Before we discussed what men want to get in women, but after all, feelings are mutual, relationships are also an investment, and if you want to get it, you must first satisfy each other before you can do what you want, so today we will analyze from a woman's position to see what women want from men.
Women want to get attention and compliments from men
The biggest problem between lovers and couples is that they have been in contact for a long time, under visual fatigue, the lover is not so attractive, sometimes men are indeed careless, but sometimes they really can't look at each other, and then they get along plainly and even communicate with low emotional intelligence.
Teacher Ye, played by Wu Junmei in "Peach Blossom Luck", her husband cheated on Xiao San outside, and after the divorce, she took her son alone, but she was still instructed and ridiculed by her husband every three or five minutes, so her temper became more and more grumpy, and the flame of anger could be said to be a little bit.
As an intellectual, the evil in human nature is all stimulated by the scum husband, the triviality of life is a chicken feather trouble, but Ge You played the liar Wang Mang, his appearance changed the hopelessness of women's lives, although the man is not proud, but when the woman needs him, he is gentle and thoughtful around, and fully accepts her, guards her, gives the woman romance to give her gentleness, the most impressive thing for women is that he is good to his son, has a small agreement with his son, takes his son to play football, goes to the playground, Even my son proudly announced to others that he was my father.
Women who are caught up in feelings are the most likely to be stupid, where in this world there is unconditional care and love. It's not that this woman lacks basic intelligence, but that she lacks warmth and care too much, so she prefers to sink in the long-lost warmth, so her last response to her ex-husband's crisis reminder is "I'd rather be an idiot".
Women also paid a tragic price in the end, pregnant with the child of the liar, whether from the burden of life, or the pressure of public opinion, the future days will be unimaginable. Life hurt her to the skin, the biggest reason is because she met a scumbag husband, did not get the praise and attention she deserved, and would occasionally carry out sarcasm and endless ridicule, so the appearance of a lie man, even if there are many doubts, will make women have no remorse.
Women need the respect and patience of a man to accompany them
Also one of the heroines of "Peach Blossom Luck", The high sister played by Yuan Qiu is over 50 years old, she is the yellow-faced woman in the eyes of her husband, no longer cherished, full of disgust, so this woman simply kicked the man out of bed and chose to divorce.
She will not be bent on perfection, nor will she be arrogant, and she will live a single life with domineering spirit. Even if she is a strong woman, she bears the pain of life, and the liar Zhang Su, played by Liu Tao, can capture the hearts of women, not because of the high level of deception, but because he really meets the needs of women.
A shrewd and capable woman will not fail to see that Guo Tao is a liar, but behind the seeming self-deception, in fact, she has a new improvement in her inner realm, she accepts the real cruel world, and he is the only woman in the whole play who can clearly understand what she wants.
She was carefully accompanied by Guo Tao, hospitalized during the operation, waiting inseparably, and when faced with major surgery, Guo Tao's sentence "Don't be afraid, there is me" and then signed. After the operation, another mouthful of porridge and a mouthful of dishes were sent to her mouth, she was worried about drinking porridge phlegm, the man was not at all suspicious, still the sentence "There is nothing to do with me." The woman went to the toilet, embarrassed that he went, comforted that it was okay, there was no embarrassment, and naturally like an old husband and wife undisguisedly warm.
The hair is white, the man gently uses a thin finger wooden comb to help her dye her hair, even if the cheater boyfriend is surrounded by a group of victim women, she is still like a mother to protect her son, and finally she was caught in the police car, and the man turned back in the car and said, Old baby I love you.
Being able to get along in this way may be the scene that women most hope for, all of which are said that women are greedy for money and love money, in fact, compared to the actual material, women want to get more respect and patient companionship from men, that kind of carefulness, that delicacy is something that money cannot replace. What you want to hear most is not necessarily the affectionate dialogue that I love you, but the promise of "don't be afraid, I am here" no matter what happens.
Therefore, many men will be very dissatisfied and say "accompany, I accompany every day, but I am not satisfied, what can I do" communication has effective communication and ineffective communication, the same is true for companionship, women are still dissatisfied and unhappy, just because the accompaniment is only you in, there is no substantive value and role at all.
The sense of security that men give
When it comes to security, most people may only think of "money", not to deny, the economy will indeed make people's lives more solid, but the sense of security that men really give is not simply the material level, but also the feeling of inner steadfastness and reliability.
The sense of security comes from self-discipline, there are living habits, self-motivated, there are people who get along with friends, there is also a measure of contact with the opposite sex, the sense of security comes from trust, and the real trust comes from the self-discipline of the parties, not simply by forced moral kidnapping, the other party must trust.
The favor and respect that a man gives to a woman will bring a sense of security to the woman, because she knows that no matter what time, in the face of anything, the lover will always be partial to himself. Men's self-motivated efforts are to give women a sense of security, and perhaps the future days may not be rich, but the attitude makes women at least feel that you have the heart and consciousness to work hard.
The same sense of security also comes from the responsibility that you are in when women need men, but the key is whether the value of "in" can play a certain role for women, enlighten and comfort, or directly solve the responsibility for it.
In the world in a woman's eyes, it is really not just about looking at money, not even looking at your appearance, not even looking at your character, she only looks at whether you can provide yourself with these substantial guarantees and warmth, the needs are met, even if the man is ugly or very poor, or even a liar, she will insist on giving herself all.