Recently, something embarrassing happened, that is, the fat cat incident. This matter is making a lot of noise on the Internet, and various opinions are called a fierce one.
In other words, the fat cat wants to make his girlfriend live a little better, and there is nothing wrong with this in itself. But seeing him like this, I couldn't help but remind my relatives not to be too critical of themselves, and they were not even willing to order takeout, but they were extremely generous to their so-called girlfriends.
In fact, one of the reasons why the fat cat was deceived was that he was too obsessed with his girlfriend Tan Zhu. This Tan Zhu, his appearance is average, and he can only be said to be an ordinary person. But after plastic surgery and makeup, the temperament and face have indeed improved a lot.
There are a lot of otaku now, and they have never been in a relationship with any beautiful woman in their lives, so when they see a girl who is not bad, they will give everything they have without reservation, even if it is to do something beyond their power. If this child can meet an ordinary girl who really lives with him, then his life will definitely not be bad in the future. But then again, if he really lives, he may not be able to see it.
And this heroine is not the kind of person who will live with peace of mind, but the fat cat has always treated her like a wife, and gave her all her savings to manage the future, and thought she could live a good life, but there was nothing left.
In fact, many people are saying "love yourself" now, but in fact, many people are gradually losing the ability to love. Whether it is a boy or a girl, you must understand that loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance. Becoming beautiful is to please yourself, not to cater to or hurt others, and you can't use hue to cheat money!
Fat cats are actually a microcosm of many people in this era, because of the huge generation gap, so that the post-90s and post-00s children do not get enough love, so they don't know how to love at all, they don't know how to love themselves, and they don't know how to love others.
For love, if you are lucky enough to meet the right person, it is a salvation, if you meet those who are not right-hearted, it is to drink to quench your thirst, and moths to the fire until you are gone.
Fat cats want to find a beautiful girlfriend, which is not a problem in itself, but this kind of person, I have really seen a lot of them in real life. You say pitiful, it's pitiful, but the vast majority of you will find as soon as you come into contact with it that pity and rebellion can often appear in a person at the same time.
You can earn 510,000 yuan at the age of 21, the conditions are so good, if the woman is unwilling, or only knows how to ask for money, then she should stop the loss in time, and there is really no need to pay the price of her life.
He is indeed a person who simply gives, but he does not really understand what love is. He thinks that this relationship is love, but in fact, this so-called "love" is just his wishful thinking. When he was trampled on the bottom line and dignity of being a human being, he still blindly giving, using everything he had to maintain this illusion, and paying more and more. This kind of deformed dedication is based on deformed "love", and this deformed understanding of feelings is of course wrong!
His parents are divorced and each living their own lives, his sister has her own small family, and his sister is an anchor, and he went to tip 10,000 5 before he left. Maybe this boy just longs to have a small family of his own, and regards marrying and accompanying this girl as a kind of sustenance.
Compared to this inner desire, it is not difficult to understand why he does not prioritize self-esteem and reason so much. Everyone's value is different, and putting "altruism" before "self-interest" really can't bear to criticize him.
I can understand his mentality, that is, he lacks love and family warmth, so he regards this girl as his lifeline, hoping to get all this in her. It can only be said that for children who lack love, this is a necessary lesson.
But now the question arises, how should we view this matter? Is this a reflection of a social phenomenon? Is the case of fat cats an exception or is it common? Should we reflect on whether our society, our education, and our families have neglected some important things in the process of raising children?
Also, how should we guide young people to establish a correct outlook on love and values? Should we let them understand that love is not about blindly giving, not sacrificing oneself, but about mutual respect, mutual understanding, and mutual support?
This is really a topic worthy of our in-depth discussion, let's all express our opinions! What do you think the fat cat incident has brought us to learn? What is your understanding of love and marriage?