"A bouquet of flowers is also enough, both for the deceased himself and his family, as well as for kind-hearted netizens.
Hello everyone, I'm Yepan.
Today is May 5th, and the May Day holiday has come to an end. was originally a happy and relaxed little long holiday, but because of a big hot search every day, it was too heavy.
The collapse of the Meida Expressway in Guangdong Province killed 48 people and injured 30 people.
The auditorium of Henan University was burned down.
The rockfall in the Hengshan Scenic Area in the northwest of the mountain led to one death and five injuries.
An acrobatic troupe performer in Xiamen fell, killing one and injuring two.
Chongqing's genius boy "Fat Cat" committed suicide by jumping into the river for love.
The above five pieces of news, one is more serious than the other, one is more distressing than the other, in just five days, dozens of families are separated forever, and how many wives are separated.
But in fact, is there a causal link between accidental deaths and hundreds of millions of people traveling together?
I do not know.
I only feel unworthy for the people who died, and at the same time, I am also sorry for the pure love warriors who died at the hands of Lao Nu.
So today, let's mainly talk about the recent "Chongqing Fat Cat Incident".
You can find the ins and outs of the matter on Douyin, and the approximate situation is: the boy is 21 years old in the national costume Mengqi, a professional substitute fighter, and the woman is 27 years old, and the boy has been pua The boy spends money on him.
The woman doesn't like long-distance relationships, so the man came to Chongqing to sleep in a dilapidated rental house and earned 510,000 yuan in two years.
Naturally, all this money was given to the fishing girl, who ate one meal a day, ordered ten yuan to fight for a good meal, and was often hungry from five to eleven o'clock because of unsuccessful fighting.
The woman took the money, and said that the boy played games every day and did not provide him with emotional value, and during the period, she kept drawing cakes for the man and said that he would get married on May Day this year.
And when it was almost May Day, the girl found various reasons to break up, and the boy had no money, no one left, so he jumped into the river and died.
Simply calculated, the boy is 21 years old this year, and he met his girlfriend 3 years ago, which means that he was only 18 years old at that time, and there is a high probability that he is still underage, at least mentally underage.
The fat cat's biggest wish before he died was that he didn't want to eat takeout anymore and wanted to eat KFC.
Yes, the genius boy in the game can earn 510,000 yuan in two years, but he can't afford to eat dozens of KFC for "love", this is the fat cat that was squeezed dry by the fishing girl.
After the fat cat died, netizens were embarrassed to learn the reason. While they lamented that there was still such a pure love god of war in such a world, they felt sorry for this young man who had never treated himself well in 21 years.
Local citizens have bought flowers to come to the riverside to pay respects, while netizens from other places have placed orders and delivered all kinds of takeaways, hoping that the fat cat who was reluctant to eat before his death can enjoy it behind him, so as to express his grief and send him on his last journey.
On May 3, when the fat cat's sister responded to netizens' questions about the fat cat incident in the live broadcast, she especially emphasized that netizens should stop ordering takeout for the "fat cat", which not only wastes food, but also affects traffic.
I have to admire the rationality of the fat cat sister, and it can be seen that the fat cat family is very kind.
Indeed, the Chongqing Yangtze River Bridge is a public place after all, and during the May Day holiday, the traffic flow is much larger than usual. With a steady stream of flower delivery and food delivery, the traffic safety risk will skyrocket.
After all, three of the five news mentioned above are all related to "getting together" travel.
The fat cat is so gentle and kind, in the spirit of heaven, he must not want another murder on the Yangtze River Bridge in Chongqing, where he committed suicide.
Of course, we can't be one-size-fits-all and think that the memorial behavior of netizens on the Yangtze River Bridge is unreasonable. On the contrary, in China's 5,000-year-old traditional rituals, the memorial to the deceased shows the sadness and regret of netizens for the fat cat, only because the fat cat's "last wish" is KFC, and China advocates the deceased to be the greatest, so there is a strange scene of "takeaway memorial".
I understand the justice of netizens to "speak up for cats", but this way is really inappropriate, and the most fatal question is: where do many netizens end up with the exquisite takeaway they buy for "fat cats"?
The answer is a trash can.
Especially now is the rainy season, the food rots very quickly, and in a few days, the Yangtze River Bridge may become a "stinky bridge".
If the "fat cat" had a spirit, what would he think in the face of so many takeaways that could only become waste in the end?
The deceased Grandpa Yuan, what was it like to see this scene?
Although the takeaway is bought at one's own expense, the resources are social. Wasting food cannot be encouraged at any time, because there are not a few people in China who do not have enough to eat.
From the perspective of the fat cat, he worked hard to make money every day, and he also made a lot of money, but he only ordered vegetarian takeout for many days, and "don't eat vegetables, eat McDonald's" has become a luxury wish.
And now, what he was reluctant to eat during his lifetime was wasted in batches, what do you think he thinks?
In fact, the commemoration activities in any era and in the context of any cultural customs are mainly the expression of the feelings of the living to the deceased.
If it is said that whether it is takeaway or flowers, it does not affect this expression, it is obvious that the flower memorial is more worthy of advocacy.
Therefore, to pay tribute to the fat cat, a bouquet of flowers is enough - both for the deceased himself and his family, as well as for kind netizens.
To pay tribute to such an extremely thrifty deceased in the "extravagant" way of ordering takeaway is obviously in conflict with the traditional thrifty value of "every grain is hard".
Finally, I mentioned that at that time, due to too many orders for sending the "Yangtze River Bridge" to the memorial service, some merchants sent empty packages or white water to deal with it, but it was exposed, and the merchants obviously violated the rights and interests of consumers.
Although the brand involved has apologized and dealt with it after being exposed, and Chabaidao also donated 1 million yuan in the name of Fat Cat, this cannot hide the moral corruption behind its business ethics, and it is difficult to take off the label of an unscrupulous merchant once it is attached.
In fact, if you have a heart, you can donate an equal amount of public welfare breakfast to children in poor mountainous areas in the name of Fat Cat.
I'm sure this kind-hearted Dreamer Summoner will be happy to see you do this, both to avoid wasting food and to pay tribute to the fat cat.
In the end, I hope that in the end, my sister can seek justice for the fat cat, and I also hope that the fat cat is under Jiuquan
If the cat has an afterlife, don't meet the fishing girl again!