There seems to always be no definite answer to the question of whether there is a true friendship between men and women.
But there is a saying on the Internet that feels very reliable, that is, there are two prerequisites for male and female friendship: one is that women are ugly, and the other is that men have no money.
However, today I want to talk about the two men and women who do not occupy the above two premises at all, because one of them is the beautiful boy Plum (Lepinado DiCaprio) who is fascinated by women around the world, and the other is the heartbreaking Kate Winslet.
Almost everyone who has seen "Titanic" knows the names of these two people, when they were a dancing teenager and a cardamom age, and ignited the tears of countless people with a "life and death love".
Of course, Little Plum and Kate are also famous for this movie at the same time, and they have formed an unbreakable friendship while they are red.
In fact, this can be understood, filming together for a long time, and with the same experience, I have felt a profound state of life, and that kind of acquaintance is something that others cannot achieve.
This is like the actors in the 87 version of "Dream of the Red Chamber", even if they have been separated for decades, as long as they meet, they are still as warm and friendly.
A drama has become a classic in their hearts, but also a witness to their friendship.
Little Plum and Kate were both small people in the entertainment industry at the beginning, but because of this drama, they became famous overnight, and the lives of the two people changed, but at the same time, they also planted characters related to this matter.
Not long ago, Kate mentioned her friendship with Little Plum in the Guardian: "You know what? Little Plum had just passed his 47th birthday, and when we met, I was 21 and Little Plum was 22. ”
You see, this is friendship, a man who spans years and never changes, no matter what way he has ever existed in your life, but the important thing is that he is always there.
"He's my friend, my really close friend, and we'll be with each other for the rest of our lives."
Kate describes the friendship with Little Plum in this way, from which it can be understood that there should be friendship between men and women in addition to love, not necessarily an ugly, one without money.
Because Little Plum has money and Kate has a face, but they don't develop into love. For this reason, the outside world still regrets for a while, but this is the reality, and they are also very calm in facing this fact.
"Recently, I finally saw him again in Los Angeles, and I kept crying when we were reunited."
Two people in the same show business, but they can't see each other often. Especially in recent years, the epidemic has made the pair of friends have not seen each other for 3 years.
"Now, it's not that as soon as I go to New York or he goes to London, the two of us can find a time to have dinner or have a cup of coffee and reminisce, as we used to. Due to the impact of the epidemic, we can't leave our country, so like many foreign friendships, we can only miss each other. ”
Kate says a lot, and through her excitement and tears, we seem to be able to decipher a feeling: a friendship that transcends love, more than friendship, less than love. Moreover, this relationship may be better than love, because it has always been a concern in the hearts of two people, and it has always made two people calmly opposite.
How many lovers have changed from friends to lovers. But when the light passed, love often lost to trivial life.
At this time, love is gone, friendship is gone, and no one can be treated well in such an experience.
On the contrary, the relationship between Little Plum and Kate is obviously much better than coming together and achieving a love affair. At least, they've missed each other and fulfilled each other for so many years.
Just think, no matter where you are, there is a person in this world who is still silently supporting your expectations, your dreams, and your choices, that is a great comfort.
We all know that Little Plum has always been angry before he won the Oscar, because he values this award very much.
Kate won an Oscar in 2005, when Little Plum sat offstage and watched her.
At the time, Kate was a little nervous, but the first person she was looking for and relying on was Little Plum. "He (little plum) winked at me and gave me a thumbs up, which was very helpful."
However, I am afraid that only after experiencing this kind of mood that I have always wanted but can't get, but my good friend has preemptively taken one step ahead of himself, right?
Embarrassed, helpless, frustrated, but also happy, all kinds of contradictions are entangled.
Little Plum gave Kate a lot of praise and support. Including in 2009, Kate won the Golden Globe Award, and Little Plum still sat on the stage, supporting her loss with her strong heart, but gave a flying kiss to her good friend.
"Leo, I'm glad I can stand here and tell you how much I love you. I've loved you for 13 years... Body and soul. ”
This is what Kate said when she came to the stage, her love is so full, so full that it exceeds love, her love is so real, really heavier than love.
But Xiao Lizi also gave back to her with such love, and never thought about anything other than friendship.
In 2016, Xiao Lizi finally won the Oscar, and he walked off the stage to hug Kate, and at that moment, it was a witness to the sublimation of their friendship again.
Remember when Kate got fat? I believe that many people have chosen to black her.
The once young girl, but after becoming famous, became an obese big sister, which is somewhat disappointing.
However, in the face of a large-scale attack, Little Plum just told Kate: "Forget about your weight, you are very beautiful", a very simple sentence, but revealed the focus of a friendship: no matter what you look like, you are my good friend.
Looking back at the interactions between the two people, it seems that one thing can be seen: no matter what time, they are the one who is most relaxed against each other.
In 2001, Kate collaborated with Phoenix Uncle Joaquin Phoenix to shoot "Quill Brush", and Uncle Phoenix is someone she has always admired, and she can work together to make her very happy.
But Little Plum was quite confident, and he said to Kate, "You didn't love Uncle Phoenix more than me, did you?" You couldn't have loved anyone more. ”
"How do you know I love you?" Kate smiled and asked back.
you, you're sure to love me! Look, this is true friendship, in each other's hearts are clear, I am his favorite person, but this love is not the same as love, it is more important, is the position in the heart.
A person who has experienced storms with himself, this is probably Kate's relationship with Little Plum. The so-called sharing weal and woe, only by living together can we have the qualification of sharing weal and woe.
For Kate "he (Little Plum) is that stinky boy Farty Leo", and for Little Plum, "she (Kate) is my little girl", they exist with each other, but they will not go to the threshold of love, which is more like family affection isn't it?
Kate seems to have been unhappy in her marriage, and by the time she married for the third time, she no longer wanted to publicize it, or even announce it to the outside world.
She only invited 6 people to her wedding, and Little Plum was the one who took her hand and delivered it to the groom.
It can be seen that the relationship between two people has long been positioned: you are one of my family members, and I am the most important person in your life.