There is no limit to life, from encounters to counterattacks
A girl struggling in the mire
When the name Tang Xiaoyan is mentioned, I believe many people will give a thumbs up and say in admiration: "This is really an amazing woman!"
Tang Xiaoyan was originally a rural girl through and through, born in a poor family in Dongning County, Heilongjiang. Since she was a child, she has had to help her family with farm work and housework, and her life is no different from other rural children.
However, one night when she was 17 years old, a sudden change shattered the girl's innocent inner world. An obscene man broke into her life and took her virginity in a despicable way...... Ahhhh
To be honest, it is a question of whether the girl who has been abused in this way can get back on her feet, let alone how she will face life and others in the future. Fortunately, Tang Xiaoyan is still a tenacious girl, and she was not completely crushed by this painful experience.
However, since then, she has never been able to regain her original innocence, and the wounds in her heart are like stingers, deeply rooted in the depths of her soul. In order to escape the haze of her hometown, she came to Beijing alone and started a career of wandering work.
The life of the bottom is constantly suffering
But fate did not open the net because of her courage, on the contrary, more tribulations awaited her.
Shortly after arriving in Beijing, one big night, Tang Xiaoyan was insulted again, forcibly pushed to the ground, and suffered the pain of rape again.
This time, this once innocent rural girl is completely desperate. Her heart is full of scars, and even her future marriage is in trouble because of this, and she can't regain the happiness she once had.
In order to survive, Tang Xiaoyan had to do some low-level work. At the age of 34, she opened a massage parlor in Zhuhai and began her so-called "bustard" career.
In the past few years, she has experienced many conflicts and disputes with criminals. Many times, she feared that she would be murdered or drawn into even dirtier hooks.
The weight of life almost completely crushed this woman, she was like a small grass swept mercilessly by a storm, struggling in the mud, but there was no point in living......
A turn of fate and a new lease of life
Although life was so cruel to Tang Xiaoyan, fate finally had a great fortune when she was 49 years old.
That year, Tang Xiaoyan met the famous director Mr. Xu Tong. At first, the two only met because they collaborated on a documentary, but gradually, Director Xu was attracted to this woman who had experienced ups and downs but was full of enthusiasm.
As a result, a relationship other than teachers, students, and friends brewed unconsciously. It was the appearance of this director that reinvigorated Tang Xiaoyan's enthusiasm for life.
In 2011, Tang Xiaoyan won the "Real Person Award" for her outstanding performance in the documentary. This gave her unprecedented confidence and made her realize that she deserved a decent life!
In this way, with more and more cooperation with director Xu Tong, Tang Xiaoyan left his past career as an "old bustard" and devoted himself to the film industry.
She is like an open-minded and studious student, trying to master various filmmaking skills, and Director Xu is like a strict but caring teacher, guiding her along the way. Gradually, the relationship between the two came together steadily.
Gain happiness and respect
In January 2023, the whole network is boiling! Tang Xiaoyan and Director Xu Tong tied the knot in this way and announced their marriage.
This woman, who has suffered all kinds of hardships in life, has finally found her home. Not only that, thanks to Director Xu's cultivation, Tang Xiaoyan has also grown up and has produced several film works that have been well received.
From a marginalized person to a respected filmmaker, Tang Xiaoyan has used her life to interpret a remarkable inspirational story. Even last year, she bravely overcame the test of tumor surgery, and now she is living a prosperous life and living a happy life.
Looking at Tang Xiaoyan now, it is difficult to associate her with the unbearable "old bustard" in the past. With her tenacity and courage, she went all the way through the desperate situations of life, and finally gained happiness and respect.
I have to say, this woman is really amazing! Her story shows us the tenacity of life and the courage to pursue happiness. Although the road is often rough, just like Tang Xiaoyan, as long as there is a dream in his heart, there will always be new hope.
Psychic wounds deep in the haze
Recalling that fateful night, Tang Xiaoyan still wakes up in a nightmare, and his heart palpitates.
At the age of 17, she was as immature as a budding rose, but the violent aggressor used brutal means to step her life into the mire. Her dignity was desecrated, her dreams were cut off, and even her innocent soul was almost completely ravaged....
As the years passed, the disgusting experience still smelled like blood and was etched in her mind. Sometimes, Tang Xiaoyan would even subconsciously pinch his neck with his hands, subconsciously trying to prevent those terrible memories from coming back again.
After many years of drifting north, she thought that she had long forgotten the nightmarish past, but she never expected fate to be so capricious. Late that night, when the figure of the strange man shrouded her again, Tang Xiaoyan only felt that the world had come to an abrupt end, and her heart was broken into tens of millions again.....
The shadow of rape is like the devil's minions, leaving too many scarred traces on Tang Xiaoyan's life path. Her marriage is also in trouble, she is only numb to sex and love, and her once frank and lively personality has become gloomy.
Self-redemption after indulgence
In this way, Tang Xiaoyan, who went astray step by step and became an "old bustard", had too many days of self-indulgence and depravity.
Those days and nights she was immersed in the quagmire of alcohol and strife between men and women. Sometimes, he was beaten up by people with bad intentions; Sometimes, he will personally beat the guy who does evil with brute force half to death.
This former country girl is almost integrated with the glitzy world of living at the bottom. She has seen too much of the dark side of society and the sinister nature of human nature, and she has also experienced first-hand the absurdity and injustice of this dirty world.
The weight of life almost crushed her completely, and she ran all the way, eventually losing herself and losing all hope and courage to struggle with the world.
If he hadn't met Director Xu Tong at the end, maybe Tang Xiaoyan would have become a truly hopeless "lonely ghost". It was Director Xu who used his wisdom and personality charm to rekindle this fire of life that was on the verge of extinguishing.
The resilient path to regain oneself
In the face of director Xu Tong's affinity and enlightenment, Tang Xiaoyan's tenacity in his heart was gradually reactivated.
After several years of systematic study, she finally mastered a lot of professional knowledge of film shooting, and gradually realized the joy of artistic creation. From a novice who only knows how to follow the example, to finally being able to take charge of himself and produce film and television works that have been well received, Tang Xiaoyan has used his own efforts to resolve the haze in his heart and find his long-lost self.
What's even more gratifying is that with her dedication to her career, Tang Xiaoyan has also reaped the most precious gift in her life - a beautiful marriage.
Director Xu Tong is not only her mentor, but also the person who warms her heart with love and understanding. In this way, two souls who knew each other came together and interpreted the meaning of "endless" with practical actions.
Who would have thought that this woman, who had been mired in the quagmire several times and was on the verge of no return, could finally regain her courage and strength and achieve such an extraordinary life legend?
There is no doubt that Tang Xiaoyan is definitely the bravest and most tenacious fighter. Her story tells us that no matter how badly fate strikes you, as long as you are alive, you will always have a chance to start over.
As long as you seize the fleeting turning point in your life and hold up a new world with your own hands, everyone can become the master of destiny and achieve an extraordinary life. Tang Xiaoyan is the best example.