When facing the woman we like, we always want to show our most perfect side, but walking and walking, it feels like walking into a "dead end".
In fact, in life, many times may miss love because of some small details of the man himself, or get but lose it. It's just that more often than not, we are complaining about others, about love, about life, and we don't know that the fundamental problem is actually ourselves.
Love can be said to be "strong" or "fragile". Being strong is not underestimating the determination of two people to guard love; vulnerability can be lost at any time to some small details that you have not noticed. It's like these few moments of a man, you may not know it, at this time, you are enough to make a woman who once silently vowed to live with you in her heart, resolutely turn away from you. Men don't "step on the thunder", these 5 kinds of behavior, it is most likely to make women completely disappointed in you!
1, cold treatment of her, cold violence
Many times, men look at love more than a momentary impulse, an excess of behavior under the action of hormones.
You think it's love, but you're just briefly attracted to her. Such love does not last long and will soon disappear.
After the love period, the freshness gradually fades, she is no longer so attractive to you, and all that is left is the chai rice oil and salt of life. Gradually, you begin to feel that this is not the life you want, and you begin to avoid her, ignore her, and try to use cold violence to make her take the initiative to break up.
In fact, why don't women know? More often, it's because she still loves you and wants to continue the relationship. Perhaps, when a woman is really tired, really sore, really desperate, she will let go. The moment a woman turns around, you are doomed to have no future. This practice is the least responsible in the eyes of women!
2, what she says is what it is, no opinion
Many times, love is lost to parents, is this really the case? In fact, it is only because of your lack of opinion, your incompetence!
Two people have been dating together for a long time, and everyone and even themselves have determined that they are the right one for each other. However, just as the two people were preparing to get married, the man's parents felt that the woman was not tall enough, so that the man dismissed the idea of marriage. Therefore, men can only helplessly say to women: "My parents do not agree with me to marry you, no way, let's break up." For this, without making any effort to leave, how can she entrust the rest of her life to you?
Many people never dare to try to take charge of their own lives, always looking for reasons to avoid some of the choices they should make. Even where should I go after asking a woman out, ask her, and find some high-sounding reasons for myself: "What if I choose a place she doesn't like?" ”
The fact that a woman comes out without asking where you go shows that she doesn't care where to go at all, and that you are just afraid to make a choice because of your lack of opinion, so you make an excuse for your weakness. But I don't know that the moment you say this, she may already be disappointed in you.
3, make excuses for your failures, complain about the world
You always complain that reality is unfair to you, but you never try to improve yourself and give yourself a fair chance;
Just like the woman who can't catch up with her, she says that women worship gold, and even fabricates some rumors to slander her reputation; obviously she has no sense of responsibility and does not work hard, but when the woman leaves him, she says: "If it were not for you, how could I be like this now?" ”
You always make excuses for your failures, but you have never looked for reasons in yourself, have you ever wondered why those who are worse than you in all aspects can find girls who are dead set on him? Do you really think it's by luck?
4, weak outside, arrogant at home
There are some men, because of some small problems in their emotional life, they quarrel with women, argue according to reason, there is no point as a measure that men should have, like a "machismo" appearance; and on the outside, they are very "polite", treating people and things only promises, afraid of offending others.
Although life has brought us a lot of pressure, we are powerless to change the status quo. However, as a man, we can't vent this anger on our other half because we have been wronged on the outside.
The boat of affection cannot withstand the repairs again and again. Therefore, the problem of not facing up to oneself is that you can't find a girlfriend, or you can't keep a woman's heart.
5, everything is perfunctory
In life, do you often encounter your partner who says: "If you want to think like this, I can't do it", "Do what you want, blame me for doing it?" ", "You say yes," "So what do you want?" And these words are the words that women hate men the most.
Many men encounter problems that they can't solve emotionally, and they will always pretend to be indifferent to avoid this problem, as if women are very good. In the end, it is actually because I have never thought that I have a problem, and I have no idea of solving this problem at all.
Two people get along, sincerity and love are mutual,
Women should give men enough respect and understanding, but men should also give women the security they want.
Disappointment is accumulated day by day, when one day a woman is already disappointed, she will definitely choose to leave without hesitation, and then it will be too late for men to regret it.
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