His late wife, Liu Xiaoqing, was Chen Guojun's most ardent lover! Whenever her name was mentioned, Chen Guojun's heroic eyes would always flicker with deep sorrow.
She used to be the most cherished lover in his life, and she was also the tenderness he will never forget.
Recalling the days of 1986, when Chen Guojun, who was over 30 years old, was devoting himself to the filming of the movie "Deep in the Heart", many of which had rival scenes with Liu Xiaoqing even stirred the emotional strings between each other.
At first, he was only impressed by the beautiful appearance of this prestigious national performance artist, however, as the plot progressed, Chen Guojun gradually fell into Liu Xiaoqing's feminine gesture and elegant charm in his gestures, unable to extricate himself.
Just as Liu Xiaoqing had just experienced the painful period of a failed marriage, Chen Guojun's meticulous care for her illuminated the haze in her heart like sunshine. In this way, the two unconsciously got closer and closer, bringing the emotions in the play into the stage of life.
Although Chen Guojun had entered the marriage hall and had children at that time, he still fell in love with Liu Xiaoqing without hesitation in the face of his wife Zhao Yamin's sorrow, in the face of the cry of his young son Chen He, and in the face of the admonition of his leading colleagues, Chen Guojun completely ignored it and resolutely chose to divorce Zhao Yamin, just to be able to express his heart to Liu Xiaoqing justifiably.
This decision caused him to encounter unprecedented difficulties in his career, and he was accused of being a "scumbag" by public opinion. However, the power of love makes Chen Guojun blind, and he is willing to give up everything for this fiery emotion.
In order to stay with Liu Xiaoqing, he was willing to pay all the costs This warm but short-lived love marriage has become an indelible memory in the lives of Chen Guojun and Liu Xiaoqing.
After the divorce, both seem to have been hit hard, and the once fiery love is now in vain, leaving them in an extremely difficult time. In order to regain their strength, Chen Guojun and Liu Xiaoqing jointly planned and filmed a film called "Ruthless Lover".
However, the filming process of this film can be described as a lot of painstaking work. Due to a lack of funds, the two had to take matters into their own hands and raise funds everywhere. In order to save costs, they only buy the cheapest hard-seat tickets during the trip, and even the theme song of the film is sung by them themselves.
After three years of hard work, "Ruthless Lover" finally shined in the film industry and achieved unprecedented success, which is undoubtedly the best testimony to the unwavering love between Chen Guojun and Liu Xiaoqing.
It was in the year that the film won the award that the high-profile wedding news came as promised, and countless people offered their sincere blessings. However, this short-lived joy lasted only two years before it was ruthlessly broken.
The "match made in heaven," which was once highly favored by everyone, has now turned against each other, and the relationship is as cold as falling into an ice cellar, which makes people sigh and wonder what is the reason for today's situation? Which is right and wrong between Chen Guojun and Liu Xiaoqing? To this day, this question is still unresolved and lingers in people's minds.
After the divorce, the conflict intensified, and the two did not hesitate to publish books that revealed the privacy of each other's lives, as if they were in the courtroom, and started a fierce confrontation. This beautiful marriage, which has aroused the envy and jealousy of countless people, ended in tragedy, which makes people sigh.
Brave and fearless youth
Tracing back to the origin, the reason why Chen Guojun pursued Liu Xiaoqing without hesitation was rooted in his fearless enthusiasm and innocence when he was young. In 1986, Chen Guojun, who was only 33 years old, was handsome and chic, with a good demeanor, and was in the most glorious stage of his life.
After meeting Liu Xiaoqing's delicate demeanor for the first time, Chen Guojun's heart suddenly ignited a raging fire, and he had a fiery love for this beautiful woman.
Although he has already entered the palace of marriage and has a happy family, the passion and temptation brought by Liu Xiaoqing are really difficult for him to resist. As an outspoken tough guy, Chen never tried to hide his emotions.
Faced with his wife Zhao Yamin's bitter pleading, he did not hesitate to express his true thoughts about divorce and made a decision quickly.
Zhao Yamin's tears rippled, and her young son cried even more, but Chen Guojun firmly believed in his heart that for sincere love, these costs were worth paying. When he was younger, he was too resolute and resolute to know how much damage such an act would cause to his family.
In the face of Chen Guojun's resolute attitude, the leaders and colleagues were also helpless. Their exhortation seemed to Chen Guojun like wind in his ears, but it strengthened his determination to "not die until the heart of the Yellow River".
For young people, passionate love is the most precious treasure, and everything else seems insignificant.
So, Chen Guojun, who was determined to marry Liu Xiaoqing, resolutely gave up the warmth and happiness of his original marriage and family, and galloped away towards that sincere emotion without hesitation.
The root of all this is due to the incomparably fiery and courageous passion and fighting spirit of his youth.
An "illegitimate" relationship that has been questioned by the surrounding environment
Although love can inspire people's infinite courage and strength, the controversial "illegitimate" love affair between Chen Guojun and Liu Xiaoqing still aroused strong doubts and opposition from the surrounding environment.
The first to stand up against it was the leadership of the unit in which Chen Guojun served. As a veteran who has experienced vicissitudes, it is naturally difficult for the leaders to understand Chen Guojun's impulsive decision.
They have made several appointments with Chen Guojun to try to make him think calmly and take the divorce matter seriously.
However, in every conversation, Chen Guojun chose to ignore it, and his attitude was vague and resolute.
In the face of this former highly anticipated actor gradually moving away from the right track, the leaders are full of endless regrets. What they are even more worried about is that once Chen Guojun's divorce is successful, he will inevitably encounter serious setbacks in his career and his future is worrying.
As expected, driven by the blindness of love, Chen Guojun's career suffered a heavy blow and was denounced as "scum" by many people.
As for his colleagues, they relentlessly accused Chen Guojun and even attacked him personally. They believe that Chen Guojun's passionate pursuit of other women when he has a wife and children is undoubtedly a violation of moral norms and cannot be punished.
The most painful is Chen Guojun's wife Zhao Yamin and his young son Chen He. Zhao Yamin is a virtuous and virtuous woman who has always been obedient and respectful to her husband.
When she learned the news of her husband's imminent divorce, she was so shocked that tears poured out like a spring, and she begged Chen Guojun to think twice. Chen He, on the other hand, cried out loud in confusion, begging his father not to leave him.
However, at that time, Chen Guojun had already been carried away by love, he turned a deaf ear to the grief of his family, turned a deaf ear to everyone's admonitions, and only thought about pursuing the woman he loved deeply.
The root of all this stems from the conservative values of the society at the time, as well as the special nature of their "illegitimate" relationship.
Looking back on Mr. Chen Guojun's professional journey, it is really impressive that he has gone through ups and downs. He started out as an ordinary soldier in the army, then switched to the film and television industry, and finally became famous and honored as a generation of well-known film masters.
With his unwavering perseverance and unremitting spirit, he wrote his own chapter of life in a down-to-earth and calm manner!
Mr. Chen Guojun was born in an ordinary military family, and since he was a child, he has cherished the lofty ideal of joining the army and defending the country like his father. At the age of 13, he was already as determined as a soldier and successfully stepped into the army and became a new recruit.
At that time, Chen Guojun was thin and weak, and his height was not outstanding, so it seemed difficult to make people unforgettable. However, his studious and unafraid of hardship, combined with the tenacity he cultivated in the military environment since childhood, allowed him to quickly rise to prominence and rise to the rank of Scout.
Just when Chen Guojun thought that he would spend his military career as plain as his father, fate opened another door to glory for him. One day, a director of a film and television company stumbled upon him and was deeply attracted by his handsome and chic, extraordinary appearance and temperament, so he did not hesitate to send him an invitation to the entertainment industry.
At first, Chen Guojun firmly rejected the offer. He was convinced that as a soldier, he should stick to his post until the last moment of his life. However, under the patient persuasion of his father, he reluctantly agreed to try his hand at drama acting first.
From the drama stage to the movie screen, Chen Guojun once again faced an important turning point in his life. His outstanding performance in his first starring film "Medicine" won warm applause from the audience, and he officially entered the film and television industry and became a hot new star in the film industry in one fell swoop.
After the initial success of his career, Chen Guojun decided to turn to behind-the-scenes work and become a director. His debut film, "The Ruthless Lover", which he wrote and directed, immediately became a national hit and was widely acclaimed.
Since then, Chen Guojun has successively directed many popular films such as "The Great Qing Artillery Team" and "Comfort Women 74th Detachment". It can be said that from an unknown soldier to an internationally renowned director, he has written a shocking life legend with his unremitting efforts.