People are always very attached to what they lack, but when they get this thing that they hope for day and night, they regret to find that the pain inside is difficult to explain. ——Zhang Congyi
The weakness of human nature makes us can't help but approach the bustling world, to feel the lights and green, the paper drunk and the gold fans, so as to make up for the ups and downs of our actual situation, but the sorrows and joys of human beings are not the same, and people in the prosperous world also have unspeakable pain.
Just as people yearn for the rich and powerful, but ignore the unknown gray pain behind it, zeng Zhiwei's first wife Wang Meihua's experience is like this. She personally attested to the saying that "the giants are like the deep sea, and once they enter the words of suffering".
When it comes to the name Wang Meihua, many people don't know much, and more often, people call her "Bao Ma", which is the biological mother of Zeng Baoyi, the daughter of Taiwanese movie star Zeng Zhiwei.
Wang Meihua came from a poor family, the family of seven only had her father alone to support the family's expenses, when Wang Meihua grew up, she began to work outside, only twelve years old she went to the song hall to sell and make money, becoming an indispensable financial support for the family.
Wang Meihua, who sold songs in the song hall, was particularly loved by the owner of the song and dance troupe for her outstanding appearance and moving voice, and by chance, the song and dance troupe was invited to perform in Hong Kong, and Wang Meihua was also one of the participants.
This special trip to Hong Kong allowed Wang Meihua to see the lights and wines of the bustling world, and also allowed Wang Meihua to meet Zeng Zhiwei, the son of the big boss Zeng Qirong. Although Zeng Zhiwei was not tall and had a bad appearance, he was a real nobleman in Wang Meihua's heart.
Zeng Zhiwei fell in love with Wang Meihua at first sight, and Wang Meihua, who was confined to poverty, also happened to need such a noble prince to solve her urgent needs, the two collided, each taking what he needed, and soon Wang Meihua and Zeng Zhiwei were together and became the side of the son of the golden lord.
In the days when she accompanied Zeng Zhiwei, Wang Meihua enjoyed the honor she had never had before, and her life in the song and dance troupe became more comfortable. Sometimes she disregarded the rules of the song and dance troupe and ran out to play willfully, and no one would stop the accusation.
The boss Zeng Qirong, after learning of Zeng Zhiwei's relationship with Wang Meihua, not only did not speak out against it, but also praised Wang Meihua, believing that she was good-looking and well-behaved, and was a suitable daughter-in-law, and he often took Wang Meihua and other song and dance troupe members to high-end restaurants.
The prosperity was short-lived after all, and soon Wang Meihua's tourist visa in Hong Kong expired, and she had to return to Taiwan. Originally, I thought that her relationship with Zeng Zhiwei would end here, but I did not think that after Wang Meihua left, Zeng Zhiwei would call her from time to time, which made Wang Meihua happy.
At that time, Wang Meihua's family could not afford to buy a telephone, and could only communicate with Zeng Zhiwei from the phone of the xiangkou grocery store, wang Meihua believed that in the days when she first returned to Taiwan, the happiest thing was to hear the lady of the grocery store call her to answer the long-distance call. This sweet day has become an unforgettable memory of Wang Meihua's life.
Although Zeng Zhiwei was still good to Wang Meihua, he never had any plans to get married, because his father hoped that Zeng Zhiwei would have a marriage. Under the repeated persuasion of his father, Zeng Zhiwei married Wang Meihua and gave Wang Meihua a very brand wedding.
Hundreds of tables of banquets, golden bracelets, counting to tired red envelopes, this real and touchable everything seems to tell Wang Meihua that she, Cinderella, has married into the rich, no longer has to worry about her livelihood, and can live a worry-free life.
But fairy tales are not reality after all, Cinderella married her own prince because of love, and Wang Meihua married Zeng Zhiwei just to get rid of the predicament of life. Zeng Zhiwei did not have a lot of love for her, and he married Wang Meihua to fulfill his father's wish.
In the days after marriage, Wang Meihua was not happy, Zeng Zhiwei rarely returned home, most of the time she was alone in an empty house, although the two had two daughters, but it did not alleviate Wang Meihua's difficult situation.
During the production of Zeng Baoyi, Wang Meihua was alone in the delivery room, unaccompanied. For the fact that Zeng Zhiwei would never go home, her father-in-law only told her inconsequentially that men are like this and will come back one day.
And the mother-in-law is always wary of her daughter-in-law born in a poor family, and Wang Meihua, who has a bright time to go out to the banquet, will be taken back by her mother-in-law as soon as she returns home, and it is very secret.
This kind of widowed marriage, such a life without dignity, made Wang Meihua, who had left her hometown, feel extremely painful, and Wang Meihua, who married into the rich, did not feel the slightest warmth, and this chilling home hurt her like a sword. After three years of marriage, Wang Meihua took the initiative to file for divorce and chose to leave the house.
In 1975, 21-year-old Wang Meihua decided to quietly leave the Zeng family, her luggage was thin, she had nothing but to continue to sell and sing to make money, although life was hard, she did not regret it. This kind of day that she didn't have to send people to the fence and didn't have to look at people's eyes brought her a little comfort, and the only thing she couldn't rest assured of was her two children in the Zeng family.
Unexpectedly, the year Wang Meihua left the Zeng family, the Zeng family suffered great changes. Father-in-law Zeng Qirong was investigated for corruption and fled to Taiwan, and the two young children also fled to Taiwan with their grandparents, and Zeng Zhiwei began to act to make money.
The year Wang Meihua left home, the glory of the Zeng family was no more, for Zeng Zhiwei, his parents fled, his wife left home, suffered a double blow, he had a lot of complaints about Wang Meihua, and in a later interview, Zeng Zhiwei was even more blunt, his wife Wang Meihua is a bad person.
Wang Meihua left home very early, failed to accompany her daughter to grow up, coupled with the obstruction of her grandparents, Wang Meihua's relationship with her two daughters is very distant. For her concern, the daughter was very resistant, and the eldest daughter Zeng Baoyi, who was in a rebellious period at the time, thought that this mother was very bad and incompetent. This made Wang Meihua very sad.
In 2012, Wang Meihua was exposed to a new relationship and even associated with her own dry son Wang Jianmin. At that time, Wang Meihua's love affair with Wang Jianmin was boiling over. One is that Wang Jianmin is called a "soft rice man" with many girlfriends, and the other is this unrequited love that people criticize.
Wang Meihua responded positively to various speculations in the media, publicly acknowledged her interaction with her son Wang Jianmin, and frankly admitted that Wang Jianmin gave her a lot of help when she was most sad.
But this relationship did not last long, the two people still got along with the same mother and son when they interacted, and Wang Jianmin admitted that Wang Meihua still had Zeng Zhiwei in his heart. As early as 2004, Wang Meihua and Zeng Zhiwei reconciled in a show, and this harmonious relationship continues to this day.
epilogue
She is Zeng Zhiwei's ex-wife, Zeng Baoyi's biological mother, people in the circle call her Baoma, she is Wang Meihua, a poor and married into the rich, but because of the snubbed had to run away from home.
The first half of Wang Meihua's life was not so smooth, the ex-husband said that he was a bad wife, the media said that she was a bad mother, and the daughter did not want to be close to her, fortunately, this situation did not last, in the later relationship, they all froze their previous suspicions and shook hands and made peace.