Family education is 6 "one minute" a day, and educating children is the most important cause

Author: Ru Fengjun

Source: Rufeng Everyone (ID: rufengdajia)

Tao Xingzhi is a great educator in modern history. Guo Moruo once praised him like this: "Kong Zhongni two thousand years ago, Tao Xingzhi two thousand years later."

Mr. Tao Xingzhi said: "True education is an activity that imprints the heart and the heart, and only by coming out of the heart can it touch the depths of the soul." ”

6 "one minute" a day, give your children more love and attention, educating your children is the most important cause!

1

Listen for a minute

Tao Xingzhi said: "Everyone says that children are small, children are not small, if you think that children are small, you are even smaller than children." ”

Don't always say what the parents say and the child listens; don't always think that "the child is still young, he doesn't understand it.".

In fact, from the beginning of the child's understanding, he knows the joys and sorrows of his parents.

Every day for a minute, change your perspective, walk into your child's world, and listen to their voices. This is very helpful for developing your child's social skills.

Listen carefully and you will find that they all understand!

2

A minute of love

Tao Xingzhi said: "Love is a great power, without love there is no education"; "You must not despise the emotions of children." ...... He wrote and thought twice, as if he had lost the election as a candidate for president. ”

Love and companionship are the most important things parents should give to their children.

Every day for a minute, communicate with your child, touch his head more, give him the warmest hugs, and let him know how much you love him.

Don't scold your child in public; don't always complain about his grades, deprive him of hobbies...

Love the child and please give him enough freedom and respect.

3

One minute to participate

Tao Xingzhi said: "Action is Lao Tzu, knowledge is the son, and creation is the grandson." ”

Try to discover things you and your child love together and improve emotional communication with your child.

Children also want to explore the world of adults and participate in it.

For one minute a day, let the child participate in family affairs, respect the child's subject status, listen to his opinions, and reach consensus as much as possible.

Of course, in the process of participation, we should pay equal attention to respect and guidance, and we cannot follow the child in everything.

4

One minute compliment

A friend of Tao Xingzhi beat the child hard because the child broke a newly purchased gold watch.

Tao Xingzhi heard this and said, "You beat up a 'Edison.'"

He personally went to a friend's house and took the child to the watch repair shop, and the child was very excited, and his eyes did not blink to see the master repair the watch.

Every child has his own unique strengths, do not look at the child's strengths and weaknesses from the perspective of parents.

For a minute a day, discover your child's strengths and praise them appropriately. In this way, "Edison" will not be beaten away.

5

One minute of encouragement

Tao Xingzhi said: "The whole secret of educating children lies in believing in children and liberating children. ”

Every child is an angel, don't compare the child to the child in the neighborhood.

When Tao Xingzhi gave a speech at Wuhan University, he took out a large rooster and a handful of rice from the box.

He pressed the rooster's head and opened his mouth, and the big rooster struggled desperately, refusing to eat rice. Mr. Tao let go of his hand, took a few steps back himself, and the big rooster began to eat the rice by himself.

Education is like feeding a chicken, pouring knowledge into the child, he is reluctant to learn.

Encourage the child for one minute a day, make him full of confidence, and stimulate the child's interest in learning.

6

One minute correction

For one minute a day, correct misconduct in your child's life, such as bullying children or being too stingy.

First of all, we should find out the reasons for the child's behavior, and secondly, we should pay attention to the way of education.

Once, when Tao Xing saw a boy beating a classmate, he stopped him and called him to the office.

Seeing the boy, Tao Xingzhi took out a grain of sugar and said, "Reward you, you came to the office before me." The boy did not dare to look up.

Tao Xingzhi took out another grain of sugar: "I stopped you, you stopped, it shows that you respect me." The boy hesitantly took the sugar.

Mr. Tao then said: "As far as I know, you beat your classmates because he bullied girls, you have a great sense of justice, and then reward you with a candy." ”

The boy cried and said, "Principal, I was wrong, my classmates are no longer right, and I can't beat anyone." Principal Tao smiled and said, "You have confessed your mistake, and reward you with a piece of sugar!" ”

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Compared with school education, family education is more important.

No child under the sky can succeed casually, insist on 6 "one minutes" a day, and be the best teacher for children!

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