Recently, the "fat head and big ears" incident that has caused a lot of uproar on the Internet has finally had a follow-up. This was originally just a small friction, but I didn't expect it to be so big. Speaking of which, it was a female clerk in a restaurant who quarreled with the takeaway brother because of the speed of the meal, and finally started to move. If this matter is left in normal times, it is estimated that everyone will laugh and laugh, but who would have thought that someone recorded the whole process and put it on the Internet, and the result was out of control.
The incident happened in front of a hotel in Guangzhou, Guangdong. That day, the takeaway guy was waiting to pick up the food, probably thinking that he had been waiting a little long, so he complained a few words. When the female clerk of the hotel heard this, she probably didn't feel very comfortable, so she replied a few words. At the beginning, the two were yelling at each other, and the voices were getting louder and louder, but there was no substantive conflict yet. But later, the takeaway brother probably felt that the female clerk had a bad attitude, so he casually said, "I have never seen you with such a fat head and big ears." As soon as these words came out, the female clerk became angry and rushed over directly to hit the takeaway brother.
As soon as this video was posted on the Internet, it immediately exploded. Everyone accused the female clerk of going too far, how could she beat someone? Some people think that although the takeaway brother doesn't speak very well, he won't be beaten. However, some people feel that the takeaway brother's words are indeed a bit hurtful, which may have stimulated the female clerk. In short, there are all kinds of voices on the Internet, and they are very noisy.
After this incident became a big problem, the hotel also paid attention to it. They felt that the impact was too bad and that they had to deal with it quickly. As a result, the female clerk involved was suspended and apologized to the takeaway brother. This attitude is quite sincere, at least it shows that they want to solve the problem.
However, this is not the end of the matter. Those netizens on the Internet, but they can say anything. Some people think that female clerks bully people just because they are clerks, which is too bad; Some people also think that the takeaway brother is not a good person, and he deserves to be beaten when he speaks so badly. In short, there are all kinds of voices on the Internet, and there is a lot of noise.
But then again, it's actually a misunderstanding. The takeaway brother may have been in a hurry to wait, and he spoke in a hurry; The female clerk may also feel offended and did so. At the end of the day, it's all emotionally responsible. If everyone had calmed down at that time, this matter would not have been so big.
This is also a wake-up call for us. In our society, everyone is busy with life. Sometimes, it's inevitable that it's a little emotional. But ah, we have to learn to control our emotions, and we can't do anything out of the ordinary on impulse. Otherwise, you will be the one who suffers in the end.
Let's talk about the Internet. Now that the Internet is so developed, everything can be found on the Internet. But online public opinion is a double-edged sword. On the one hand, it allows us to understand the truth of the matter more quickly; But on the other hand, it can also make things more complicated and difficult to deal with. So, when we speak online, we have to take it easy and don't say anything. Otherwise, it's too late to regret it.
In the end, I would say yes, respect is mutual. No matter what kind of work we do, we have to respect the profession and personality of others. Just like the takeaway brother and the female clerk in this incident, although there are contradictions between them, they can't be denied their profession and personality because of this. We have to learn to empathize and understand the difficulties and hardships of others. Only in this way can our society be more harmonious and better!
Actually, it's pretty simple to say. It's just that the two of them quarreled a few words because of a little thing, and finally started to move. But because it's put on the Internet, it's a lot more complicated. Those people on the Internet can say anything, and some of them are very ugly. But we have to understand that although the Internet is a free place, it is not something that can be said nonsense. We have to be responsible for our words and deeds, and we can't just hurt others.
Let's talk about this restaurant and the takeaway guy. Actually, it's not easy for them. The restaurant has to be busy cooking and entertaining guests; As for the takeaway brother, he has to be busy taking orders and delivering food. They are all working hard for a living. Therefore, we must also respect their work and understand their difficulties. You can't attack and abuse them because they have a little mistake or a little contradiction.
Finally, what I want to say is, we have to learn to be tolerant and understanding. In this world, no one is perfect. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. We have to learn to look at others with a tolerant heart and understand their difficulties and sufferings. Only in this way can our society be more harmonious and better!
So, although the "fat head and big ears" incident has passed, we still have to learn a lesson from it. Respecting others, controlling emotions, speaking rationally, and being tolerant and understanding are all things we should learn. Only in this way can we gain a foothold in this complex and ever-changing society!