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Shen Zhiyi
Edited by Shen Zhiyi
Preamble:
Have you ever heard of a story that has been going on for 25 years?
A story that interprets the true meaning of love?
An anecdote about sincerity and generosity?
is about an actor marrying an ordinary woman, supporting each other, working hand in hand, and writing a brilliant chapter in his life together.
Let's walk into this touching love legend together to appreciate a long-lasting friendship.
"Poor students" who don't learn and don't know how to do it
"Little friend, don't learn from him!" In the eyes of his friends, He Bing seems to be a complete "poor student": his reading grades are always failing, and his behavior is troublesome.
But who would have thought that this "poor student" who broke his parents' hearts would have such an extraordinary life course.
In 1968, He Bing was born in an ordinary family in Beijing.
His parents had high expectations for him and demanded 100% of his academic performance, otherwise he would inevitably be severely punished.
In order to escape the punishment of his parents, He Bing played a clever trick and changed the score on his own.
In desperation, his parents gave up on his education and pinned all their hopes on his younger brother.
Under the strict discipline of his parents, He Bing did not feel guilty, but developed a self-stubbornness.
"How bad can it be? At most, he was beaten. "
This personality trait grew up with him and became the internal motivation for him to pursue his dreams without giving up.
Meet the confidant "Xueba" at the same table
After entering junior high school, He Bing discovered his true interest - movies.
In order to be admitted to the Beijing Film Academy, he worked hard to study his homework, and was fortunate to be arranged to be at the same table with Li Haiyang, the class flower and the top student.
Under the influence of Li Haiyang, they gradually became friends who talked about everything.
"You're so smart, it must be great to be an actor!" In the face of He Bing's artistic dream, Li Haiyang gave enthusiastic encouragement and became a great support in his heart.
However, the parting of the ways in life forced the two to separate first.
However, in the years when he needed sustenance the most, Li Haiyang's warm words were like a beacon, which strengthened He Bing's determination to embark on the road of his dreams.
The "bleak" years of running tricks
After graduating from university, He Bing was assigned to work in human arts and started his drama career.
But there are many talents here, and he can only do the most basic work in front of and behind the stage.
In order to earn more money to live, he set his sights on the film and television industry, but the chance of even a line was extremely slim.
During those days, He Bing summed up "bleak" in only two words.
But he didn't give up, and made studying performance the whole meaning of life.
A classic play "Birdman" with only 7 minutes of lines made him a sensation and was praised for "acting very well".
Since then, Yingda has also been fascinated by it and invited him to participate in "I Love My Home" and "Romance of the Three Kingdoms".
In this way, He Bing began to work hard in the film and television industry step by step.
In the midst of life's difficulties, Li Haiyang's words became his biggest support.
The reunion of fate with the white daughter-in-law
One day in 1997, when 29-year-old He Bing was anxious, Li Haiyang, a junior high school tablemate, suddenly contacted him and agreed to meet.
After a few reminiscences, Li Haiyang was in front of He Bing, and the second monk said confusedly: "I'll marry you, do you think it's okay?"
For a while, He Bing woke up like a big dream in life.
The sweetheart who used to get along day and night now took the initiative to marry him! This is simply a gift of fate, a "miracle" that makes him secretly rejoice.
A year later, Li Haiyang returned to China as promised and formed a good relationship with He Bing.
didn't ask for a bride price, didn't ask for a wedding room, and only used the salary he earned every year as the common belongings of the two.
In this regard, He Bing sincerely admired: "I have found a treasure!"
The "head of the family" who is strict with his wife
After getting married, Li Haiyang found another career on his own, and the two worked hard for the future together.
With the rise of his career, He Bing gradually became famous on the screen.
In order to express his gratitude to his wife, he was willing to become a member of the "strict wife's control" and handed over the power of the family to Li Haiyang.
At home, He Bing is often squeezed by his wife and children.
But he didn't care at all, believing that "a man should be disciplined by his wife."
In order to prevent his son from suffering from what happened to him as a teenager, he was also extremely laissez-faire in his son's education.
When Li Haiyang was worried about this, he laughed: "It's not bad, are you still there!"
The husband's unscrupulousness made the wife very uncomfortable, but after thinking about it, this is also the sincerity of their 25 years of friendship.
At home, she is in charge of everything; In his career, he tirelessly pursued his dreams.
For each other, it is precisely the continuation of the light of each other's lives.
From the trick to the pinnacle of acting
In 2005, He Bing starred in the TV series "Da Song Ti Criminal Officer", which became a blockbuster.
This is the best interpretation of his perseverance in playing tricks for decades, from stage to film and television.
By playing this old-fashioned and upright iron-faced selfless role, He Bing finally became a well-known "drama bone".
But even he himself never expected to receive this honor.
Once upon a time, he was just a trotter and was not taken seriously by the director.
But his obsession and dedication to acting have been exchanged for wonderful classic character creations.
The witty words of the low-level scholars in "Sesame Hutong" explain the situation.
the authentic and expressive Beijing performance in "Love in the Courtyard"; The powerful image of the new peasant in "White Deer Plain" ......
It is these outstanding character interpretations that have made He Bing step by step to the peak of his acting skills, and has won praise from countless fans and industry insiders.
Since then, he is no longer the clown who was snubbed by the older generation, but a real drama king.
Joy and joy in ordinary life
In the company of Li Haiyang and his children, home is He Bing's greatest sustenance.
Although his wife and children always use him as a "target", he is not annoyed at all, but enjoys himself.
For He Bing, this is the most unrestrained attitude to life, and it is also a kind of family sustenance that he has lacked since childhood.
"Where is this called discipline, it's obviously being tricked by you!" Whenever his wife laughed at him for doting on his son too much, He Bing just squinted and smirked.
From accepting his fate and being looked down upon by his family, to being disgusted and friendly by his children, He Bing gradually found the true meaning of life: in the most ordinary daily life, he can understand the happiest fun.
He used to be a scholar, and he was full of resentment when he was not satisfied; Now he has finally learned to "let go".
At home, even if he was questioned by his wife and children, he just pretended to be angry, and finally showed a soft smile.
To outsiders, it seems like an ordinary scene, but for him, fun is accumulated in the smallest interactions.
Epilogue:
In this way, from a "bad student" who does not learn and has no skills, to a "trickster" who is ridiculed by his classmates, and then to a "superstar" who has reached the peak of his career, He Bing has always had a virtuous and wise wife by his side silently supporting him along the way.
Because of this loving and romantic story, He Bing deeply realized that life is not achieved overnight, but by time little by little precipitation and sublimation.
As long as you insist on love and never give up self-pursuit, you will eventually usher in the peak of your own life.
In this extraordinary course of life, the most precious thing is not fame and fortune, but understanding and tolerance.
It was Li Haiyang's understanding and love for He Bing that allowed him to display himself in his career and life, and finally truly became himself.
And this is also the core of their 25 years of love.