The eldest and Wang Xiaofei divorced for three months, and immediately officially announced the remarriage of 52-year-old South Korean star Gu Junye, which attracted ridicule from the whole network.
The point of ridicule is nothing more than a middle-aged woman divorced with two children, remarried immediately after divorce, and the remarried person is the object of the first love, and the black material is a basket.
Female celebrities divorced and remarried, which is meant to be used for people to talk about, not to mention so dramatic. Maybe even the screenwriter did not dare to make such a plot, for fear of making the audience scold "dog blood". It seems that real life is far more intriguing than film and television dramas.
The marriage of the eldest s has attracted much attention from the beginning, she met with the rich second generation Wang Xiaofei 4 times, and decided to flash marriage after 20 days of interaction, in ten years of marriage, she risked her life to give birth to two children, experienced the confrontation with the strong mother-in-law, the slippery slope of her husband's career, and finally went to the end. All of this has been exposed to the public from beginning to end, just like the marriage reality show of the big s.
You think she's divorced and the reality show is over? She starred in the second season, and continued the remarriage of the frontier with her first love boyfriend.
Among the melon-eating masses, some people are puzzled by this mysterious operation, some people accuse her of treating marriage as a child's play, and some people are possessed by godmothers, predicting that she will still have to divorce. But I was suddenly a little envious of her, envious that she could live so willfully.
"Willfulness" has always been a derogatory term, and it is often used in conjunction with "arrogance", criticizing those who let their own nature come and do whatever they want.
Most children are taught to "be obedient", "obedient" and "not willful" from an early age, and when they grow up, they are naturally more constrained and dare not act willfully.
Girls, in particular, do not dare to be willful on marriage issues. Who are you marrying? When to get married? How do you live after you get married? What if I can't get by? The final answer to these questions is all carefully weighed and carefully calculated. As a result of the calculation, we must try to have an account for the children, the parents, and the face, but we can be wronged by ourselves.
For remarriage, it is even more cautious, lest you treat your children badly and make people laugh.
The divorce and remarriage of the eldest s can be so willful, neither considering the mother's feelings, nor caring about the child's endurance, nor caring about whether it is ridiculed by the whole network. As for whether to embarrass the ex-husband, of course, it is not considered.
Such a person cares about his own current feelings, but the only person who does not want to be wronged is himself. Isn't it enviable to live like this the way you want? Ask yourself, don't you want to live as you please?
How many people seek perfection in an indifferent marriage, how many people can't sleep because they miss their first love, but few people can feel unhappy like Big S, and then, regardless of the yo-yo mouth, they directly marry their first love boyfriend.
Netizens have summed up that she can live as much as she wants, because she is a female star and has huge wealth that we ordinary people do not have, and these things give her the confidence to be willful.
I think it's true, but it's more than that. If you're willing to think about it, you can see the deeper reasons.
If Big S wasn't a female star, she would most likely do the same.
When she was a little girl, she wanted to apply for art school and enter the entertainment industry. At that time, my mother was driving, worried that she would be bullied in the entertainment industry, and firmly disagreed. She then jumped out of the car on the highway as a sign of protest. In the end, Little S cried and called to tell her that her mother gave in to her consent to apply for art school, and she went home.
For whitening, she does not eat any dark food; in order to lose weight, she can eat only bananas for 3 weeks; for the sake of dark hair, she is strictly maintained every day, and no one is allowed to touch it.
After getting married, in order to get pregnant, Big S was fierce to break all the rules set, and the former "beauty king" was fat to the point of being out of shape.
There are some people in this world who always know what they want and then fight for it. Because the goal is clear, in the process of hard work, never care about other people's opinions, go their own way, let others comment.
And most of the things in this world as long as you are willing to be cruel to yourself, there is a high probability that they will succeed. We see that Big S is a great singer, whether it is a host or an actor. People who do everything they want to do well are full of confidence in themselves.
This creates a virtuous circle. She is willful because she has a clear goal, she is willing to work hard for it, and she can do things well, so she is more confident. No one could dictate her decisions, and she certainly had reason to be willful.
When Big S's father drank and abused his mother, the sisters just hid in the doorway and secretly cried, and only Big S dared to come forward to stop his father's atrocities.
After his father died of illness, he left his mother and took the three sisters to live a difficult life. It was her again, plunging into the entertainment industry to earn money to pay off her father's debts. She is the backbone of her mother and sisters, and she covers the family by herself.
A woman with clear goals, bursting self-confidence, willing to work hard in everything, willing to take responsibility, does not want to live a wronged life, is also a reasonable thing.
Moreover, we see that Big S is very aware of her own feelings and cares about her own feelings, and will never measure her life by other people's standards, because she has the ability to bear the consequences of what she does.
Therefore, Big S can live so willfully, not only because of her wealth, but also because she believes that she has the ability to control her life.
For us ordinary people, it is really quite difficult to imagine her willful life.
Looking back at the half of big S's life, it seems that she can get what she wants, and what she doesn't want has been successfully put down.
When he was young, he had a vigorous love affair with Lan Zhenglong and Zhou Yumin, and if he wanted to love, he took the initiative to pursue, and if he didn't love, he resolutely proposed to break up, even if he cried until the sky was dark. Because she clearly realizes that there is an irreparable problem in the relationship, she will not tolerate it, and she must give up the pain, which shows her sobriety and sanity.
After getting married, the marriage story of the second generation of the rich frequently made headlines, and he also loved, torn, and run-in. For her, she is willing to work hard for the happiness of marriage, but the effort is hard work, and she cannot work hard and be wronged, and it is something she cannot bear to make herself unhappy. Finally, without the slightest nostalgia, wave your sleeve and say goodbye with dignity.
Only the secret love affair with the first love boyfriend has a beginning and an end, and even because the boyfriend is red, it has not been officially announced. This may have become a knot in her heart.
When she received a call from her first love boyfriend asking for a reunion, it must have touched her heart knot. Whether he is old, whether he is bald Oba, whether he is angry, whether he is "Ma Bao", she does not care about these.
As long as she wants but doesn't get it, she will fight for it. Thus, we see that the big S moth has entered the new marriage like a fire. As for whether this marriage will last, it depends on what she wants next?
She is so willfully satisfying herself, regardless of gains and losses, recklessly, just to satisfy herself in the moment.
And we have reason to believe that a woman like her, who has a clear goal, self-confidence and hard work, a woman who seems willful but very rational and sober, will never wronged herself in marriage.
Even if she really wants to divorce again, she has the ability to walk away. That being the case, why not enjoy the moment.