In 1988, Fan Xiaoxuan quickly became popular with "Health Song". At that time, Fan Xiaoxuan was still active on the screen with a youthful and cute image, dressed up very cute every day, like a doll, which was completely different from the current Fan Xiaoxuan, before she was a "well-behaved woman", sweet and lovely, and now she is a "little witch", with a tongue ring nose nail, taking the route of "deviance". Some people think she's stupid, some envy her, some admire her...
One: Abandoned by his father, precocious from an early age, music accompanied Fan Xiaoxuan throughout her childhood
Fan Xiaoxuan came to this world in a vacuum. Their parents were not affectionate, and it was only because of the accident that they were tied together because of her. When Fan Xiaoxuan was very young, her father "ran away from home". In order to support her young daughter, Fan Xiaoxuan's mother ran around, singing everywhere to make money. Although tired, but simply earn a lot. Perhaps to understand her mother's hardships, Fan Xiaoxuan has been particularly sensible and obedient since she was a child, and she is a good child in the mouths of other parents.
At the age of three, Fan Xiaoxuan began to contact music and initially showed a good musical talent. Her mother did not want to bury her daughter's talent, so she sent her to a music class at the age of 7, focusing on cultivation. Other people's children were still playing with mud, and Fan Xiaoxuan began to contact a variety of musical instruments. When others were twelve years old, they did not understand why and began to create their own creations and fill in words.
Second: the company is strongly praised, all the way popular, becoming a "well-behaved woman" in the minds of everyone
At the age of 14, he was discovered by scouts. By chance, Fan Xiaoxuan met the noble person in her life, Li Yaming, and then opened her star path. Successfully signed to a record label and received a lot of praise. The company gave her film resources and released her debut album for her. At that time, although she did not immediately catch fire, she was already a little famous. It wasn't until the release of her second album, Talk to Yourself, that she began to show signs of popularity. At that time, Fan Xiaoxuan took the sweet and cute route, so most of her songs were cute and windy.
Later, as soon as the Divine Comedy "Health Song" came out, who fought with it? With this divine comedy, Fan Xiaoxuan completely became famous and became a "well-behaved woman" in the minds of everyone. Young and famous, sought after by countless fans, but Fan Xiaoxuan was not happy at all, she felt very depressed. Because "being a good girl" is not what she wants, she lives in a false life every day and can't find any happiness.
Three: "Rebellion" offends the company and is refrigerated, and the career falls into the clouds
"Rebellion" broke out in repression, and Fan Xiaoxuan insisted on tearing off the label of obedience. Fan Xiaoxuan, who is in her early 20s, does not want to continue to take the cute and sweet route, she wants to be her true self, so she takes off her beautiful princess dress, changes her cute hairstyle into an inch, and puts her tongue nails. The company was furious when it found out, and the album that was supposed to be released for it finally did not matter. Regardless of the company, Fan Xiaoxuan is completely "free" of herself, and finally released a rock album. As a result, album sales were dismal. Fan Xiaoxuan changed her sweet image in the past and showed her in front of people as a "bad girl", which was not accepted by the people at that time, and the people thought that she was not obedient, became bad, and was very rebellious, and regarded it as a negative teaching material for educating children, and criticized her for being useless. In this way, Fan Xiaoxuan's original career in the sky suddenly fell into the clouds.
Not understood, the company snow hidden, the mother's side is crazy to put pressure on herself, Fan Xiaoxuan soon suffered from depression. Fortunately, the boyfriend at the time, Zhou Junwei, has been by her side, waiting for her, playing the role of a psychologist, and Fan Xiaoxuan has not embarked on a road of no return. Zhou Junwei is a handsome-looking Hong Kong male singer who has long admired Fan Xiaoxuan. After painstakingly chasing after her hand, Zhou Jinwei has always been very good to her, which can be said to be very protective. Unfortunately, this precious relationship did not bear fruit in the end.
Four: Say that the uterus is not important, insist on not marrying and infertile
In 2004, Fan Xiaoxuan ushered in a new relationship, the other party is singer Allen. This relationship was unanimously opposed by Fan Xiaoxuan's friends, who believed that the two were not worthy, whether it was financially or physically, and more importantly, he was still an unmarried person, only in love, not married. Fan Xiaoxuan said that she can accept it, not to marry, not to have children can be, this alternative view, so that countless people have broken the glasses. In order to have a good time with this poor boy who plays music, she even ran to remove her own womb. I have to say that this kind of behavior is really crazy and incomprehensible.
In 2022, Fan Xiaoxuan is 45 years old, she is still unmarried, childless and childless. Countless netizens are sorry for her, for her is not worth it, think she is stupid, for the so-called self, and give up their career in the sky. Someone asked her, do you regret it? She won't regret it. She is like this, she does not love to be bound, does not love to be defined, even if the people around her do not understand. She and her boyfriend Allen have been in love for many years, all the way through the ups and downs, and there is no denying that she is now very happy.
Fan Xiaoxuan once said: "I think this is my life, if I don't go this way, I will definitely regret it in the future." This sentence is enough to see her determination to insist on living herself. As Yi Shu said, "In the short decades of life, the most important thing is to satisfy yourself, not to please others." Obviously, continuing to maintain the "sweet girl" personality, she lives a very painful life, no longer caters to the public, calmly faces her heart, and concentrates on being the real Fan Xiaoxuan, which makes her very happy.
Five: Marriage is not a necessity in life
Marriage is not a necessity in life. Many people think that women must get married and must have their own children, otherwise it will become a regret in your life. Not quite. A good marriage can indeed bring happiness to people, but don't forget that some big winds and waves are brought about by marriage.
Marriage cannot be done, do not force yourself to marry in the eyes of the world. Fan Xiaoxuan does not want a womb, does not want to get married, does not want children, it seems absurd, but in fact, she lives a transparent life, she clearly understands that she is not happy, and there is no necessary connection with whether she is married, and there is no inevitable connection with whether she has children, mainly to see if she is capable enough to make herself happy.
Fan Xiaoxuan, who stands under countless pressures, breaks stereotypes, breaks the world, and insists on living herself, is undoubtedly a very brave woman. As women, we can learn from her bravery, understand her transparency, and then live a real life without interference from others.