to better help you with child-rearing.
The child was born in August 13, the age is relatively young in the class, and when he was in kindergarten, I was more Buddhist, and sometimes I would take leave, which also led to his kindergarten stage, pinyin and addition and subtraction within 20 are not very good. I have not blamed myself, thinking that when my child goes to elementary school, these will be exposed, just take it slowly.
First, concentration, very focused
Every time the child is writing homework, he will close his own door, at first I thought that the child wanted to engage in some small actions, did not want the parents to know, I quietly pushed open the door to observe several times, the child is seriously writing homework every time, very focused, when checking his homework, I rarely find anything wrong. Unless I am called out for a question that cannot be understood, it is a very quiet way to complete the role assigned by the teacher.
Several times, my cousin brought her daughter over to play, and the two children were about the same age, and each time they would be tired of being together, but as soon as I met my son writing homework, his cousin would be completely left out, and no matter how his cousin talked, he would not be disturbed.
This concentration makes me feel that it is the focus of his superior test results, and he needs to be completely calm and careful when taking the test, so as not to lose points because of small problems.
Second, I like to read very much
This point I think has a lot to do with the reading corner at home, other people's families are begging their children to read, so that parents are very headaches, and my home is that children love to read too much and make me feel distressed, every time I buy a new extracurricular book, he always holds it, even if he goes to the toilet, he is not willing to let go, and then I got angry, and directly stipulated that he was not allowed to bring books into the bathroom, and could not read books in bed.
Sometimes he goes to play with his classmates, but also the first time to find the books in his classmates, and when he meets his favorite, he will borrow them from his classmates, and he will return them as soon as possible after reading them.
Children love to read is a good habit, so that you can exercise his personal logical ability and language organization skills, his math and language do not have to worry too much about me, in the face of more difficult problems, just need me to guide it to understand, I rarely surround his desk on weekdays.
Third, self-discipline is very strong
Sometimes without me reminding him, he has done all the things he should do, such as during the holidays, I see him tinkering with toys, I will urge him to finish the homework quickly, but he says that the homework has been done, which surprises me, I don't know when he wrote it.
Let children develop these three good habits, I believe it is not a problem to improve grades. Moreover, at the primary school level, it is crucial to cultivate children's independent learning habits, and they can concentrate on completing their homework, which is already a very good learning ability. Only in the primary school stage to cultivate children's learning, reading habits, improve children's concentration, so that children know how to grasp the key points, solve doubts, etc., then the child will go to junior high school, high school will not have too much problem.