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"How stupid was I to expect him to take on the responsibilities of a father! Look at what he is doing now, for twenty-six years he has never fulfilled the slightest duty to take care of Batuu, and now he wants to pretend to be a loving grandfather?
Song Dandan said indignantly, his tone full of contempt and ridicule for Yingda.
Impressively, Yingda's courteous and knowledgeable temperament made Song Dandan fall in love with him, and deeply recognized him as an elegant gentleman who was both charming and trustworthy.
In this way, they gradually deepened their understanding and appreciation of each other in the backstage of the crew, and a romantic love song full of sweetness slowly played.
The following year, Song Dandan made a hot debut and brought a lovely son to Yingda, named Batu.
After the marriage, the days were warm and harmonious, until 1989, a earth-shaking change quietly came.
With the wonderful performance of the sketch "Blind Date for a Lazy Man", Song Dandan became famous overnight, his career was booming, and his reputation quickly climbed to the peak.
She frequently appeared at various rehearsals and events, and became the center of attention.
Indah was initially proud of his wife's success, but as time went on, his mindset gradually shifted to jealousy and insecurity.
When people directly called him "Song Dandan's husband", his strong sense of identity and status was almost unbearable.
He began to watch his wife's brilliant achievements at home, filled with anger and anguish in his heart.
Song Dandan's honor and income continued to increase, and Yingda's inferiority complex and jealousy grew in the bottom of her heart, and finally fell into a situation from which she could not extricate herself.
As a man, he longs to be able to move forward and hold up a piece of the sky for his family. However, the reality is that his wife's brilliance overshadows him, which makes Inda feel frustrated and ashamed.
A family drama "I Love My Home" in 1995 became a breakthrough for Yingda to release this complex emotion. He personally wrote, directed and starred in the play, which became an instant hit and attracted much attention.
However, during this period, he had an affair with Liang Huan, the sister of the screenwriter Liang Zuo.
Liang Huan is gentle, obedient, and considerate, giving Yingda dignity and self-confidence as a husband and as a man. In contrast, Yingda always felt heavy pressure and frustration when she got along with Song Dandan.
So, under the temptation of his career and the instigation of his new love, Yingda finally chose to betray his marriage.
Although Song Dandan once questioned whether Yingda really went out of the wall and tried to save the marriage, Yingda has turned a blind eye to it and flatly denied all the accusations.
Although Song Dandan's marriage with Yingda has been shattered, as a father, Yingda should go all out to take care of his blood relatives.
It is a pity that in the long years after the divorce, he ruthlessly threw this deep family affection out of the clouds, and his indifferent attitude towards his son Batu is really worrying! .
Batu grew up in an environment where father's love was scarce since he was a child, and deep down in his heart, he always longed for some normal parent-child interaction with his father Yingda.
However, Yingda turned a blind eye to this, and did not care about the most basic needs of children.
Do you remember when Batu was seven years old? At that time, he always asked Indah with great anticipation, hoping that his father would accompany him to go out and let him experience the long-lost time of father-son happiness.
However, Indah turned a deaf ear to her son's desires and never fulfilled his.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, Batu has grown to eleven years old. He longs for more communication with Yingda and shares his inner joys, sorrows, and sorrows. He often waited anxiously with the phone in his hand, lest his father forget his duty again.
However, the phone on the other end of the line was always just a cold busy tone.
The most heartbreaking thing for Batu was when he was thirteen years old. That year, Indah's father, Batu's grandfather, died. As an only son, Yingda should have immediately informed Batu of the bad news and asked him to do his last filial duty for his grandfather.
However, Indah chose to keep the news tightly until Batu accidentally learned about it outside, and found her father in grief and begged to see her grandfather off.
However, in the face of her son's tearful plea, Yingda was still hard-hearted and turned him away with cold and ruthless words: "Since you are divorced, then please don't bother me again." ”
This undoubtedly brought a heavy blow and damage to Batu. As a father, you should always stand behind your children and give them moral support and nourishment.
However, Yingda never fulfilled this duty, and always turned a blind eye to Batu's desires, which can be called a complete dereliction of kinship!
However, an even more brutal blow followed. In an exclusive interview, Yingda openly made such an astonishing statement: "Although Batu is my eldest son, his surname 'Ying' is quite sometimes worth thinking about"!
Ever since she heard such words, Song Dandan felt incredulous. For a loving mother, it is unacceptable that her husband wants to deprive their biological son of the most basic right to a name! In extreme anger, Song Dandan angrily accused: "Of course, a man can divorce, remarry, and love his current wife and children.
However, this does not mean that they can arbitrarily deprive their own sons of the right to the family name!".
Now, 26 years later, Batu is still deeply hurt by Yingdah's actions. As a father, he should have taken care of and loved his children wholeheartedly, but he chose to turn his back on this responsibility altogether.
Indah's indifferent attitude towards Batu will undoubtedly become a regret that can never be erased in his life.
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What is shocking is that while completely giving up his father's love for his eldest son Batu, Yingda poured all his doting and love into his youngest son Ying Rudi, ruthlessly revealing the huge difference in treatment between the two children with practical actions.
Ying Rudi was born in the marriage between Yingda and her new love Liang Huan. Since the day he was born, he has been loved and cared for by Yingda like never before.
Yingda once solemnly promised to become a "four-dimensional father", do his best to provide his son with everything he needs in life, take on a variety of roles such as driver, nanny, chef and coach, and is committed to creating a happy and happy growth environment for his son.
At the age of three, Ying Rudi was sent to a high-priced piano training class, and Yingda was even more extravagant, spending hundreds of thousands of yuan to buy a top-notch piano, just to satisfy his son's trivial interests.
As Ying Rudi gradually grew up, Yingda found that his son had a strong interest in ice hockey, so he did not hesitate to hire the top ice hockey coach, pay up to tens of thousands of yuan per week for his son's personal training fees, and bear the cost of advanced ice hockey equipment worth more than 100,000 yuan.
Even when Ying Rudi was eager to go abroad for further study, Yingda also donated generously, spending more than 5 million yuan to buy a luxury home for him in the United States, and built a private ice hockey arena at home, just so that his son could devote himself more to training.
In a striking interview, Yingda unabashedly advocated that she wanted to be a "quadruple father", consistently accompanying and caring for her children wholeheartedly.
Even more astonishingly, he proclaimed: "If I were lucky enough to set foot in outer space, I would take three precious things with me: a CD of Mozart's classical music, an inspiring book, and my beloved little son."
There is no doubt that for Ying Rudi, the youngest son, Yingda can be said to go all out and give everything. He regarded his son as the jewel in his palm, his pride and all his hope.
However, in strong contrast, when treating his eldest son Batu, Yingda never showed even the slightest love and affection.
Faced with the fact that two biological flesh and blood who were connected by blood were treated like a world apart, Yingda's behavior was really angry.
As a father, you should love each of your children equally, instead of pouring all your love into one child and completely abandoning the other.
Yingda's ruthless and discriminatory treatment of his children will undoubtedly become the biggest regret and flaw in his life journey.