Everyone, like a kite, flies on the big stage of society, but no matter how high and far they fly, there is always a thread in their hearts that connects them tightly to home.
As the old saying goes: "The family has three non-empty, and the children and grandchildren take the east wind."
It means that if these three places are not empty, the family will become more and more prosperous.
So, what exactly are these three places?
First of all, the kitchen is not empty, and the fireworks in the world are pure and happy
The kitchen is the heart of the home and the fireworks of life.
Three meals a day, firewood, rice, oil and salt, these trivial things make up our lives. No matter how much food you eat outside, it's not as good as a bowl of hot rice at home. The smell of home, in that fireworks, warms our hearts. A person who is willing to cook must be a person who loves life and cherishes his family. They convey love with food and make their homes full of warmth and happiness.
The kitchen, the source of feng shui for the home, carries the warmth of home and the breath of life.
The study is not empty, the harbor of the spirit
A table, a chair, a book and a lamp can immerse people in the ocean of knowledge and find solace in the soul.
The ancients said: "Farming and reading have been passed down for a long time, and poems and books have been passed down for a long time." ”
This is not only the admiration of knowledge, but also the adherence to family inheritance.
Zeng Guofan knows that true happiness does not lie in power and wealth, but in inner satisfaction and destiny. He encouraged his children and grandchildren to read and be sensible, because reading can help people understand the true meaning of life and find the direction of life.
A home, whether poor or rich, cannot be without the company of books. Books are the key to improving self-cultivation, changing temperament, and creating wealth, and they are the cornerstone of improving social status, educating children and grandchildren, and changing destiny. Therefore, there must be a desk and rows of neat books at home, so that learning becomes the norm of life and knowledge becomes the treasure of the family.
The bedroom is a warm place to call home
The bedroom is not empty, and the parents are always happy and healthy.
Lao She once said: "People, even if they live to be eighty or ninety years old, they can be somewhat childish if they have a mother." If you lose your loving mother, you will be like a flower in a bottle, although it still has color and fragrance, but it has lost its roots. "When our parents are there, we have a sense of dependence and belonging, and when our parents are gone, we are left with endless thoughts and memories in our hearts. Therefore, cherish the time you spend with your parents, accompany them with your heart, and fill your home with warmth and joy.
I once watched a video in which an 86-year-old mother peeled candy for her 62-year-old daughter: Dear daughter, you will always be the little girl who needs to be cared for in my eyes.
When I saw your old age, I couldn't help but feel a warm current in my heart. This scene moved countless netizens, and they envied that you still have the warmth of maternal love. Indeed, no matter how old the children grow, the mother's heart will always be on their minds.
Lin Qingxuan once said: "It is really the happiest thing in the world to let my mother hold hands." "When our parents are healthy, our hearts are full of confidence, and when our parents are happy, our lives are happier.
Honoring the elderly and allowing them to enjoy their old age in peace is our greatest blessing. Such a family can be called harmonious and prosperous.
Everyone may have a different understanding of the definition of a "happy family". But no matter how it is defined, it is inseparable from one core - home.
Home is a lively and full of fireworks;
Home is a place where books are loud and children laugh and laugh;
Home is also a noisy place where parents worry about nagging.
With home, love, people, and voice, happiness will never stop, and blessings will always be extended.
May our home always be full of joy and warmth, and may our love always accompany each other forever.