I swiped a netizen question on a social platform——
Why can't men see housework in their eyes?
Why is it that men don't seem to be able to see the housework? And it's not that they don't want to do it, but they don't realize it's time to clean up? And it's just doing what it's said, and I won't do it anymore. What to do?
This topic quickly attracted the attention and discussion of countless netizens and became the focus of heated discussions.
Everyone replied incisively, and the female netizens' hearts were stuffed![tears] But some of the replies, male netizens should be ruthlessly empathetic! [baring teeth] [flash of inspiration]
So it will cause a phenomenon, the house is dirty to the point of 3, the mother will come out to do housework, the family will never reach 4, and then there will never be a chance for the father to do housework, which has become a misunderstanding that men don't do housework [laughing and crying]
Everyone's definition of dirty mess is different[Covering your face] You think the other person is too lazy, but the result is that he doesn't reach the threshold of what he thinks he should do.
It's too real, I start cleaning the undergraduate and graduate dormitories first, I sometimes feel angry, why, I have to find a single room to rent at work.
You miscalculated, it's 52 square meters.
And your own two square meters [laughing and crying]
But... The home is for two people, and the computer is used by her alone, but as long as you both use the same computer, can you still accept her to put all the messy icons on your computer desktop, and all the software is installed in the C drive?
The car pulls you to run, and you don't run with the car! What are you tired of? [Covering his face]
I can't do anything just by driving a car?[sigh] I packed my luggage, so did my treasure, I dragged it into the car, oh, you just drive a car![Think]
It's very good, it's really worthy of being a father's intimate little anti-armor. [Think]
No, you're wrong, the clothes are actually thrown directly into the washing machine, black and white [covering face]
The man's theory is: as long as this thing can still be used, then it is normal, don't touch it, except for the computer...
After a month, there is not even the slightest displacement of all items, and no ashes fall?
The two of them are actually fine, after having children...... The destructive power of the child is amazing [covering his face]
People are brought back by you [laughing and crying] [thinking]
If you experience both work and dormitory life for a few years, it will help you a lot in your married life. [Think]
"Your computer recycle bin is full and unclear? (click on the cleaning software) The score is so low, can you bear it? What is this boot startup? Don't you feel uncomfortable? Ah! There are pop-up windows! There are pop-up windows! Aren't you blocked? Oh my God, clean up the computer when you have nothing to do, I can understand the mess on the desktop, but the things from three years ago are still on the desktop, what are you doing with the C drive? ”
Amateur organizers pass by, hanging up clothes is the most space-saving and time-saving [laughing and crying], all clothes can be hung up, underwear and socks directly put in the drawer.
You really don't need to distinguish between men and women, our family is the opposite, my husband is very diligent, I am lazy, and he still can't get used to me being idle when he works. If you have to cook a meal, you have to tell me to peel garlic, and if you have to mop the floor, you have to ask me to move the table, it's very annoying, and the king of a game calls me two or three times. Regardless of gender, many people who work just can't get used to seeing others idle. [呲tooth]
If you can make up this reason, you will win [laughs and cries]
Although it looks weird, I think it makes sense and looks familiar...... [covers face]
I suddenly remembered what I used to shout when I was a child, "Mom, don't touch my desk, I can't find anything!!
Generally, she will get a meal of women's singles, and the last time is the impact of the lion's roar [I want to be quiet]
In other words, a reliable man like him is like this, he will not be too messy, and he will not be too tidy, because there are more important things to do, but the subject may be asking the kind of man who doesn't do anything [think]
Why can't men see housework in their eyes? This is a question that is often discussed, but often not satisfactorily answered. [covers face]
In modern society, housework is no longer the exclusive responsibility of women, but should also be shared by men.
However, we can still find that many men turn a blind eye to housework, as if the huge task of housework has nothing to do with them.
Perhaps, it has something to do with our socio-cultural and gender role positioning.
For a long time, there has been a widespread concept in society that "men are in charge of the outside, and women are more responsible for the housework".
To a certain extent, this perception has influenced men's perception and attitude towards housework.
In addition, men's low participation in housework may also be related to factors such as their upbringing, family education, and social expectations.
What do you think about this? Welcome to the comment area to discuss!