Many people complain that their wives are not tidy enough and that their homes are cluttered and distressed. However, my situation is quite the opposite. My wife is an extremely neat person, and she has almost strict requirements for the cleanliness of the home environment. Unfortunately, this also led me to some challenges.
Her obsession with neatness is almost to the point of obsessive-compulsive disorder. As soon as there is a mess in the house, she will immediately notice and point it out. Even if I had the slightest negligence at home, such as forgetting to put things in their places, she would nag non-stop.
Take a look at my coffee table, everything in the house must be arranged clearly and neatly like this, and I am tired!
The bedding has to be folded into tofu blocks every day, and people with obsessive-compulsive disorder and sloppy people don't think I can understand it, it's not good if it's too extreme!
There are a lot of such storage boxes at home, and every thing has to be sorted and cleaned up by wife!
Whose bathroom is neatly arranged in mine? Brush your teeth, your wife has to nag for a long time if the toothpaste is not put away, I'm really fed up!
Let's talk about the other extreme in the family! Look at those drawers, do you feel an inexplicable depression and despair?
Frankly, I sometimes wonder if my wife could be a little "sloppy" and the house is naturally messy and casual. After all, the meaning of home is its comfort and warmth, not meticulous neatness. However, her ultimate pursuit of cleanliness in the home often makes me feel that the home lacks the ease and ease it should have.
I know that this is her unique understanding and dedication to home, but I also hope that we can find a balance that makes the home both neat and orderly, and full of life and warmth.