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Every year on March 14, it is White Day
March 14 every year is white valentine's day, because this year is 2021, so it has become a 2021314, many people who pay attention to the sense of ceremony feel that such a day is very special, many years rare to meet once, so be sure to do something meaningful, and even many people, will choose to go on this day to get a certificate.
White Valentine's Day is not similar to the "520" and "Double 11 Shopping Festival", which has been created by merchants in recent years to make everyone consume, but has a long history. The earliest can originate in Rome in the third century AD, and it is generally believed that this festival was first accepted and promoted in Japan.
In 1977, ishimura Manseido, a dessert maker in Hakata Ward, Fukuoka City, Japan, launched a campaign advocating that the party receiving the gift should return the gift and let the other party know his intentions, originally as a means of promoting candy, so the festival is also known as: candy gift day.
After 1980, because the sugar used in candy was white, it was simply changed to: white Valentine's Day.
Festivals, has always been a very ritualistic behavior, different festivals correspond to different customs, most of the festivals are around the festive, cheerful, reunion and other beautiful themes, especially Valentine's Day, not only can enhance the feelings between husband and wife or couples, but also let each other leave unforgettable memories.
Many people will pay special attention to the sense of ceremony in ordinary life, thinking that these senses of ceremony will make life more interesting and more vivid, and at the same time, they can maintain a steady stream of freshness between themselves and their other half.
Take Valentine's Day, for example, every time it comes to Valentine's Day, two people in love will carefully prepare gifts for each other, the most important thing is not what is sent specifically, but the process of carefully preparing gifts for each other, condensing a lot of love.
When the other party receives the gift, it is not only the gift itself, but the effort and care of the person who gave the gift, so that the feelings will be closer and more intense.
However, it is in response to people's psychology of "giving gifts to enhance feelings", more and more festivals have been created, resulting in the festival itself has changed its nature, it seems that only consumption can prove the heart, and no consumption is no heart.
Such a concept seriously distorts the original intention of the festival, and we can only deal with it with a correct mentality in order to keep the festival as it was.
With the continuous promotion of the festival, people pay more and more attention to white valentine's day, and manufacturers continue to see business opportunities from it, so chocolate manufacturers began to promote white chocolate.
Up to now, the white plot person can not only send candy on this day, but also can use white chocolate, but also send all other gifts to each other, as long as they can express their hearts and make each other feel happy, it is feasible.
There is no accurate conclusion about who gives to whom first, the man or woman initiative is no longer important, the important thing is a good love, must be mutual, deeply loved each other, so it is best to pay equally and express love.
The story behind White Day
According to the explanation of the Japanese National Rice Leaf Industry Synergy, the reason why White Valentine's Day is scheduled for March 14 is mainly because in the third century AD, the Emperor of the Roman Empire Claudius II announced in the capital Rome: abandon all marriage commitments, ordering all men in the country to join the army.
At this time, a priest named "Warrentai" did not obey this will and continued to hold weddings for those who loved each other, and after being denounced, the priest was arrested and hanged in public on February 14.
A month later, on March 14, the couple who had successfully held the wedding with the help of the priest swore an oath that they would live forever.
In order to commemorate this day, March 14 has been designated as White Day, not only to commemorate this great love, but also to remind all people who love each other to cherish each other's days together, after all, being together is a rare fate in this life.
As we all know, February 14 is also Valentine's Day in the West, and in order to distinguish it, March 14 is designated as White Day. The color of white, in the eyes of Western European countries, is a symbol of purity and purity, so when they get married, the bride will wear a white wedding dress.
This is also one of the reasons why people will name the festival as White Valentine's Day, with the later inheritance and development, the color of white represents expectation and happiness, representing our blessings for the new people.
As long as you fall in love, every day can be Valentine's Day
In general, white valentine's day originated in European countries, so Europeans pay relative attention to it, and there is a certain history of celebrating "white valentine's day", not only that, but also formed a custom.
For example, we are familiar with, February 14, Valentine's Day, generally boys take the initiative to give gifts to girls, the most common is roses or chocolates. One month after receiving the gift, it is the time for the girl to consider whether to return the gift to the boy.
If you go back, it means that you accept the boy's love and are willing to be with him, if you don't return, it means that you don't like the boy who gave the gift, let him give up as soon as possible.
White Valentine's Day originated in Europe, was accepted and circulated by the Japanese in the 1970s, and now, the festival is not only spread in Japan, South Korea, etc., but also has received more and more attention in China.
Many people say that good love is inseparable from the sense of ceremony, but I think that the sense of ceremony is not necessarily a necessity for love, at most it can only be a concoction.
People who pay attention to the sense of ceremony, even if they can keep love more fresh, but the premise is that the other party also pays attention to the sense of ceremony as you. If she is not as good as your pursuit, not only will she not be happy because she received a gift, but she will complain that you are too wasteful.
On the contrary, if two people get along together, they don't care about the sense of ceremony, and feel that compared to this kind of painstaking effort to create surprises, the long flow of fine water is more soothing, then there is no need to pay special attention to the sense of ceremony.
The way you get along is the best way, there is no need to blindly follow the trend. After all, it is not a good love of love, you are clear in your heart, you don't have to do it for others to see, just seek your own peace of mind.
As long as you love each other, every day is Valentine's Day, you don't have to advocate various festivals, but don't forget to express your heart to your loved ones. Sometimes only by expressing it, the other party will know, otherwise once there is a misunderstanding, it will not be worth the loss.
Topic: How do you see White Day? Do you usually have such a holiday? Do you think the sense of ceremony is important? Leave a comment to talk about your point of view.
Author: Editor-in-Chief of "The Latest Current Events Online": Takayama Flag Bearer