Author: Wang Hongliang
Xiao Xu's personal situation
At first, Xiao Xu, who was excellent in character and learning, successfully applied for a job in the provincial capital through direct recruitment from schools and enterprises.
Five years later, because of the needs of his work, he was selected by the unit to serve as a middle-level cadre in other provinces. Xiao Xu knew that he was so young, the unit would reuse him, and the leader valued him very much.
For this reason, Xiao Xu called the unit good, long live the leader, and created such opportunities and conditions for him, he was excited for a long time.
In those years, when Xiao Xu was working in the provincial capital, although he was far away from home, he did not go out of the province, and he was still within the provincial capital, and it was convenient to run back and forth home, and his parents did not have much opinion. To be honest, it was acceptable at the time.
One day, Xiao Xu informed his parents of the idea and practice of going to other provinces.
When his father, Jun Yi, heard this, he didn't say anything more, just let out a long sigh.
After hearing this, Junmin looked at Xiao Xu carefully, and said worriedly: "Child, if you have been working in the provincial capital, it should not be a problem to fall in love and marry a daughter-in-law in the future, and your father and mother don't have to worry." So now if you go to work in another province and are so far away from home, which girl is willing to work and live in other provinces with you? I'm so worried about your wife, your family, and your children! Moreover, the ratio of young men to women is so imbalanced. There are more men, but fewer women! You are not young, you should be sensible, some things, not only for yourself, but also for your parents, Mom, do you understand? ”
Xiao Xu made up his mind and said: "Dad, Mom, I'm still young, and the marriage can be put aside for the time being, and the career should be the priority." Right now, there's such an opportunity, and I don't want to lose it. As the saying goes: people go to high places, and water flows to low places. Who doesn't want to get ahead? Especially young people like us! I decided I wanted to go out and have a try. ”
In this way, Xiao Xu said goodbye to his parents, who were not too old, was promoted to the next level, and went to other provinces to be a middle-level cadre of the enterprise and do some specific management work.
Time flies too fast, and in the blink of an eye, two years have passed. Xiao Xu is twenty-nine years old, and he is still alone, with no girlfriend, no wife, let alone children.
It was sad for his father and mother.
As a father, Junyi is clumsy, and he can't say a premonition and advice to educate his son, so he can only sigh in front of his son.
Junmin said sadly in front of Xiao Xu: "Son, there are many descendants in our village who are about the same age as you, how old are their sons, my eyes are hot!" And you don't have a son, you haven't even brought me a girlfriend back, what can I do? ”
Junyi echoed and said the same.
Xiao Xu said unhurriedly: "Marriage is a big event, I can't be in a hurry, and I can't be worried." When the time is ripe, it is very simple, it can't be stopped, it can be said that it is a matter of course, if the time is not ripe, it is useless to be anxious, it is useless to worry, it is useless to say anything or do anything. ”
When Junmin and Junyi heard these words, they understood what their son meant, frowned, looked at each other, and sighed in unison.
Two years later, Xiao Xu is thirty-one years old, still alone, with no wife, no family, and no children.
At this moment, Junmin and Junyi were completely anxious. These two mobilized all their relatives and friends, none of them were left behind, and all of them went out to help Xiao Xu Zhang Luo.
However, the ideal is beautiful, and the reality is cruel.
Relatives and friends Zhang Luo introduced his girlfriend to Xiao Xu, and the woman only had to ask, what did Xiao Xu do? Where to work? Without exception, they "retreated". The reason is very simple, Xiao Xu works in other provinces, and it is too far away from home, so it is inconvenient to run back and forth. The woman was reluctant to leave her parents, so she followed Xiaoxu to work and live in other provinces.
Since then, Xiao Xu's marriage has been shelved and stranded, without any progress. This has almost become a piece of Junmin and Junyi's heart, and they can't let go of it.
During that time, Xiao Xu didn't say anything, and he was secretly anxious in his heart.
After all, he must be in his thirties, and he should really consider it for his marriage, and he can't just put it on hold forever, and he will not marry a daughter-in-law, build a family, or have children for the rest of his life.
Peak loop turn
As the saying goes: there is nowhere to find the iron shoes, and it takes no effort to get them.
Xiao Xu is right, about love and marriage, if the time is ripe, it is not so complicated, it is very simple, it is really a matter of course, if the time is not ripe, how to say and do it is in vain, it is all blind work.
One morning, Xiao Xu's second aunt, Junli, took the initiative to come to the door to say goodbye.
She found Junyi and Junmin, and said quickly: "Brother, sister-in-law, Xiaoli, the daughter of the Caihuan family in my village, is twenty-eight years old this year, she looks very good, very beautiful, she is three years younger than Xiaoxu, and she is still waiting to be married. Sister-in-law, I'll send Xiaoli's photo to your WeChat first, you take a look, if you are satisfied, you forward it to Xiaoxu and let him decide. Oh, by the way, you also sent me Xiaoxu's photo, and I forwarded it to Caihuan and Xiaoli. ”
Junmin was overjoyed and said, "Medium, girl, why don't you win!" You send me Xiaoli's photo first, and I'll send it to Xiaoxu after I check it. Later, I'll send you Xiao Xu's photo, and you can forward it. I dare to say that our Xiaoxu's appearance can't go on a blind date. Thank you, girl! ”
Junli smiled and said, "Sister-in-law, that's it, I agree with what you said."
Junli said with a smile while sending Junmin's photo of Xiaoli: "Brother, sister-in-law, there is one thing I have to make clear, in my village, as we all know, Caihuan has a hot temper, a little vicious, likes to beat people, is not easy to get along with people, and her prestige is not very high." Because of these, Xiaoli did not marry at the best age. I tell you what I mean in advance, and I hope you will be prepared and prepared. When the time comes, there will be countermeasures. ”
Junyi smiled and said: "Sister, I think that we are marrying a daughter-in-law, she is sending her daughter-in-law, as long as her daughter-in-law looks good and has a good character, as for her mother, it doesn't matter that much." Am I right? ”
Junmin said the same.
Junli said, "That's right, that's good."
Junmin has seen Xiaoli's photos and feels satisfied. After that, he called Xiao Xu, explained Junli's proposal, and sent Xiao Li's photo to Xiao Xu's mobile phone WeChat.
Xiao Xu is also very satisfied with Xiaoli's appearance. So, I agreed to meet Xiaoli.
When Xiao Xu returned home, Junmin said to his son: "Xiao Xu, your aunt said that Xiao Li's mother is a bit vicious, likes to beat people, is not easy to get along with people, and has low prestige in her village. You tell us to be prepared and take precautions, and if necessary, take some countermeasures and measures. ”
Xiao Xu said: "We are marrying a daughter-in-law, not marrying her mother, we don't care whether her mother is good or bad."
Later, after Xiao Xu and Xiao Li met, both parties were satisfied.
So, under the continuous matchmaking of the matchmaker, the two young people soon got married.
Got a slap in the face
A year later, Xiaoli and Xiaoxu's marriage blossomed, and Xiaoli gave birth to a son.
As we all know, the countryside is not as good as the city, and most residents in the city have more free time. Rural people can't do it, especially during the busy farming season, so to speak, men, women and children can use it, and they can do farm work.
One autumn, during the busy farming season, people in the countryside were breaking corn, Junyi's family was in the countryside, planting corn, and the old couple was also breaking corn. Because Xiao Xu was working in other places, he did not participate in farm work.
At this time, Xiaoli's son, Hanghang, who was more than a year old, was sick and crying all day long, and Xiaoli felt very annoyed.
So, Xiaoli and Junmin had an argument about taking care of Hanghang.
Xiaoli said: "Although this child was born to me, his grandparents also have the responsibility and obligation to take care of the child, don't other families do this?" Why is the son I gave birth to always on me? Why am I so miserable! ”
Junmin said: "Everyone knows that we agreed in advance, the two of us will go to the field to do farm work, Xiaoli will not do farm work, and take care of the children at home full-time." Now she wants to push the child to me, how can this work! As we all know, doing farm work is very tiring, we have to go home to cook after a day's work, why do we have to take care of the children! I'm not suffering a big loss! ”
In the following days, the dispute between Xiaoli and Junmin intensified over trivial matters such as farm work, childcare, and cooking.
As the saying goes: A daughter is a mother's little padded jacket! A lot of daughter's confidant words, there is nothing that cannot be said to the mother.
Xiaoli told her mother-in-law about this one by one-Caihuan.
After hearing this, Caihuan was angry, pointed at Xiaoli's nose, and said viciously: "Now you call Xiaoxu and ask him to come back as soon as possible to deal with this matter." You guys are awkward at home, he is hiding in other provinces, how can there be such a beautiful thing? He has to be responsible! In addition, we have to make it clear to our faces, otherwise, this matter will be endless. ”
So, Xiaoli called Xiaoxu in front of Caihuan. Xiao Xu told Xiao Li the time to return home. The color ring is remembered in my heart.
The color ring has been implemented clearly, and Xiao Xu has arrived home. She came to Junyi's house in a rage and gave Xiao Xu a resounding slap in front of Junmin's whole family. said in his mouth: "Xiao Xu, you are also a five-foot man, you can't even handle this bit of housework, what kind of man are you." At the beginning, I mistakenly married my daughter to you, I was really blind, dizzy, and my conscience was broken! ”
This time, it was lively.
Xiao Xu covered his face and said loudly: "Isn't this being dealt with, you have to give me some time!"
Seeing his son being beaten, Junmin was completely furious, and without saying a word, he directly rushed forward and tore with Caihuan.
Junmin is big, Caihuan is short, Caihuan can't beat Junmin, Caihuan suffers.
Junyi hugged his grandson and said: "Caihuan, you run to my house, in front of my old couple, beat my son, my son, I am still reluctant to fight, you fight!" You're a mother-in-law, it's so unbelievable, Junmin beats her! ”
At this time, Xiaoli saw Caihuan being beaten and wanted to step forward to join the fight, but was hugged by Xiaoxu and couldn't move. Xiaoli yelled and shouted insults, Xiao Xu didn't care about this, just hugged her and didn't let her move.
Next, Junmin dragged Caihuan to the street to reason, and several rural women went into battle and beat Caihuan firmly. The colored ring ran away in gray.
Subsequently, Xiaoli left her son and went to her parents' house crying.
…………
In this matter, Junli played a great role.
One night, Junli came forward to make peace, invited Junyi's family to participate, and Caihuan's family participated, and arranged a large table of wine and food in the best restaurant in town. Tell each other thoroughly, so that Xiaoli and Xiaoxu will not divorce. These people put aside their old grievances, get back together, and continue to live.
The next morning, Junyi and his family reported their kindness and went to Junli's house, first, to thank her for making peace, and to promote peace with all their might, without causing Xiaoli and Xiaoxu to divorce; The second is to repay the 1,000 yuan she spent on entertaining. In addition, Junyi and Junmin specially gave Junli 200 yuan as Junli's worry and errand expenses, and Junli said that she didn't want anything.
This matter has finally been successfully drawn.
The work was completed on May 17, 2024