When it comes to the historical heroes of the People's Liberation Army, you may think of many famous generals, but the one we are going to talk about today may not be as exposed in the media as some big stars. Who is he? Qin Jiwei -- a tough guy who has left a deep mark on the torrent of history. Today we will take you to reveal the other side of this legendary general, and see how the tenderness and iron blood of this tough guy are intertwined.
Qin Jiwei, an indispensable name in Chinese military history, spent almost all of his life in combat. In 1955, Qin Jiwei was awarded the rank of lieutenant general, and in 1988, he was promoted to general. He was not only the Minister of National Defense, but also served as the commander-in-chief of the first military parade in New China, and it can be said that he made outstanding contributions. But you know what? This valiant general on the battlefield was a very low-key and typical late marryer in his private life.
Qin Jiwei's youth was almost dedicated to the battlefield. It is said that he participated in the famous Jute Uprising at the age of thirteen, was appreciated by Xu Xiangqian at the age of seventeen and became a company commander, and at the age of nineteen he was promoted to the commander of the guard regiment. Such a military resume is enough to move any military fan. However, in this way, he has a very difficult road to marriage. Qin Jiwei has missed the opportunity to get married many times because of his long time in battle, and he once laughed at himself as a "big problem".
What is even more interesting is that on the Korean battlefield, Qin Jiwei once regarded the "Katyusha" rocket launcher as his lover. The 15th Army led by him relied on the firepower of the "Katyusha" to repeatedly create battlefield miracles and even change the course of the Korean War. Such deeds are undoubtedly a manifestation of heroic colors. But Qin Jiwei always puts his personal emotional life behind the interests of the country, and he once said that he should wait for the country to settle down before thinking about personal affairs.
It was not until after the victory in the Battle of Shangganling that Qin Jiwei became a national combat hero, and in the national tour report, he met his future wife Tang Xianmei. Tang Xianmei was a staff member of the Southwest Public Security Bureau at the time, had just graduated from university, and she was graceful in appearance, and she smiled as soon as she opened her mouth. The meeting of the two can be said to be a hero meeting a beautiful woman. Although there is a gap between the two in terms of education, revolutionary qualifications and age, Tang Xianmei is full of curiosity and admiration for Qin Jiwei's revolutionary process.
The marriage of Qin Jiwei and Tang Xianmei is based on deep mutual understanding and respect. Tang Xianmei not only admires Qin Jiwei's heroic image, but also has great respect for his indomitable character and noble personality. She is a strong and independent woman herself, perfectly able to adapt to the lifestyle of a military family. Although Qin Jiwei is cold and tough outside, he has a gentleness and tolerance towards his family, especially his wife.
In Qin Jiwei's later years, he mentioned many times that his marriage to Tang Xianmei was the greatest happiness in his life. The two have experienced countless ups and downs together, and Tang Xianmei has consistently supported Qin Jiwei's career. And Qin Jiwei has never lived up to this affection, no matter how busy he is at work, he always tries to find time to reunite with his family and spend time together.
Qin Jiwei's two sons also inherited their father's mantle, and they also chose military careers, and both were promoted to lieutenant generals. This is undoubtedly a great honor and pride for the Qin family. Qin Jiwei often said that his children can inherit their careers, which is the greatest comfort and pride in his life. The two sons have not only achieved success in their careers, but they are also good fathers and husbands in the family, which makes Qin Jiwei feel even more gratified.
In Qin Jiwei's life, he was not only a hero on the battlefield, but also a pillar in the family. His combination of tough guy and warmth has made a plump and three-dimensional character. His story is not just a narrative of war, but a story of love, duty, and sacrifice. Qin Jiwei's life is a redefinition of the traditional male role, showing that even the most iron-blooded soldier has a gentle side and can find a balance between family and career.
For the majority of middle-aged male friends, Qin Jiwei's story is not only an inspiration, but also a revelation. In this rapidly changing society, no matter what kind of profession we are engaged in, we should learn from Qin Jiwei's sense of responsibility to the family, loyalty to the country, and indomitable spirit in the face of difficulties. His life teaches us that a person's worth is not only measured by professional achievement, but more importantly how he fulfills the role of a husband, a father.
Through Qin Jiwei's story, we see a man who is incomparably outstanding from the battlefield to the family. His life proves that a truly strong man can not only win glory on the battlefield, but also play every role in life. Qin Jiwei's life is a kind of inspiration and challenge for modern men, he tells us that no matter how the external environment changes, always maintain the responsibility for the family, the enthusiasm for the career and the pursuit of self-worth, is the real sign of a mature man.